Don't misunderstand my look.Originally posted by keisha:if you would like to know, contraceptive is perfectly normal and its a way of taking care of the gal's body against unwanted pregnancy. of cos for people who are married or in a relationship, and is sexually active, they will consider a contraceptive method. nothing is wrong wth tat. so dun have to give me tat face...
oh man, which century are we living in now?
i agree. but its troublesome lahOriginally posted by sweetoof:I still think rubber is good.. no side effects watsoever. use once and throw..
Where got troublesome!!!?Originally posted by keisha:i agree. but its troublesome lah
yah lor hor......how come i'm willing to go thru the trouble huh? so not me. some more not requested one, i took the initiative oneOriginally posted by tare:hahhaaa... use once and throw, so disposable!!
personally I prefer this lah... Pills and other stuffs got too much side effects for my liking... plus why must I run all the risks of side effects while he just enjoy? he want enjoyment, he must be willing to go thru some form of "trouble"...
u juz spoke my mind. not possibleOriginally posted by eutjin:not possible but, yes, this is one way ......
Actually you're a very good gf....i don't don't know how to put it across.Originally posted by keisha:yah lor hor......how come i'm willing to go thru the trouble huh? so not me. some more not requested one, i took the initiative one
i'm juz being open mah. why must keep a goody goody front? yucks! tat is disgusting. i'm in a relationship, and i dun wan unwanted pregnancy, so use a contraceptive method lor.Originally posted by M?square:Don't misunderstand my look.
This is a very interesting topic since you are being honest to the forumites about your lifestyle. Kinda shocked initially....cosh many of the forumites liked to keep their goody goody side alive.
So....i fine with contraceptive lah!
If i have a gf the next time who's that willing....i would encourage her to seek advice from you.
its my body we r toking about here. if i were to get pregnant, or have to go for an abortion, its my body tat will suffer, not anyone esle. so if i dun take care of it, who will?Originally posted by M?square:Actually you're a very good gf....i don't don't know how to put it across.
Just impressed that you took the effort to consider all kinds of contraceptive.
Hmm...yeah you're right.Originally posted by keisha:its my body we r toking about here. if i were to get pregnant, or have to go for an abortion, its my body tat will suffer, not anyone esle. so if i dun take care of it, who will?
n i definately think by the time a gal accidentally gets pregnant, its too late to cry and regret liao.
u juz dun get it, do u? if i wanna take precaution, means i wanna take care of my body, not please him.Originally posted by M?square:Hmm...yeah you're right.
I mean if you're even thinking about taking precautions, that means you want to please your boyfriend right?
Ok, to be honest. My ex would rather not make out without any condom.
She'll just go and sleep.
That's the way some girls take care of their body.
Its true the pill nowadays are really safe! Unlike in the 80s, when they have'nt quite refined the pill as yet, now in the 21st century, these pills can do wonders as mentioned above as well as help keep pimples away!Originally posted by jOhO:my previous gf was on the pill and it worked wonders for her. regulated her cycle and reduced her cramps (yeah believe it or not).
and of course, she never got pregnant.
as for woman doing all the work for contraception (tare? hehehe) if there is a male pill that works (i think they are working on it) then pls let me know. i'll pop one in just before i light up a ciggy every morning.
i've been so crank tat i shouted at my operations manager juz now man am i in deep shit or wat. but i apologised after tat, and laugh it away wth her. but still it wasn't nice of me to do tat.Originally posted by the Bear:anyway, forget about the people who are out of point...
from whatever i know about, if the couple are physically okay, short of surgery, the IUD is a good method as it is a physical barrier, and the side-effects are short-termed as it is a matter of the lady getting used to it...
no drugs or chemicals involved... but still there's that 1 to 5% chance..
the rest of the pills and stuff will have side-effects.. as you're experiencing now...
physical barriers are awkward unless there are the more semi-permanent ones.. like the one i mentioned...
hey! not bad for a catholic guy huh?
is she lucky or wat -_-"Originally posted by jOhO:my previous gf was on the pill and it worked wonders for her. regulated her cycle and reduced her cramps (yeah believe it or not).
and of course, she never got pregnant.
as for woman doing all the work for contraception (tare? hehehe) if there is a male pill that works (i think they are working on it) then pls let me know. i'll pop one in just before i light up a ciggy every morning.
sorry hor I dun do the work... too lazy liao..... *roll away*Originally posted by jOhO:as for woman doing all the work for contraception (tare? hehehe) if there is a male pill that works (i think they are working on it) then pls let me know. i'll pop one in just before i light up a ciggy every morning.
this only works if the gal's period is at least 90% predicable. thus this is NEVER works for me lah....Originally posted by Poolman:Oh ! Sorry to disturb !
My mrs got formula leh ! I dunno how far how true ...but so far , 4 years after our first baby , til now , that "Calender" safety method is quite effective for us !
For instance like....1-7 of the month - mensus ! 8 -13 is the most fertile , most dangerous period , avoid "shooting " inside !
Then from 14-31 onwards , it's safe to do anything !
No pain , no side effects , no medications , no euipment insertions , there's risk involve , low if carefully plan !
Anyway... you all think wanna get pregnant easy ah ?
I saw from an article , a woman out of the 30 days , maybe only 3 healthy days will get pregnant ! Healthy is a way , no stress , no fatigue , no smoking , plus the man himself has to be healthy too !
Pregnant happens to both healthy party !
Cheers !