talk abt being fair
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this morning i took a piece of ham from the fridge to eat because i was waiting for my mum to be ready to either cook or buy breakfast but i noticed it tasted funny and looked at the expiry date, it was expired. so i threw back the back in a hurry to spit the piece of ham and rinsed my mouth. i told told them clearly and loudly that the ham is expired. but my ultra intelligent mum said it was ok to eat. expired by 4 days u tell me it's ok?
my mum cooked something for breakfast for anyone to eat. because i didnt ask her to add an egg to my noodles, i took a piece of ham from that plate which she claims that is cooked only a few minutes ago. i didnt know where the ham came from and i ate it.
now, i got this bad discomfort in my stomach and my abdomen.
i went down and asked her did she use the ham from the pack in the fridge and she said yes and i pointed out the date to her and still had the cheek to tell me it's ok to eat. i argued back saying that there's something called an expiry date and a very good reason why ppl find ways and means to determine the expiry date of a certain product. even though u cook it and kill all the bacteria, there's something called heat-stable toxins
then my dad told me to shut up, when i am clearly the vic here. my mum still can tell me " the sausage is ok right " for all u know her hands are dirty.
oh...i am the vic here and my dad tells me to shut up. when someone else is in the wrong. then he shouts at me and keep mentioning abt my studies.whenever he wants to scold me, he no matter what will mention whatever things i cock up since the day i was born. from PSLE, o levels to 3mins before time of incident.
why not look at the mirror, DAD? if i am a failure, so are u DAD!
till now whenever we have a fight, he ends it all with my refusal to study medicine. yet he is the same clown who persisted in forcing me into this course i am in now.
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is that a reply ?
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hmm... maybe u shd talk it over with ur mum nicely... even though she wouldn;t listen... explain to her nicely...
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this is not the first time she or anyone else purposely ignored the expiry date and eat even though we explained it to her over and over and over and over and over again.Originally posted by weidev:hmm... maybe u shd talk it over with ur mum nicely... even though she wouldn;t listen... explain to her nicely...
i mean this is as simple as reading a date. i mean how diff can it get ? -
Originally posted by bismarck:is that a reply ? Just to let you know that we read your story...
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Originally posted by Parka: Just to let you know that we read your story...
erm. there's no need to? -
ppl older don like to waste food one of the reason due cos they have went through a period where they had limited food to eat... tat's y they feel tat wasting food is nt good and thus wld prefer to eat even though it is pass its expiry date... i shd noe cos my grandma have a habit of eating bread pass its expiry date... cos she went through WW2 n knew hw precious food is... so it is our duty tat we take care of them... since u knew the ham was bad... y din u threw it away? but instead u threw it back into the fridge? partly u r to blame as well... sometimes u nid to put urself into their position... u will understand better... and have a better relationship with them...Originally posted by bismarck:this is not the first time she or anyone else purposely ignored the expiry date and eat even though we explained it to her over and over and over and over and over again.
i mean this is as simple as reading a date. i mean how diff can it get ?
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Originally posted by bismarck:
erm. there's no need to? 
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i was in a hurry to spit tht thing out of my mouthOriginally posted by weidev:ppl older don like to waste food one of the reason due cos they have went through a period where they had limited food to eat... tat's y they feel tat wasting food is nt good and thus wld prefer to eat even though it is pass its expiry date... i shd noe cos my grandma have a habit of eating bread pass its expiry date... cos she went through WW2 n knew hw precious food is... so it is our duty tat we take care of them... since u knew the ham was bad... y din u threw it away? but instead u threw it back into the fridge? partly u r to blame as well... sometimes u nid to put urself into their position... u will understand better... and have a better relationship with them... -
there's no need to tell me u've read...Originally posted by Parka: -
then after spitting y din u threw it away? since u noe ur mum's pattern... make it a habit to check the food in the fridge often... and throw away food tat had spoilt... then u nid nt go through the same ordeal again... compromise... since she cooks for u... u check the quality of the food...Originally posted by bismarck:i was in a hurry to spit tht thing out of my mouth -
she always keep spoilt food in the fridge.Originally posted by weidev:then after spitting y din u threw it away? since u noe ur mum's pattern... make it a habit to check the food in the fridge often... and throw away food tat had spoilt... then u nid nt go through the same ordeal again... compromise... since she cooks for u... u check the quality of the food...
when we want to throw away, she sure make alot of noise. or scold us.
whenever we want to clear the fridge we always have to wait till she isnt in then we clear.
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so do u prefer an empty fridge or a fridge full with spoilt food? the decision is yours...Originally posted by bismarck:she always keep spoilt food in the fridge.
when we want to throw away, she sure make alot of noise. or scold us.
whenever we want to clear the fridge we always have to wait till she isnt in then we clear.
after clearing, the fridge looks like a desert. so few things
after u clear the fridge... u can buy new stuff and fill up the fridge... do it on a regular basis... better still... go grocery shopping with ur mum... build up the relationship... seriously u can learn quite a few things too... -
I used to have FAIR skin when I was a baby...
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Originally posted by Bontakun:I used to have FAIR skin when I was a baby...
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Da connection here is dat: No matter wat U do, NOT every1 can tink da same as u do, thus da differences.Originally posted by weidev:
any connection?
I used to have fair skin, but as time goes by I cannot keep dat fair skin due to commitment in playing.
There is no need to tok wats fair or not. Juz try to understand dis. Tyr to tink in da person's shoes whom U r toking to... in dis case, da dad may have diff tinking due to some reasons. U r not him dats y U 2 SURE will argue coz U 2 disagree.
But at least U noe da dad is dat pattern. Juz accept it. If U tink da food is expired, can kindly reject & let yr dad eat it!
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actually wat i feel is from time to time, there is a need to take in some "bad" food so that your body immune system can sorta like "grow"...
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i agree with watever u said except for the part where the dad eats the food... rather than letting him be... explain to him the consequences... and if he doesn't listen... don argue with him... but rather let a professional talk to him... more credibility...Originally posted by Bontakun:Da connection here is dat: No matter wat U do, NOT every1 can tink da same as u do, thus da differences.
I used to have fair skin, but as time goes by I cannot keep dat fair skin due to commitment in playing.
There is no need to tok wats fair or not. Juz try to understand dis. Tyr to tink in da person's shoes whom U r toking to... in dis case, da dad may have diff tinking due to some reasons. U r not him dats y U 2 SURE will argue coz U 2 disagree.
But at least U noe da dad is dat pattern. Juz accept it. If U tink da food is expired, can kindly reject & let yr dad eat it! -
la sap jia, la sap toa?Originally posted by s|nNeD:actually wat i feel is from time to time, there is a need to take in some "bad" food so that your body immune system can sorta like "grow"...
its just my perception and i am not representing anybody... -
hahahahahaOriginally posted by weidev:i agree with watever u said except for the part where the dad eats the food... rather than letting him be... explain to him the consequences... and if he doesn't listen... don argue with him... but rather let a professional talk to him... more credibility...
There r times when a person is stubborn, & happen yr kind lecture cannot drill into his head. So~~~ instead of further drilling, let him taste da consequence.
U realli understand wat I toking? I made it up leh...
Lolx!!!
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I kinda agree... to let yr body adapt to such conditions rite? I ate many "spoilt" food which resulted in my weak digestion... so I have tendancy to lao sai quite easily...Originally posted by s|nNeD:actually wat i feel is from time to time, there is a need to take in some "bad" food so that your body immune system can sorta like "grow"...
its just my perception and i am not representing anybody...