"If you don't propose me next year, i'll....
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hope there aren't any Catberts in the making
Originally posted by jOhO:hmm lemme try to recall... HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGEMENT?
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Originally posted by jOhO:hmm lemme try to recall... HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGEMENT?
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worried about me?!?Originally posted by Maya061:hi jojo (can i call u jojo now..haha..
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me is doing just fine. it's u that i'm worried about..too much work, eh ?
okie..will go talk to my friend abt this matter
but think they both will be just fine (i hope).
yeah i'm on ammoxillin now.. eheh fighting off a bad throat. the medicine probably works to counter the cigarettes.. =X
anywayz, yeah no worry lar, it's good to be busy! the prob is, when u're busy but decide to be lazy... wah that one die man...
hope things are fine with u too! -
yup...
it's a wonderous mystery which us guys will forever be mesmerised with
strange thing.. weddings... the bride should be the centre of everyone's attention... but sometimes, you can also see the sheer joy in the groom's eyes...Originally posted by jOhO:yo bear, good to see hope in any reln. that's rare these days, keep it alive!
on the contrary tho, i wouldn't go so far as using marriage as an ultimatum no matter how much love there is?!?
every couple is different i guess. and us males, prob won't ever fully understand how a woman feels when she's getting older and not knowing if she'll be married.
u should see how happy a bride is on her day. it's not about the groom at all, trust me. -
yeah, ladies, sometimes we really mean it when we say, i'm happy when you're happy.Originally posted by the Bear:yup...
it's a wonderous mystery which us guys will forever be mesmerised with
strange thing.. weddings... the bride should be the centre of everyone's attention... but sometimes, you can also see the sheer joy in the groom's eyes...
it can be that simple. -
hmm...still a heavy smoker, eh ?Originally posted by jOhO:worried about me?!?
yeah i'm on ammoxillin now.. eheh fighting off a bad throat. the medicine probably works to counter the cigarettes.. =X
anywayz, yeah no worry lar, it's good to be busy! the prob is, when u're busy but decide to be lazy... wah that one die man...
hope things are fine with u too!
hope, u're getting well soon. drink A LOT of warm water, k ?
i know that there're some guys, when u (try to) force them into a marriage, they'll run fm you..
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whoaa..makes me wanna hv my own wedding soon...Originally posted by the Bear:yup...
it's a wonderous mystery which us guys will forever be mesmerised with
strange thing.. weddings... the bride should be the centre of everyone's attention... but sometimes, you can also see the sheer joy in the groom's eyes... -
Don't shortchange it!
Regardless of watever terms used ... it's all about people skills and ... ahem twisting the men round our little fingersOriginally posted by jOhO:hmm lemme try to recall... HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGEMENT? -
oh yah confirm (on both statements!)Originally posted by Maya061:hmm...still a heavy smoker, eh ?
hope, u're getting well soon. drink A LOT of warm water, k ?
i know that there're some guys, when u (try to) force them into a marriage, they'll run fm you..
i guess it's all about choosing well, cos pple are all different.
i sit next to a 34 yr old female colleague in a reln for the past 7 years? and doesn't intend to get married. i said kids leh? she say dun wan, even if want, also no need to be married mar.
and she's not those open-minded, ang-moh, type of girl. just ur regular girl next door working in a regular company sitting next to a regular guy (that's me!) -
Not usually joy, but pride.Originally posted by the Bear:yup...
it's a wonderous mystery which us guys will forever be mesmerised with
strange thing.. weddings... the bride should be the centre of everyone's attention... but sometimes, you can also see the sheer joy in the groom's eyes...
Men used marriage as a marking for successful lifestyle.
A bride is happy due to the fact driven by a madness in a believe that the male will be able to provide for her in case of needs. She has someone to lean onto....
Their mindset about their pillars is just .... *sigh* -
there's a song in there somewhere too...
ahh.. the Police..
you consider me a young apprentice
caught between the Scylla and Charybdis
hynoptised by you if i should linger
staring at the ring around your finger...Originally posted by choco B: Don't shortchange it!
Regardless of watever terms used ... it's all about people skills and ... ahem twisting the men round our little fingers -
haha ur first line started off with me nodding too... but then after that,.... lolOriginally posted by Nelstar:Not usually joy, but pride.
Men used marriage as a marking for successful lifestyle.
A bride is happy due to the fact driven by a madness in a believe that the male will be able to provide for her in case of needs. She has someone to lean onto....
Their mindset about their pillars is just .... *sigh*
i guess u're just a little cynical. nvm lar.. fairy tales can come true! -
btw.. i still dunno who's the fella ahhaha.. from forum? totally not updated man..Originally posted by Maya061:whoaa..makes me wanna hv my own wedding soon... -
huh?
some maybe.. not and never for this bear
if i do get hitched, it'll be sheer unadulterated JOYOriginally posted by Nelstar:Not usually joy, but pride.
Men used marriage as a marking for successful lifestyle.
A bride is happy due to the fact driven by a madness in a believe that the male will be able to provide for her in case of needs. She has someone to lean onto....
Their mindset about their pillars is just .... *sigh* -
then it loops back to the part in RED rite?Originally posted by Maya061:think marriage isn't as simple as getting ROM only. the life after ROM, where'll u live (whether it's with his/ur parents/ur own apt), cost of living, and blah blah blah..
im not sure of the gal's definition of "getting married"....
is it jus going to ROM to "secure" the guy to her or is it the type where u get new house, new furniture and living together officially?
i know of couples who ROM first.....the apartment and the dinner and watever comes after a couple of yrs.....probably due to the lead time to apply flat and all tt....and meanwhile still continue working and saving for the BIG DAY thingy...... -
ok.. a thot just came in my head.. but i think i better keep it to myself. u know, about fingers and twisting...Originally posted by choco B: Don't shortchange it!
