~ Guys n Gals : What turns you off and turns you on ? ~
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turn off :
armpit hair
scratching pubic area/buttock in public
digging her nose and flicking the content into the air
hairy legs
talking loudly like a loud hailer
vulgarity
sitting with her legs wide open while wearing a skirt
moustache...
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hey! where did that come from?Originally posted by thhong22:hmm..... wat eutjin jiejie???
next ....... gals will be sending me PM's, not for dates, but to go out for shopping with them hmm .... maybe hair care tips? yikes ....... -
hmmm..i'm still wondering...why rich guys can turn you off ?Originally posted by keisha:turn off :
guys are have nothing on their mind except sex, n usually people who are like that are the ones thay are not getting it..
guys who cannot dress well..note, all these are said base on guys who could be potential partners..
wimpy guys..
unmanly guys..
snobbish and arrogant guys..
rich guys..
ill-mannered guys..
turn on :
height - tall
build - medium
eyes - small
tattoos, earrings..
good dancer..
sincerity and honesty..
being there when u need him..
not too tough rite? so where are men like that? i cannot find leh
if he's acting rich then he turns me off, and if he's arrogant cos he think he's rich..that also turns me off.... but if he's a nice and rich guy...that's different....
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simple, cos most guys who are born rich dun really know how to appreciate n treasure things. n most rich guys are arrogant. its juz different frequency from me, tats why its a turn off n not turn on. i'm not thrill wth the idea of being wth some born rich person. unless he made it on his own, then tat might impress me. n seriously i hardly see any rich guys tat are really nice. have lah, but not a lot.Originally posted by Maya061:hmmm..i'm still wondering...why rich guys can turn you off ?
if he's acting rich then he turns me off, and if he's arrogant cos he think he's rich..that also turns me off.... but if he's a nice and rich guy...that's different.... -
Originally posted by keisha:
yeah...agree with ya
simple, cos most guys who are born rich dun really know how to appreciate n treasure things. n most rich guys are arrogant. its juz different frequency from me, tats why its a turn off n not turn on. i'm not thrill wth the idea of being wth some born rich person. unless he made it on his own, then tat might impress me. n seriously i hardly see any rich guys tat are really nice. have lah, but not a lot.
but when i was in high school, i have a friend whose parents are really damn rich. he lives in a very very huge house and have loadsa cars and and and... but..he paddled his bicycle everyday to school and when we asked 'u are so rich, why dun u tell ur driver to drive u to school?'. then he replied, ' i'm not rich, i have nothing at the moment. that my parents who are rich.'
wow..he's the first guy whose parents are rich but so...low profile.
he's nice, helpful, and so caring... that...can turn me on..
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hmm ..... sounds like a great guy. definitely a good "catch"Originally posted by Maya061:yeah...agree with ya
but when i was in high school, i have a friend whose parents are really damn rich. he lives in a very very huge house and have loadsa cars and and and... but..he paddled his bicycle everyday to school and when we asked 'u are so rich, why dun u tell ur driver to drive u to school?'. then he replied, ' i'm not rich, i have nothing at the moment. that my parents who are rich.'
wow..he's the first guy whose parents are rich but so...low profile.
he's nice, helpful, and so caring... that...can turn me on..
does he happen to have a sister who shares the same attitude? -
Hard to pinpoint what turns me on in a man. Basically great chemistry, the way we connect and how he makes me laugh. Physically, broad shoulders and some bulk would be good. I revel in a man's masculinity.
