~ guys : what things that could make u really angry ? ~
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hi !
i'm just curious recently since my b/f is really nice to me, he's very patient, n i dunno what things that might make him angry...
it's not that i want him to be angry with me or wad..
it's good that he's not easily getting mad...
but i still wanna know from the other guys here...what things that might make you angry / furious / give u bad mood ?
pls share ur views here guys...
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being blamed/ accused/ scape-goated/ carry the black pot.Originally posted by Maya061:hi !
i'm just curious recently since my b/f is really nice to me, he's very patient, n i dunno what things that might make him angry...
it's not that i want him to be angry with me or wad..
it's good that he's not easily getting mad...
but i still wanna know from the other guys here...what things that might make you angry / furious / give u bad mood ?
pls share ur views here guys...
the other person intentionally doing something knowing i will get angry if he/ she did it. -
beind back-stabbed by my project group members.
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being accused of doing stuff which you know you haven't..
being accused of not doing stuff which you know you have...
then there's usually "you know what you did!!" and you haven't a clue... and worse, she refuses to tell you..
and then if she tells you, you are lost because you have no idea what she's talking about or why she's angry...
and more, playing with your emotions, your heart, your faith in her...
although these will make one feel more saddened and distraught than angry as it just rips everything inside of you to pieces....
there are more, but i can't think of them now... but mostly, for a level-headed person, it is more a sense of sadness than anger... -
Being threatened into something against my will.
Shi Ke Sha, Bu Ke Ru. -
Listen only to one side of the story and comdemn the other side... (meaning give no chance for explanation)
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wah!!! wat a good bf... maybe u should punch him in the face n c if he's still nice?Originally posted by Maya061:hi !
i'm just curious recently since my b/f is really nice to me, he's very patient, n i dunno what things that might make him angry...
it's not that i want him to be angry with me or wad..
it's good that he's not easily getting mad...
but i still wanna know from the other guys here...what things that might make you angry / furious / give u bad mood ?
pls share ur views here guys... 
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if he's still nice,,, punch him again...
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i don mind being accused of doing stuff which i know i haven't
i don mind being accused of not doing stuff which i know i have
i don mind being treated like a servant...
i don mind carrying the black-pot...
i don mind being scolded for nothing...
however...
i don like my gf to gossip bout other ppl...
i don like my gf to back stab ppl...
i don like my gf to say vulgar words...
i don like my gf to smoke...
i don like my gf to drink too...
i don like my gf to behave unruly in public...
i don like my gf to complain...
i don like my gf to sa-jiao...
i don like my gf to doubt me... -
tink u need to find a nun then...Originally posted by weidev:i don mind being accused of doing stuff which i know i haven't
i don mind being accused of not doing stuff which i know i have
i don mind being treated like a servant...
i don mind carrying the black-pot...
i don mind being scolded for nothing...
however...
i don like my gf to gossip bout other ppl...
i don like my gf to back stab ppl...
i don like my gf to say vulgar words...
i don like my gf to smoke...
i don like my gf to drink too...
i don like my gf to behave unruly in public...
i don like my gf to complain...
i don like my gf to sa-jiao...
i don like my gf to doubt me... -
when ppl dun trust me;
when ppl are too full of themselves;
when i hurt someone too much... -
I can't agree more.Originally posted by the Bear:being accused of doing stuff which you know you haven't..
being accused of not doing stuff which you know you have...
then there's usually "you know what you did!!" and you haven't a clue... and worse, she refuses to tell you..
and then if she tells you, you are lost because you have no idea what she's talking about or why she's angry...
and more, playing with your emotions, your heart, your faith in her...
although these will make one feel more saddened and distraught than angry as it just rips everything inside of you to pieces....
there are more, but i can't think of them now... but mostly, for a level-headed person, it is more a sense of sadness than anger...
I simply hates to be accused.
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Originally posted by the Bear:being accused of doing stuff which you know you haven't..
being accused of not doing stuff which you know you have...
then there's usually "you know what you did!!" and you haven't a clue... and worse, she refuses to tell you..
and then if she tells you, you are lost because you have no idea what she's talking about or why she's angry...
and more, playing with your emotions, your heart, your faith in her...
although these will make one feel more saddened and distraught than angry as it just rips everything inside of you to pieces....
there are more, but i can't think of them now... but mostly, for a level-headed person, it is more a sense of sadness than anger...
hmmm...make sense
and the red part..yeah..it happens sometimes
dunno why but gals still think that guys would understand if she's just mumbling about smthg
but i usually tell if smtg's wrong or if he/she makes me feel uncomfy, so he/she can know wad i really feel.
everyone will know if i'm angry or happy, 'cos i'm really bad bad bad in disguise
and the blue part..it'll make me really furious, not just angry..
yeah..really shouldn't play with emotions & feelings ..
but..another question... gals often have mood swings. i mean a really bad mood swings. how do u guys cope with that ?