Regardless of watever terms used ... it's all about people skills and ... ahem twisting the men round our little fingers -
well..true, that it's all about ur own choices.Originally posted by jOhO:oh yah confirm (on both statements!)
i guess it's all about choosing well, cos pple are all different.
i sit next to a 34 yr old female colleague in a reln for the past 7 years? and doesn't intend to get married. i said kids leh? she say dun wan, even if want, also no need to be married mar.
and she's not those open-minded, ang-moh, type of girl. just ur regular girl next door working in a regular company sitting next to a regular guy (that's me!)
if just the style (or whatever we call it) of living in indo is abt the same as in sg (more open minded ppl).
last week, 2 of my friends (both are younger than me) got married. one even only has a short term r/s (less than a year). then my other friend who's oredi in 11 years r/s still...has not married yet (and begin to upset now).
i'm pretty open minded one, dun mind staying with my bf (w/o marriage) as long as we both are happy. but surely my parents will kill me if i do so.
and sometimes (not always), it's the parents who want the weeding. not the children
and joho..u r not just a regular guy.. -
Not really cynical.Originally posted by jOhO:haha ur first line started off with me nodding too... but then after that,.... lol
i guess u're just a little cynical. nvm lar.. fairy tales can come true!
Divorce rates is increasing because of inability to accept roles and increasing expenditure.
Money is usually the cause and with proper family planning.... that should never had happened.
Fairy tales? Marriage made in heaven? The pauper marrying the princess or the poor damsel marrying the prince?
That only happen when they can be more responsible and work on building their little castles. Rather than pushing the responsibilities like Taiji Masters. -
*laffs Totally! *crraaac-c-ck*
But then, in every relationship (lovers, friends, colleagues, etc) there is mutual influence, there is compromise, and sacrifice. Just overt or subconscious... and sometimes pleasant, other times nasty.
Ultimately, I guess as long as people are happily in watever situation they end up in, it's all good.Originally posted by jOhO:ok.. a thot just came in my head.. but i think i better keep it to myself. u know, about fingers and twisting... -
wah stress leh.Originally posted by Nelstar:Not really cynical.
Divorce rates is increasing because of inability to accept roles and increasing expenditure.
Money is usually the cause and with proper family planning.... that should never had happened.
Fairy tales? Marriage made in heaven? The pauper marrying the princess or the poor damsel marrying the prince?
That only happen when they can be more responsible and work on building their little castles. Rather than pushing the responsibilities like Taiji Masters.
yeah i guess there's a pretty urm THICK(?) line between ideals and facts. but then if there's no hope, then this world is doomed.. -
actually FI, i hv the same thought also. the banquet can wait. just settle down, first. money will come eventually (do you belive that after marriage, money will be easier to come. well..my frinds who's oredi got married said so, whether it's their husbands get promoted, get better job, etc.).Originally posted by FireIce:then it loops back to the part in RED rite?
im not sure of the gal's definition of "getting married"....
is it jus going to ROM to "secure" the guy to her or is it the type where u get new house, new furniture and living together officially?
i know of couples who ROM first.....the apartment and the dinner and watever comes after a couple of yrs.....probably due to the lead time to apply flat and all tt....and meanwhile still continue working and saving for the BIG DAY thingy......
but...sometimes...the parents want to invite this and that and that and and and...and eventually..must invite +500 people..wow.... sure if the parents will pay for it... but if not, then how ?
well..back to the couple themselves..what do they want actually ? -
oh yeah.. families get too involved in weddings sometimes..Originally posted by Maya061:well..true, that it's all about ur own choices.
if just the style (or whatever we call it) of living in indo is abt the same as in sg (more open minded ppl).
last week, 2 of my friends (both are younger than me) got married. one even only has a short term r/s (less than a year). then my other friend who's oredi in 11 years r/s still...has not married yet (and begin to upset now).
i'm pretty open minded one, dun mind staying with my bf (w/o marriage) as long as we both are happy. but surely my parents will kill me if i do so.
and sometimes (not always), it's the parents who want the weeding. not the children
and joho..u r not just a regular guy..
ahha maya u're always so sweet. not regular then wat? extra large? -
oh i like that phrase.. it's all good.. mmmmmmmmmmmm....Originally posted by choco B:*laffs Totally! *crraaac-c-ck*
But then, in every relationship (lovers, friends, colleagues, etc) there is mutual influence, there is compromise, and sacrifice. Just overt or subconscious... and sometimes pleasant, other times nasty.
Ultimately, I guess as long as people are happily in watever situation they end up in, it's all good. -
let me see you first, then i can tell exactly..Originally posted by jOhO:oh yeah.. families get too involved in weddings sometimes..
ahha maya u're always so sweet. not regular then wat? extra large?
hey, next time i come again, i really hope u've free time to meet me.
so bad last time cannot meet. u're the one that i've been waiting to see...
well..get well soon then. dun overworked. must take care urself, or there's someone taking care of u oredi ? *i heard a rumour* haha.. -
hhaahah yeah it's exactly that, a rumour. oh well..Originally posted by Maya061:let me see you first, then i can tell exactly..
hey, next time i come again, i really hope u've free time to meet me.
so bad last time cannot meet. u're the one that i've been waiting to see...
well..get well soon then. dun overworked. must take care urself, or there's someone taking care of u oredi ? *i heard a rumour* haha..
anywayz eh.. i thot i asked who the fella is in a post up there? conveniently forget to ans ar? or i blind?
yes yes yes i'll meet u, so sorry about the other time, i knew i had something on just can't remember wat now.. was in may rite? yeah i had 4 shoots in two weeks. was shooting on my bday too, which is end may, no celebration for me this year.