What turns me off... erm, BO and gross habits. Lousy personality like being petty, rude, and a cruel nature. -
turn offs:
1. Girls who smoke
2. Girls who spew vulgarities
3. Girls who think and really believe that guys should do everything and expects it if not will get angry and ignore you
4. Rich girls.. high financial maintenance type.. (cos i poor..)
5. Boring girls... basically those that give you one word answers for every question asked.. sian jit bua
6. Girls who generalize too much and lump all guys and talk in a singular fashion that goes: "All guys are the same"
7. Girls who are ugly or fugly (f-ugly) + any of the above
8. Girls who passes you and u go "eewww.. wats that smell" ..choke..choke.. cough cough.. (BO problem)
9. Girls who look at you as if they will chop you off if u try to start a conversation with them.. best option is not to..
turn on
1. Girls who smile
2. Girls who are gentle and sweet
3. Girls who smell nice, look nice and talk nicely
4, Girls who respond with more than a mono-syllabic reply
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guten tag!
i dunno what turns me off, well, i wun know till it happens anyway...
but what turns me on:
a gal whispering into my ear, licking my ear, hugging me from behind, necking me, staring deep into my eyes, frenching, kissing. -
he has g/f oredi..Originally posted by eutjin:hmm ..... sounds like a great guy. definitely a good "catch"
does he happen to have a sister who shares the same attitude?
as for sister...i think he has...
but for jin-jin..i think...it won't be hard for u to find a good g/f....
they said..u are good looking, nice, kind, and and and...
so gals...here's one nice 'catch' for u......
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hahaha.... it comes from ah ma loh....Originally posted by eutjin:hey! where did that come from?
next ....... gals will be sending me PM's, not for dates, but to go out for shopping with them hmm .... maybe hair care tips? yikes .......
i oso wondering y eutjin jiejie....
since when u all become jie mei???
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errr....any gals can, heng ?Originally posted by HENG@:guten tag!
i dunno what turns me off, well, i wun know till it happens anyway...
but what turns me on:
a gal whispering into my ear, licking my ear, hugging me from behind, necking me, staring deep into my eyes, frenching, kissing. -
sometimes, dunno y ppl will insist that so n so is rich when they r not. horrible feeling when it happens.Originally posted by Maya061:yeah...agree with ya
but when i was in high school, i have a friend whose parents are really damn rich. he lives in a very very huge house and have loadsa cars and and and... but..he paddled his bicycle everyday to school and when we asked 'u are so rich, why dun u tell ur driver to drive u to school?'. then he replied, ' i'm not rich, i have nothing at the moment. that my parents who are rich.'
wow..he's the first guy whose parents are rich but so...low profile.
he's nice, helpful, and so caring... that...can turn me on..
maybe sometimes external appearances may seem so, but then, the person is actually not rich. and i totally agree with what he said, that he is not rich, it's his parents who are.
What a fantastic guy! -
uh... er.....Originally posted by Maya061:errr....any gals can, heng ? 
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yeah...funny, innit ?Originally posted by HENG@:sometimes, dunno y ppl will insist that so n so is rich when they r not. horrible feeling when it happens.
maybe sometimes external appearances may seem so, but then, the person is actually not rich. and i totally agree with what he said, that he is not rich, it's his parents who are.
What a fantastic guy!
mostly they all are only boasting and showing off, as if..they're the richest ppl on earth, well..maybe their parents are, and mostly..they are 'new rich' ppl. whatta turn off !!!
just like my ex...showing off his bmw infront of my dad and it turned out, my dad knew he was just showing off and my dad told me to tell him dun have to showing off like that, it's not his car anyway.
and mostly..those 'pretend to be rich guys' dun have anything actually....
my experience...always asking me to pay for his everything !!! but at the same time told me that he just treat his friends this and that... yay... jerk !
and guys like that..are quite a lot nowadays
sorry guys..no offend, k ?
but of course...there are still nice guys around.
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yeah...Originally posted by Maya061:yeah...funny, innit ?
mostly they all are only boasting and showing off, as if..they're the richest ppl on earth, well..maybe their parents are, and mostly..they are 'new rich' ppl. whatta turn off !!!
just like my ex...showing off his bmw infront of my dad and it turned out, my dad knew he was just showing off and my dad told me to tell him dun have to showing off like that, it's not his car anyway.
and mostly..those 'pretend to be rich guys' dun have anything actually....
my experience...always asking me to pay for his everything !!! but at the same time told me that he just treat his friends this and that... yay... jerk !
and guys like that..are quite a lot nowadays
sorry guys..no offend, k ?
but of course...there are still nice guys around.
i just happen to meet one...
happens all e time.
also, some ppl seem to tag that having something or another means to be rich, eg, some ppl automatically say u r rich if u have a merc or a bm or jag sitting at home, stuff like that... its really irritating, and then when u claim u aren't, they will say "dun pretend lah"... horrible.