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i was thinking.. when we get accused.. the emotion we go through.. is it really anger? or is it something else.. like feeling a need to rectify the accusations..and feeling more of indignified rather then pure anger? perhaps anger comes as a secondary form of emotion.. the feeling that we weel to that person who accused us..
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this bad bad bad...Originally posted by Spear:Being threatened into something against my will.
Shi Ke Sha, Bu Ke Ru.
yeah..being threatened really would make u furious, no doubt !
but .. spear... so actually..if ppl are threatening u, u'll do what they say ? or u just ignore ?
me...i just ignore leh..unless it's my mum told me to do the rite thing, but she never threatened lor.. just tell me what might be the best for me -
A gf who's a constant liar.
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Originally posted by weidev:i don mind being accused of doing stuff which i know i haven't
i don mind being accused of not doing stuff which i know i have
i don mind being treated like a servant...
i don mind carrying the black-pot...
i don mind being scolded for nothing...
however...
i don like my gf to gossip bout other ppl...
i don like my gf to back stab ppl...
i don like my gf to say vulgar words...
i don like my gf to smoke...
i don like my gf to drink too...
i don like my gf to behave unruly in public...
i don like my gf to complain...
i don like my gf to sa-jiao...
i don like my gf to doubt me...
huh ? u sure u dun mind all that ???
aiyoh..like that have to be angry at lesat a bit lor.. how come can still be fine if ppl are treating u like that, ah ?
dun smoke, drink, say vulgar words, back stab ppl.. still have dun gossip ??? yoohoo..gals...are there any of u who neva gossiping ??? dun behave unruly in public..still have too.. dun complain..err..if u treat her good then she got nothing to complain abt. dun doubt you..err..dun doubt abt wad ? 
many aspects here.. dun sa-jiao --> i dunno the meaning of this leh..dun speak chinese.. -
err...worth trying...haha...Originally posted by dreamer81$:if he's still nice,,, punch him again...
and he's better beware..i can punch really hard !!! -
ppl dun trust other usually they have reasons lor..Originally posted by sam0310:when ppl dun trust me;
when ppl are too full of themselves;
when i hurt someone too much...
i dun trust a lot of ppl since i got quite many bad experience with it
and me dad said.."u dun trust ppl 100%, even ur parents" -
when ur gfs run away with ur friends.. accusing, flirting right in front of ur eyes...
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gals who smokes really pisses me off... no matter how drop dead gorgeous they are, once they smoke, its a turn off...
gals who uses vulgarity, gosh! i wouldn't want to be near them... -
hmmm...so do u smoke urself ?Originally posted by dreamer81$:gals who smokes really pisses me off... no matter how drop dead gorgeous they are, once they smoke, its a turn off...
gals who uses vulgarity, gosh! i wouldn't want to be near them...
it's not fair if u smoke then she shouldn't smoke with any reasons
vulagarity n sexy..issit the same ?
how if ur g/f dress sexy (but not too vulgar) just to pls you...
still dun wanna go out with her ? -
i dun smoke, so i dun expect her to smoke.. as for vulgarity, common words like Sh!t, damn, are alright... but words like Ch** b@#, L$! ch$# and the f-words are no no... terrible!!!!Originally posted by Maya061:hmmm...so do u smoke urself ?
it's not fair if u smoke then she shouldn't smoke with any reasons
vulagarity n sexy..issit the same ?
how if ur g/f dress sexy (but not too vulgar) just to pls you...
still dun wanna go out with her ? -
good thenOriginally posted by dreamer81$:i dun smoke, so i dun expect her to smoke.. as for vulgarity, common words like Sh!t, damn, are alright... but words like Ch** b@#, L$! ch$# and the f-words are no no... terrible!!!!
hmmm..as for that vulgarity..i think..everyone would agree too.
i dun like ppl who swears, and talk dirty (that how we say it here).
just like an un-educated person
and even if it's only a msg-ing text, i still dun accept if ppl swears to me those dirty words.
gosh..to be really honest..i feel like slapping them !!! -
if she is someone i love, i'll stuff chillie padi into her mouth.. ppl who swears n use dirty word are signs of lack of home education..Originally posted by Maya061:good then
hmmm..as for that vulgarity..i think..everyone would agree too.
i dun like ppl who swears, and talk dirty (that how we say it here).
just like an un-educated person
and even if it's only a msg-ing text, i still dun accept if ppl swears to me those dirty words.
gosh..to be really honest..i feel like slapping them !!!