I'm paranoid...
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i noe. it probably was the culprit of my last relationship tat failed. but of cos i did catch things tat i wasn't suppose to know.Originally posted by ratinacage:never ever be paranoid....it will always end up chasing the other party away.....ALWAYS!! -
i noe all tat, n i'm trying. so difficult leh...Originally posted by IamAngeline:Mutual trust is impt. So keisha u must slowly learn, and dun get paranoid over it. Dun let the same shadow pester u, keep going on to make life meaningful.
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i noe. thx baery. thx bitezOriginally posted by the Bear:what i wanna say has been said..
slowly slowly yah? the best things come slowly.. relationships take a long time to develop... so slowly learn to trust him
and he'll do his part too
tats why i took so long to accept. cos i didn't wanna jump into a relationship then realise a while later tat he is not suitable. waste time lor. -
When in a relationship, its only fair for both party to trust each other. Thou its difficult...
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thx silly. sorrie, i'm not asking for attention now, but juz tat i really dunno who to tell abt all tis.Originally posted by sillyme:in life, we choose the path to walk.. there're only consequences we have to deal with, not retribution (if it exists)..
turn your bad experiences to learning points..
meantime, i pray that you find peace -
Hmm I ever been thru the stage u are in right now... and I'm also younger than u.. Perhaps I can't help u in any other way... I know it's difficult... But think of it, rather than hanging there over the past r/s u ever had, wouldn't it be better to think of what kinda beautiful future u can create with ur current boy?Originally posted by keisha:i noe all tat, n i'm trying. so difficult leh... -
tell us of course.Originally posted by keisha:thx silly. sorrie, i'm not asking for attention now, but juz tat i really dunno who to tell abt all tis.
thats what we're here for. to lend a listening ear, and to offer advice where needed. -
yah lor, i also have family history.......Originally posted by JeweL81:Girl.. i truly understand.....
I am paranoid becoz of my family history
angeline, i noe what u mean.......i'm trying to snap out of my past, cos its been long enuff liao. -
no sorriesOriginally posted by keisha:thx silly. sorrie, i'm not asking for attention now, but juz tat i really dunno who to tell abt all tis.
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yah lor. i'm trying to focus on the good things he has done, or good points tat he has. n of cos there are some bad points tat i dun like abt him too.Originally posted by IamAngeline:Hmm I ever been thru the stage u are in right now... and I'm also younger than u.. Perhaps I can't help u in any other way... I know it's difficult... But think of it, rather than hanging there over the past r/s u ever had, wouldn't it be better to think of what kinda beautiful future u can create with ur current boy?
i'm trying not to get suspicious over anything. but sometimes he walks away to tok on the hp. now tat is suspicious
jewel, yah lor. damn difficult leh. -
thx guys. thx a lot.
next time i feel paranoid, i'll post here.
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thats quite common? Shan_Cai was also complaining about her hubby doing that.Originally posted by keisha:yah lor. i'm trying to focus on the good things he has done, or good points tat he has. n of cos there are some bad points tat i dun like abt him too.
i'm trying not to get suspicious over anything. but sometimes he walks away to tok on the hp. now tat is suspicious
jewel, yah lor. damn difficult leh.
i think sometimes, its just a matter of habit to do that. i often walk away to answer calls as well.
dun think too much ok? -
no prob.Originally posted by keisha:thx guys. thx a lot.
next time i feel paranoid, i'll post here. -
speak to him regarding how u feel now...Originally posted by keisha:yah lor. i'm trying to focus on the good things he has done, or good points tat he has. n of cos there are some bad points tat i dun like abt him too.
i'm trying not to get suspicious over anything. but sometimes he walks away to tok on the hp. now tat is suspicious
jewel, yah lor. damn difficult leh.
he will definitely have the solution for u...
cos afterall...
he's ur medicine -
eerrr.. dont knw what to say and dont think I can change much or help much.
If you need someone to chat... you knw my number. -
normal meh? i dun like ppl to walk away to ans hp one leh. like hiding something like tat. but he also has the habit of dumping everything inside my bad when we got out. wallet, hp, keys.....Originally posted by HENG@:thats quite common? Shan_Cai was also complaining about her hubby doing that.
i think sometimes, its just a matter of habit to do that. i often walk away to answer calls as well.
dun think too much ok?
gog lunch, bbl -
keisha babe.... dun think too much.. decide in ur heart wat u want ur life to be... u can't change ur past, but u can change ur present and future... why let something u can't change ruin wat u can?!
when ur imagination starts acting up, just tell it to shut up and listen to the voice that tell u the good things... power of positivity!
btw my hubby walks OUT of the room when he on hp... hehee... if u're over paranoid.. then I way UNDER.... cos I simply bo hio!
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heres a very good example to follow.Originally posted by tare:keisha babe.... dun think too much.. decide in ur heart wat u want ur life to be... u can't change ur past, but u can change ur present and future... why let something u can't change ruin wat u can?!
when ur imagination starts acting up, just tell it to shut up and listen to the voice that tell u the good things... power of positivity!
btw my hubby walks OUT of the room when he on hp... hehee... if u're over paranoid.. then I way UNDER.... cos I simply bo hio!
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good and bad lah.. my level of bochup-ness tend to cause paranoid reactions.... then again I bo chup....Originally posted by HENG@:heres a very good example to follow.
kekeke 
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keisha.... try not to think abt it... the mind plays awful tricks on us sometimes....
and don't keep thinking that everything will repeat itself... it wun... each new relationship is a brand new story ... it will turn out differently... have faith. -
sigh, after all tat u all say, i tink its still gonna be difficult for me not to get paranoid. i so scared if i really fall in love liao then he do something to me
sigh......................................like no problem i looking for problem like tat -
don't let fear stop you from loving someone..
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haha, yah, i think tats my problem. fear of getting hurt......Originally posted by sillyme:don't let fear stop you from loving someone..
i shan't go on n on abt tis. it will irritate the sh1t out of everyone.
had ur lunch? n hey, u were the first one tat greet me on my birthday, the most accurate one. zun zun 12am......heeeeeeeeeeeee -
yao ai, gan gan qu ai. bu yao pa shou dao sang hai.
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once u form a string of pin yin like tat, i can do nothing but foamOriginally posted by HENG@:yao ai, gan gan qu ai. bu yao pa shou dao sang hai.
wat u saying?