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hate people who lies, fool with feelings.
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think we all hate that kind of jerkOriginally posted by jusgal:hate people who lies, fool with feelings. .
but...usually we didn't know that they were lying until someday...we caught them up...
cos they were so sweet at first. i mean really really sweet.
and note..most gals love when guys talking sweet things to them, although we know that they might say the same lines to other gals.
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well ..... this is so true. gals like to hear sweet things ..... but, guys do run out of ideas tooOriginally posted by Maya061:think we all hate that kind of jerk .
but...usually we didn't know that they were lying until someday...we caught them up...
cos they were so sweet at first. i mean really really sweet.
and note..most gals love when guys talking sweet things to them, although we know that they might say the same lines to other gals.
how do we know if ppl are lying to us ? but, at the same time ..... there are playboys out there who always have new ideas
well ...... it's pretty hard to tell if someone is lying to us. time will tell ..... plus, most of the time, they themselves will be the one to expose the "secrets". -
turn on; innocent, cute girl
turn off; sinful, uncute girl -
but actualy no one can be perfect.. although rich guys are turn off when they think they can use money to hao lian bt sometimes on another side, they may be kind - hearted ?,
e.g. i gt one fren , he rich n handsome, quite playboy (many girls like) ,gt car gt money like to spend on expensive stuff & hao lian also....his family v rich bt on the other hand he is v gentleman..kind hearted.n filial..n v helpful to friends...one day my frens n i were surprised when we saw him helping the auntie waitress to clear rubbish at back lane after we ate our dinner one day and he is very polite to the auntie waitress.....then when his friend admitted to hospital, he went to his friend house to look after his friend's mum.... then i see him in another way liao.. -
ah well.... ppl who play with feelings are.... bastards.
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ultimate turn on: girls who take initiative
turn on(s):
pretty face
nice figure
that sweet smile
positive attitude
character
ultimate turn off: arrogance
turn off(s):
plays hard-to-get at the wrong time
gals who love mind games. (i'm not a psychic, a rare number are)
negative attitude
dependency/parasitism
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yeah..i wonder..how come those playboys could have so many ideas...Originally posted by eutjin:well ..... this is so true. gals like to hear sweet things ..... but, guys do run out of ideas too but, at the same time ..... there are playboys out there who always have new ideas
well ...... it's pretty hard to tell if someone is lying to us. time will tell ..... plus, most of the time, they themselves will be the one to expose the "secrets".
and i also dunno why...but playboys..are so attractive and interesting !
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that is sooooo true. nobody is perfect.Originally posted by Ah Ma:but actualy no one can be perfect.. although rich guys are turn off when they think they can use money to hao lian bt sometimes on another side, they may be kind - hearted ?,
e.g. i gt one fren , he rich n handsome, quite playboy (many girls like) ,gt car gt money like to spend on expensive stuff & hao lian also....his family v rich bt on the other hand he is v gentleman..kind hearted.n filial..n v helpful to friends...one day my frens n i were surprised when we saw him helping the auntie waitress to clear rubbish at back lane after we ate our dinner one day and he is very polite to the auntie waitress.....then when his friend admitted to hospital, he went to his friend house to look after his friend's mum.... then i see him in another way liao..
and we cannot judge people by their looks. that's also so true.
just like what my friends told me..when they haven't known me..they thought i was an arrogant gal...but when they get to know me...they know i'm not. so...it's true that we shouldn't judge people until we get to know them. and of course ppl has their own good side and bad side. just like ah ma's friend.
but the 'pretend to be a rich guy' i'm talking about...i haven't seen the thing that can make me change my opinion abt. him. too many bad experience with him. only talking talking talking and no action.