~ When A Man Falls In Love...~
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i also kanna this qn every cny.......used to it liao....me worst, my cousins are all taken up...Originally posted by KittynMeow:RP... kekeke... I'm not worried.... tho my parents are... hahahaha....
/me thankful that I evaded the "when are you getting married" question during CNY due to the presence of older single cousins... kekeke
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*laffs*
Can tell them, "Actually, I wld prefer it to be shotgun"
See their jaws drop & they're speechless
RPOriginally posted by Inzaghi:i also kanna this qn every cny.......used to it liao....me worst, my cousins are all taken up... -
wat drop??...i said tat to my mom b4..she fully support!!!!...n ask me to marry her immediately!!..Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:*laffs*
Can tell them, "Actually, I wld prefer it to be shotgun"
See their jaws drop & they're speechless
RP
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
RPOriginally posted by Inzaghi:wat drop??...i said tat to my mom b4..she fully support!!!!...n ask me to marry her immediately!!.. -
luff wat???....i will hit n run!!!!!!!!!.....Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
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hahahaha.... so farnee.......Originally posted by Inzaghi:wat drop??...i said tat to my mom b4..she fully support!!!!...n ask me to marry her immediately!!..
thankfully my cousins look like they are not going to get hitched ... so my relatives wun ask me... kekeke -
cos my mom thinking of grandchild until siao liao...hahahahaha...Originally posted by KittynMeow:hahahaha.... so farnee.......
thankfully my cousins look like they are not going to get hitched ... so my relatives wun ask me... kekeke
but wat the heck...
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*shakes head*
Shd take responsibility for ur actions
RPOriginally posted by Inzaghi:luff wat???....i will hit n run!!!!!!!!!..... -
i told my mom dunno is mine or not...hehe...Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:*shakes head*
Shd take responsibility for ur actions
RP
n hor, my action is RUN for ur life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... -
Another pt to ask urself BEFORE u reply:
Are u playing victim here? : )
Cosh I noe for a fact the girl din make herself out to be a victim, she din twist facts : )
RPOriginally posted by the Bear:that's true...
i know she wasn't heartless simply because she wasn't...
but i never got to hear the whys and wherefores or maybe i was incapable of understanding... that was the degree of her intellect... i was only grasping at straws most of the time...
alas... a love i thought would last the ages... floundered...
now, both sides have their lives to live, i wish her well, and always will
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SIAO ah?! Aiyoh eh, pls lorr!
Whack oredi run?!
RPOriginally posted by Inzaghi:i told my mom dunno is mine or not...hehe...
n hor, my action is RUN for ur life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... -
neither did i...
just that she didn't want to believe them...
but that is immaterial now...
and victims? there were none.. some chose to see one where there are none..
alas...Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Another pt to ask urself BEFORE u reply:
Are u playing victim here? : )
Cosh I noe for a fact the girl din make herself out to be a victim, she din twist facts : )
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i'm confuse....Originally posted by the Bear:neither did i...
just that she didn't want to believe them...
but that is immaterial now...
and victims? there were none.. some chose to see one where there are none..
alas... -
don't be maya
i was in the beginning, but i figured... some things, just leave it be at the end.. let go...
be happy it happened... move on... look back as the best time yet in my life.. and smileOriginally posted by Maya061:i'm confuse.... -
errrr...okay.Originally posted by the Bear:don't be maya
i was in the beginning, but i figured... some things, just leave it be at the end.. let go...
be happy it happened... move on... look back as the best time yet in my life.. and smile
anyway...thank you to RP for answering all the Q's from the gal's side..
wish u all the best with your loved one (whoever he is) .
and to Inzaghi (gym boy)...i'm waiting for the invitation, so when is the wed ? -
Really???
So why r u sez'g here tt u din noe the whys & wherefores when she left? That's wat I'm asking : ) Cosh she DID explain those to u & u accepted them.
