i think i'm pregnant...
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how?? i dont want abort leh... i had a miscarriage before... although both mi and my bf are planning for marriage next year, and we both love to have our own kids, but we are not ready now for a kid~!!! financially not stable yet and we would like to build our career first before anything....
wah piangz~~!! i'm currently taking my degree liao leh...if really pregnant should give up studies or give up baby?? i cant bear to part with both loh... i had a hard time before coming to this stage in my studies, and both my bf and mi had our plans for our career... i very ambitious one loh....how how how???
sobb... i very confused leh... HELP~~!! -
it a life here we toking about.. pls .
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be wat it is...dun ever abort hor... u 2 should stick together and work it through...
if he insists on aborting...then wat makes u think he wont abort u one day too? -
we used to discuss that and he also strongly disagree on aborting the child.... but important factor is, how to raise the child interms of financially?? he's in his last year in studies and cant ask him give up and find job right??? how?? i really dont know what to do loh....Originally posted by sgboy2004:be wat it is...dun ever abort hor... u 2 should stick together and work it through...
if he insists on aborting...then wat makes u think he wont abort u one day too? -
If you abort ar, add that to the fact that you have had a miscarriage before, i doubt that you'll be able to give birth again.
Its a little life we're talking about, if you didn't want it, you should know better than to have unprotected sex.
What's done cannot be undone. Abortion is not a solution at all, never was (Only time when it should be considered is Rape cases).
Its argueable that they don't want to bring him up to suffer, but to abort means he doesn't even HAVE a chance to suffer... or to fight in life.
Think twice girl~ -
Keep the baby...Originally posted by _Aaron_:If you abort ar, add that to the fact that you have had a miscarriage before, i doubt that you'll be able to give birth again.
Its a little life we're talking about, if you didn't want it, you should know better than to have unprotected sex.
What's done cannot be undone. Abortion is not a solution at all, never was (Only time when it should be considered is Rape cases).
Its argueable that they don't want to bring him up to suffer, but to abort means he doesn't even HAVE a chance to suffer... or to fight in life.
Think twice girl~ -
u gotto decide urself... i personally fell that abortion is not a good choice but this kind of things better think urself... there maybe alot of anti abortion people here but dun forget no one is gonna help u bring up the baby..
my gf parents father 45 mother 40 and got shotgun... insisted on not to abort now le father 55 smallest daughter only 10 years old, financially very messy... both parents have to work no time for the smallest daughter.. end up the smallest daughter very rude de, no manners.... so if wan to give birth then be responsible. -
my mindset is i'll rather i suffer than to let my kid suffer.... i caouldnt bear to hurt anyone loh, not to mention my own flesh and blood....Originally posted by _Aaron_:If you abort ar, add that to the fact that you have had a miscarriage before, i doubt that you'll be able to give birth again.
Its a little life we're talking about, if you didn't want it, you should know better than to have unprotected sex.
What's done cannot be undone. Abortion is not a solution at all, never was (Only time when it should be considered is Rape cases).
Its argueable that they don't want to bring him up to suffer, but to abort means he doesn't even HAVE a chance to suffer... or to fight in life.
Think twice girl~
reg my miscarriage is really a big blow to mi... i didnt even know that i'm pregnant and i only realised after my accident... so both my bf and mi are very worried about this issue, that is, will this miscarriage affect my future pregnancies?? -
rely on your parents
work out an arrangement
they won't say no
pay them back when you're both workingOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:we used to discuss that and he also strongly disagree on aborting the child.... but important factor is, how to raise the child interms of financially?? he's in his last year in studies and cant ask him give up and find job right??? how?? i really dont know what to do loh.... -
go tok to the pple in social services...see how they can help lah.... sure got way out lah...Originally posted by carpe diem jur:we used to discuss that and he also strongly disagree on aborting the child.... but important factor is, how to raise the child interms of financially?? he's in his last year in studies and cant ask him give up and find job right??? how?? i really dont know what to do loh.... -
and what do you mean by
you "think"?
haven't you heard of a pregnancy test kit? -
You should ask the doctor about that. But i'm sure that if you ABORT, it will DEFINATELY affect your future pregnancies. No doubt about it.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:my mindset is i'll rather i suffer than to let my kid suffer.... i caouldnt bear to hurt anyone loh, not to mention my own flesh and blood....
reg my miscarriage is really a big blow to mi... i didnt even know that i'm pregnant and i only realised after my accident... so both my bf and mi are very worried about this issue, that is, will this miscarriage affect my future pregnancies??
I've heard stories of women having delusions after aborting their baby, and many who regretted and cried after aborting their baby... but its too late. Make the right choice today! -
i've never gotten a single cent from my parents since i was thirteen... i work and support my own expenses... my parents trust mi enuf to be dependant and not to add on to their burdens... coz my brother is the biggest headache for them, how can i expect them to fork out money when i understand that it is my responsibilities.... see??Originally posted by theSquelch:rely on your parents
work out an arrangement
they won't say no
pay them back when you're both working
i know they will help mi if i'm really in need but so far havent disappoint them yet loh... they are old already and they are still working so hard to pay for housing expenses, isnt easy for them, i really cant bear to drag anyone down at this point of time... -
What Forum 30s can offer you is afew godfather
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Go and buy a test kit first, then worry abt the rest.
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if you've decided to keep the kid
there are always solutions
since you already planned to marry next year
you can get married earlier
and when you give birth next year
your boyfriend would have graduated and would be working
Or
get married
have the baby next year
give it up for adoption
continue with both your career plansOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:i've never gotten a single cent from my parents since i was thirteen... i work and support my own expenses... my parents trust mi enuf to be dependant and not to add on to their burdens... coz my brother is the biggest headache for them, how can i expect them to fork out money when i understand that it is my responsibilities.... see??
i know they will help mi if i'm really in need but so far havent disappoint them yet loh... they are old already and they are still working so hard to pay for housing expenses, isnt easy for them, i really cant bear to drag anyone down at this point of time... -
Yea. If all of you who cares chip in about 20-30 a month, add that to the incentives the government is providing, and she'll be fine~Originally posted by F.O.S:What Forum 30s can offer you is afew godfather
Right girl, the government introduced some incentives lately, i forgot about them but they should tide you for a few years.. -
haha
if this offer comes with monthly cash allowance
then i think yours is the most helpful post so farOriginally posted by F.O.S:What Forum 30s can offer you is afew godfather -
Either, get married, keep the baby... Go for studies while your bf take care of bb (Since it is his fault)Originally posted by theSquelch:if you've decided to keep the kid
there are always solutions
since you already planned to marry next year
you can get married earlier
and when you give birth next year
your boyfriend would have graduated and would be working
Or
get married
have the baby next year
give it up for adoption
continue with both your career plans -
i had the same symptoms as i had before my miscarriage but last time i wasnt aware that those are the possible symptoms.... i was happy and sad... i intend to get a pregnancy kit later after sch.... praying for the best~~!!Originally posted by theSquelch:and what do you mean by
you "think"?
haven't you heard of a pregnancy test kit? -
where to find?? who to seek for?Originally posted by sgboy2004:go tok to the pple in social services...see how they can help lah.... sure got way out lah... -
can u be croco's godfather too?Originally posted by F.O.S:What Forum 30s can offer you is afew godfather
*stick out hands to ask for $$$$* -
thank you... i am serious!! and i need a RICH one....Originally posted by F.O.S:What Forum 30s can offer you is afew godfather -
ya rite... so tts another term for sugar daddies......Originally posted by F.O.S:What Forum 30s can offer you is afew godfather
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Dear Auntie and Uncle in Forum 30s
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