~ Love & Sex ~

• Maya061

  26 Mar 04, 13:38

  First... i know this question is kinda lame or wad ...but pls tell me..
  what's the meaning of the word "sex" in your mind ?
  
  And then....tell me again..
  Issit possible to have sex without love ? ~ according to some surveys on some mags, possible for men ~
  
  Or isst possible --> love but no sex pls...
  
  PS : I've asked the moderator for this topic and he said it's okay
  
• weidev

  26 Mar 04, 13:54

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  First... i know this question is kinda lame or wad ...but pls tell me..
  what's the meaning of the word "sex" in your mind ?
  
  And then....tell me again..
  Issit possible to have sex without love ? ~ according to some surveys on some mags, possible for men ~
  
  Or isst possible --> love but no sex pls...
  
  PS : I've asked the moderator for this topic and he said it's okay
  
  sex=gender?
  sex w/o love? possible... look at prositutes(sp?)...
  love without sex? also possible...
  
  

• I-like-flings(m)

  26 Mar 04, 14:03

  sex=screw screw and more screwing
  
  sex without love=sure why not, u happy i happy what
  
  love without sex=sure, u love that person not her hole, right?
  
  guys separate love and sex;
  love=use big head to think
  sex=use d.i.c.k head to think
  
  but dunno why gals always link them together... maybe they dun have the d.i.c.k head so cannot think separately one lor..
• dreamer81$

  26 Mar 04, 15:23

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  First... i know this question is kinda lame or wad ...but pls tell me..
  what's the meaning of the word "sex" in your mind ?
  
  And then....tell me again..
  Issit possible to have sex without love ? ~ according to some surveys on some mags, possible for men ~
  
  Or isst possible --> love but no sex pls...
  
  PS : I've asked the moderator for this topic and he said it's okay
  
  

  sex is an action of love... between a couple... usually an rightfully after marriage..
  
  sex without love is possible.. in the case of prostitution.. usually the case of men..
  
  possible again for love without sex... being in love doen't mean have to have sex.. love as in emotionally, and mentally.. there's more to love than sex..
  
  
• foga

  26 Mar 04, 15:27

  if no feelings were involved,it's sex
  
  if there's feelings involved, it's making love.
• Bontakun

  26 Mar 04, 16:46

  Originally posted by Maya061:
  First... i know this question is kinda lame or wad ...but pls tell me..
  what's the meaning of the word "sex" in your mind ?
  
  And then....tell me again..
  Issit possible to have sex without love ? ~ according to some surveys on some mags, possible for men ~
  
  Or isst possible --> love but no sex pls...
  
  PS : I've asked the moderator for this topic and he said it's okay
  
  What is "sex"? Go to www.m-w.com, type "sex" & click to find it... Sure got detailed explaination on dis word.
  
  Sex without love? Dis is called ONS or any other related things. It was PROVEN possible. But not every1 can accept it... Some more chances of getting diseases r hi dis wae...
  
  Love without sex? There r many cases where U see couples who r well very happy without sex... but not every1 can do it...
  
  Maybe U shld watch da movie "Good Times, Bed Times" starring Louis Koo, Sammi Cheng & Lau Ching Wan...
  

• Maya061

  26 Mar 04, 21:12

  thank you for the answers guys..
  
  any opinion from the gals ?
  
  so..sex without love is possible...yup..just see the prostitues and..gigolo.. so not only men lor..women also..
  
  love without sex..of course possible mah..i've experienced before ..well.. perhaps at that moment we weren't thinking about it ..i dunno..
  but you know what..when i experience more n more n more .... some guys really think only about sex and they often use the words.."if u dun wanna sleep (have sex) with me means u dun love me lor.." or even use this .."we'll get married eventually however, so do it now or later, won't make any difference."
  
  well...maybe for some of you guys here..it doesn't matter. ur husband still can accept if u have had sex before with ur exs. here...in indo i mean..some oredi can accept but some...i dun think so. however..they still want to see the virgin blood in the first night....
  weird ? but it's true...
  
• shan_cai

  26 Mar 04, 21:17

  Sex wif love = makin love...
  Sex without love = purely fcukin...
  
  If u reali love tat person, u wil make love wif him willinly de... It all happens naturally...
  
  Like wat they said, sex without love, yes, there r. --Guys who juz wanna fcuk eg. ONS; n prostitutes loh, who make a livin by tat...
• HENG@

  26 Mar 04, 22:07

  sex is a cumulation of love, sort of like, the sacred binding of 2 people who love each other.
• thhong22

  26 Mar 04, 22:15

  Originally posted by shan_cai:

  Sex wif love = makin love...
  Sex without love = purely fcukin...
  
  If u reali love tat person, u wil make love wif him willinly de... It all happens naturally...
  
  Like wat they said, sex without love, yes, there r. --Guys who juz wanna fcuk eg. ONS; n prostitutes loh, who make a livin by tat...

  x 2
  for me i think only sex with love then u will reali enjoy it....
  it will bring u n ur love one more closely not only physically, but oso mentally......
• Maya061

  8 Apr 04, 14:57

  Originally posted by thhong22:

  x 2
  for me i think only sex with love then u will reali enjoy it....
  it will bring u n ur love one more closely not only physically, but oso mentally......

  hmmm...does it mean when u hv sex with the one u love, ur feelings for him will be increase...i mean..u'll love him more, miss him more, and more more more.. rather than when u dun hv sex with him ?
  
• <sk>

  8 Apr 04, 15:05

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  hmmm...does it mean when u hv sex with the one u love, ur feelings for him will be increase...i mean..u'll love him more, miss him more, and more more more.. rather than when u dun hv sex with him ?
  