Perhaps u oughta do more soul-searching? : )
RPOriginally posted by the Bear:neither did i...
just that she didn't want to believe them...
but that is immaterial now...
and victims? there were none.. some chose to see one where there are none..
alas... -
Hi Maya,
*smilez* There're some who appear to be nice on the surface, & appear to be noble. But they're out to garner sympathy. No matter, it's best u dun get involved
U're welcome, I juz thot the qns were prettie fun, so I ans'd them
RPOriginally posted by Maya061:errrr...okay.
anyway...thank you to RP for answering all the Q's from the gal's side.. wish u all the best with your loved one (whoever he is) .
and to Inzaghi (gym boy)...i'm waiting for the invitation, so when is the wed ? -
i will make sure i wont get caught!!!!!!..Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:SIAO ah?! Aiyoh eh, pls lorr!
Whack oredi run?!
RP
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When I fall in love.....will it be forever.....or I !@#$%^&*()+_)(*&^%$##@! never fall in love again.....
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*laffs*
This version sounds fucking gd to me
RPOriginally posted by laurence82:When I fall in love.....will it be forever.....or I !@#$%^&*()+_)(*&^%$##@! never fall in love again..... -
^%%*(%^^(^$%#$%@$@# yeah!
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i did... accept the fact that she was leaving.. i did do my soul-searching.. more than anything in my depression.. i accepted everything..
i did not know.. simply because i didn't know.. i tried to understand but i could not... in the end, it did not matter.. i lost her and i came to terms with it...
i had to accept them because it was the end... and there is nothing i could do if she wanted to go... she will never be alone if she wished it so because she is that wonderful...
i never understood... i never understood why, nor will i ever.. i accepted them simply because, like i once said, i'd accept what she said if she told me a lie, for the truth...
there was no victim, there was never ever one... things just fell apart, why we had to separate, i understood why we had to separate, but why she permanently left and refused to even see me again, i never understood... why she sent me a message of her missing my care for her, and then telling me another time then sending me contrary signals, i never understood, but i accepted.. true, i held on to the part about caring for her because i loved her.. and i enjoyed caring for her, but i never understood why, i just accepted it...
i never understand some things, most thing, but i accept them...
i never understood why i lost her... but i accept it..
maybe for the better...
oh well...
again i say, it is immaterial... and in the past...
from my heart, i hope she is happy and finds love again.. and whatever i could not offer her and that she is happy and fulfilled all her live
and i wish one day, i will find the one i can offer my love to, who will accept it...
and i know she's got a better chance than i have, coz she's that wonderfulOriginally posted by RainbowPrincess:Really???
So why r u sez'g here tt u din noe the whys & wherefores when she left? That's wat I'm asking : ) Cosh she DID explain those to u & u accepted them.
Perhaps u oughta do more soul-searching? : )
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WRONG Bear,
She din mind seeing u, but she'd rather let u move on 1st before she met u again.
THEN, u told her, "Gdbye, we'll NEVER meet again".
Do u haf selective memory?
RPOriginally posted by the Bear:i did... accept the fact that she was leaving.. i did do my soul-searching.. more than anything in my depression.. i accepted everything..
i did not know.. simply because i didn't know.. i tried to understand but i could not... in the end, it did not matter.. i lost her and i came to terms with it...
i had to accept them because it was the end... and there is nothing i could do if she wanted to go... she will never be alone if she wished it so because she is that wonderful...
i never understood... i never understood why, nor will i ever.. i accepted them simply because, like i once said, i'd accept what she said if she told me a lie, for the truth...
there was no victim, there was never ever one... things just fell apart, why we had to separate, i understood why we had to separate, but why she permanently left and refused to even see me again, i never understood... why she sent me a message of her missing my care for her, and then telling me another time then sending me contrary signals, i never understood, but i accepted.. true, i held on to the part about caring for her because i loved her.. and i enjoyed caring for her, but i never understood why, i just accepted it...
i never understand some things, most thing, but i accept them...
i never understood why i lost her... but i accept it..
maybe for the better...
oh well...
again i say, it is immaterial... and in the past...
from my heart, i hope she is happy and finds love again.. and whatever i could not offer her and that she is happy and fulfilled all her live
and i wish one day, i will find the one i can offer my love to, who will accept it...
and i know she's got a better chance than i have, coz she's that wonderful -
i don't... i remember in detail what made me make the hardest and simplest decision of my life..
walk away from a bad situation when there is no way of solving it... this time, she was not mine anymore... and i know the pain of trying to tell her things when she made up her mind.. even when they were dead wrong... the pain, both physical and emotional..
she did rant on and on about my not moving on.. insisting on seeing things as she saw them yonks ago.. things that have changed.. when i had changed.. when i had let go, when i had moved... and it was with a strange serenity i told her everything.. but she never accepted that...
face value i guess..
sometimes, reason fails when the heart speaks...
her ranting meant one thing to me there and then... she seemed to be still hurting.. and my being around, didn't serve any purpose other than to make her angry, make her confused? maybe? because she couldn't seem to accept that i had changed...
it would be better for her to not see me again if it was going to be like that... it hurt to lose a friend like that.. to not see a friend again, but if it was to spare her confusion and further sorrow... why not?
i still remember her "we're still be best of pals and hang out" but.. maybe it was too awkward? who knows? no one will now...
there are other things... things that are best left buried... looking at scars, which scabs have fallen off long ago.. serves no purpose to pick at scars...
i'll leave it here.. for a man, when he falls, reason, logic, good sense, everything, fails him.. for he is just, a man... the only thing a man knows when he is in love, is that he loves her...
and if she loves him back, nothing else matters to him...Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:WRONG Bear,
She din mind seeing u, but she'd rather let u move on 1st before she met u again.
THEN, u told her, "Gdbye, we'll NEVER meet again".
Do u haf selective memory?
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Princess flaming the Bear?Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Hi Maya,
*smilez* There're some who appear to be nice on the surface, & appear to be noble. But they're out to garner sympathy. No matter, it's best u dun get involved
U're welcome, I juz thot the qns were prettie fun, so I ans'd them
RP
In anyway, relationship rather murky for me, and I got love-phobia, like a girl, but never got into relationship coz of commitment. I know people say passion drives one to commitment, when you really love a person, at the least you would woo (or the passion to woo) and then establish and tries to maintain harmonious relationship.
I am pretty lazy. When both parties engage in a relationship, there must be al least some form of show of love and commitment, whether its everynight SMS for some people here, or smiles at each other everyday, or even going down to Jalan Kayu have supper , then go home, and hardly speak a word during the meal. I may like or love a girl, but what drives me back is because I am lazy to keep a commitment.
Unlike friends and families, I find BGRs rather foggy. I am the type of person who is like Yes/No, 1 to 10, A to Z type of person. Nothing foggy, murky or shady. I am not good in stuff relating to emotions, except my own. Engaging in a relationship is also like playing around with sensitivity, emotions and feelings. For me, I would say Bah! and plunged into my books. I find books on politics, business, military stuff more appealing than relationships, psychology, emotions..doesnt mean I am not emotional or not sensitive to others. Just find that I am scared of relationships. Reading the Bear's posts and countless thread in Aunt Agony actually put me more and more off from BGRs. Unlike what I dwelved in, like those MLM issues in Kopitiam, feelings of the heart was never for people like me.
Even dealing with people in sgforums a chore. We find people flaming, disgusting nitwits, misunderstanding (well, internet interaction is quite limited) , even supporting and maintaining harmonious relationships with others is a bit of a chore too. Yikes, hope Neontetra is not reading this.
To end it off, I cannot blame the Bear for maybe what appears to be a contadictory personality, or this 'appear to be noble, and playing victim' gooble gook. This is posting over internet, we donch know how he feel or thinks really, by not interacting with him personally. Another point, dont base someone personality over what he post.
Ending off
PS: You guys can put it down on your diary, after three months since joining sgforums, laurence82 actually start to post on this type of topic. And a long post too.