  I think you have sex with someone you have feelings for, ie like might not be love... you will grow an emotional and phyiscal attraction towards him.
• keisha

  9 Apr 04, 08:07

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  First... i know this question is kinda lame or wad ...but pls tell me..
  what's the meaning of the word "sex" in your mind ?
  
  And then....tell me again..
  Issit possible to have sex without love ? ~ according to some surveys on some mags, possible for men ~
  
  Or isst possible --> love but no sex pls...
  
  PS : I've asked the moderator for this topic and he said it's okay
  

  sex could be sex wth luv or without luv.
  
  sex wth luv is call making luv, sex without luv is simply call farking. both male and female are capable of both actions.
  
  but for most women, i should say sex is more of emotions, the feeling of being close to tat special someone. for most men, sex is juz sex, more of physical needs.
  
  but i also heard from a lot of guys tat sex without luv for them is simply a need to satisfy their sexual desire. like one nite stands, and flings or even prositutes. but wth someon tat they luv, sex IS different, cos feelings are involve. there's more kissing and hugging n stuff. but if no feelings are involve, its juz cover the face and bomb the base for the guys.
  
  n some couples do sustain from sex untill after marriage. tats luv without sex.
• Maya061

  12 Apr 04, 18:28

  Originally posted by keisha:

  sex could be sex wth luv or without luv.
  
  sex wth luv is call making luv, sex without luv is simply call farking. both male and female are capable of both actions.
  
  but for most women, i should say sex is more of emotions, the feeling of being close to tat special someone. for most men, sex is juz sex, more of physical needs.
  
  but i also heard from a lot of guys tat sex without luv for them is simply a need to satisfy their sexual desire. like one nite stands, and flings or even prositutes. but wth someon tat they luv, sex IS different, cos feelings are involve. there's more kissing and hugging n stuff. but if no feelings are involve, its juz cover the face and bomb the base for the guys.
  
  n some couples do sustain from sex untill after marriage. tats luv without sex.

  i like ur explanation
  
  i just found out (my friend and i) that sometimes...when u had sex with ur bf then u broke up...u'd regret that why u had sex with him in the first place. and sometimes..it could give u the feeling that..u hate him .. or issit only my friend and i ? maybe we had a terrible experience...
  
  well...i think if i dun love that person, i wouldn't be able to hv sex with him (in any forms). just like what kitten said..sex is more of emotions for women...
• keisha

  14 Apr 04, 05:51

  so now i sound like a sexpert??
• the Bear

  14 Apr 04, 05:54

  i think i'm more feminine than i thought
  
  

  Originally posted by keisha:

  but for most women, i should say sex is more of emotions, the feeling of being close to tat special someone. for most men, sex is juz sex, more of physical needs.
  

• ^sylvia^

  14 Apr 04, 05:57

  Originally posted by dreamer81$:

  sex is an action of love... between a couple... usually an rightfully after marriage..
  
  sex without love is possible.. in the case of prostitution.. usually the case of men..
  
  possible again for love without sex... being in love doen't mean have to have sex.. love as in emotionally, and mentally.. there's more to love than sex..
  
  

  x2
• ^sylvia^

  14 Apr 04, 06:01

  Originally posted by keisha:

  sex could be sex wth luv or without luv.
  
  sex wth luv is call making luv, sex without luv is simply call farking. both male and female are capable of both actions.
  
  but for most women, i should say sex is more of emotions, the feeling of being close to tat special someone. for most men, sex is juz sex, more of physical needs.
  
  but i also heard from a lot of guys tat sex without luv for them is simply a need to satisfy their sexual desire. like one nite stands, and flings or even prositutes. but wth someon tat they luv, sex IS different, cos feelings are involve. there's more kissing and hugging n stuff. but if no feelings are involve, its juz cover the face and bomb the base for the guys.
  
  n some couples do sustain from sex untill after marriage. tats luv without sex.

  x2 x2
• Maya061

  14 Apr 04, 11:09

  Originally posted by keisha:

  so now i sound like a sexpert??

  if i got any question abt sex ..i'd definitely run to you
  we dun hv much experience here and if we do..it's kinda taboo to talk abt. it openly here...we're so shy shy shy here , unless really best friends..that..we also only talk on the surface, would never tell the details one..
• NeonTetra

  14 Apr 04, 11:10

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  if i got any question abt sex ..i'd definitely run to you
  we dun hv much experience here and if we do..it's kinda taboo to talk abt. it openly here...we're so shy shy shy here , unless really best friends..that..we also only talk on the surface, would never tell the details one..

  wha...memang orang indonesia konservative ya?
• Maya061

  14 Apr 04, 11:13

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  i think i'm more feminine than i thought
  
  

  i'm sure you are, honey
  whoever got Bear is indeed a lucky one
• Maya061

  14 Apr 04, 11:21

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  wha...memang orang indonesia konservative ya?

  haha..not all of them. some oredi very very open. maybe it just me n my friends
• NeonTetra

  14 Apr 04, 11:22

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  haha..not all of them. some oredi very very open. maybe it just me n my friends

  o begitu....mengapa tidak mau lebih buka (more open)? hahhaha
• Maya061

  14 Apr 04, 11:53

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  o begitu....mengapa tidak mau lebih buka (more open)? hahhaha

  "lebih terbuka"
  
  hmmm...i'm only open to my bf. cannot be soooo open to others
• NeonTetra

  14 Apr 04, 11:55

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  "lebih terbuka"
  
  hmmm...i'm only open to my bf. cannot be soooo open to others

  wha.....
  
  ujian besar bahasa indonesia saya akan datang...kuatir sekali