Where are all the men?
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maybe.. in time.. who knows?
Cupid is fickle too
Originally posted by jOhO:hehehe yeah i've read u posting something like this b4.
so how? u gonna have another stab u think? -
eheh i'm glad for u! *phew*Originally posted by the Bear:maybe.. in time.. who knows?
Cupid is fickle too
well we men have almost endless shelf life.
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i 1.78...Originally posted by keisha:yah, the date would be paid by stoner, n you will be dating him, not keisha. n u can tobang him on your bicycle also
cos keisha's guy must be 1.75m and above. n hor, keisha is into taking cabs.......keke
k lah, juz kidding
but i'm serious about stoner dating u thoug. juz make sure kopi dun hear abt tis, if not he also wanan go
can i cut queue? -
jOhO<
yeah, the true rarely paints a beautiful picture, but IMO, the truth paints a collage of many things, beautiful, ugly, simply, abstract etc..., just as life is full of paradoxes and opposites are actually complementary.
I don't think i know what love is, when i used to think i did. Unlike keisha, i don't have any "target", "criteria", and neither do i have any idea where pile of hay to start finding the needle, nor am making any efforts to find it. Yet i'm complaining i'm single! Haha... humans are such complex creatures ah?
guess the time hasn't come yet, so that's why. All the best to everyone.
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man...???
here loh...
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can. plsOriginally posted by abterror:i 1.78...
can i cut queue? -
here sounds like having the bacholette show ah
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hehehe.,.. I came across this story and i thought it's quite applicable.... we always have certain criteria when looking at whether a guy or gal can be our potential bf or gf..... but we often forget to look at ourselves....
Spouse from God by: Author Unknown, Source Unknown
Years ago, I asked God to give me a spouse, "You don't own because you didn't ask" God said. Not only I asked for a spouse but also explained what kind of spouse I wanted. I want a nice, tender, forgiving, passionate, honest, peaceful, generous, understanding, pleasant, warm, intelligent, humorous, attentive, compassionate and truthful. I even mentioned the physical characteristics I dreamt about.
As time went by I added the required list of my wanted spouse. One night, in my prayer, God talked to my heart: "My servant, I cannot give you what you want."
I asked, "Why God?" and God said "Because I am God and I am fair. God is the truth and all I do are true and right."
I asked "God, I don't understand why I cannot have what I ask from you?"
God answered, "I will explain. It is not fair and right for Me to fulfill your demand because I cannot give something that is not your ownself. It is not fair to give someone who is full of love to you if sometimes you are still hostile, or to give you someone generous but sometimes you can be cruel, or someone forgiving; however, you still hide revenge, someone sensitive;however, you are very insensitive...."
He then said to me: "It is better for Me to give you someone who I know could grow to have all qualities you are searching rather than to make you waste your time to find someone who already have the qualities you want. Your spouse would be bone from your bone and flesh from your flesh and you will see yourself in her and both of you will be one. Marriage is like a school. It is a life-long span education. It is where you and your partner make adjustment and aim not merely to please each other,but to be better human beings and to make a solid teamwork. I do not give you a perfect partner, because you are not perfect either. I give you a partner with whom you would grow together" -
man? where? where? tall? small eyes? got tattoo, got earrings bor?Originally posted by GHoST_18:man...???
here loh... -
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeOriginally posted by duotiga83:here sounds like having the bacholette show ah
then can somebody be my host pls -
hmmm... it's funny if you try hard to find one, you'd almost not find him/her.
some of us search high and low for that someone to complete the missing puzzle; to make life complete.. but, what we fail to see is that it is when we already have a fulfilling life, then it is possible to share that life with him/her.. -
haha....so how many contestants?Originally posted by keisha:heeeeeeeeeeeeee
then can somebody be my host pls 
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I'm sure stoner would love to play the host.Originally posted by keisha:heeeeeeeeeeeeee
then can somebody be my host pls He can sponsor the food, entertainment, everything else also. -
stoner will be more than welcome to be my host
i also dunno how many contestant leh.......
so when the show gonna start? -
got show must tell me hor... then i can find a good seat, sit down and munch popcorn when i watch... kekekeOriginally posted by keisha:stoner will be more than welcome to be my host
i also dunno how many contestant leh.......
so when the show gonna start? -
but so poor thing, me got no host, no participants leh *wail*
gonna be left on the shelf liao *wail* -
Interesting posts on mate selection.
This is more my dominant style. While the core chemistry must be there, I expect partners to adjust and work at a relationship. But why is it labelled "settled"? Settled implies that you have no choice but to accept things? There is always a choice to quit.
Sometimes I worry that it's an "aimless" way of viewing relationships.
IMO it's not the feelings that are missing, it's the real, concrete criterias that your partner doesn't fulfill, that creates problems.Originally posted by wa|th3r:people who settle for partners refers to people who have no such criteria for mate selection but rather on elements/factors like chemistry, emotions, sexual instincts, etc.People who rely on chemistry/instincts fares no better. Such people may date people one after another goes in and out of relationship but are not quite able to secure that kind of desired feelings they are looking for, then dropout of the relationship.
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I sense flames comin'th. i sense disagreement. Please read, these are extracted from a textbook, research findings by sociologists. While to me the word "settled" may be "aimless" , it doesn't imply giving up, that's your assumption. Besides, i simply means the way ppl search the "other half". When i first read this article, i had much disagreements, but when i read the entire article, i saw the whole picture.Originally posted by choco B:Interesting posts on mate selection.
This is more my dominant style. While the core chemistry must be there, I expect partners to adjust and work at a relationship. But why is it labelled "settled"? Settled implies that you have no choice but to accept things?
Sometimes I worry that it's an "aimless" way of viewing relationships.
The posts regarding mate selection is actually painting a picture of this aspect human life. But of course, even sociologists amongst themselves can have disagreements with their respective findings; so why don't you present you views for us all to see? -
wah liew, so chiem
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Keisha... hee hee *pat pat*Originally posted by keisha:wah liew, so chiem
nvm that lah... all you need to know is to keep your eyes open for cute guys out there... haha -
I just did.
These are purely my opinions, meant for sharing. Was not intended to put across aggressively.Originally posted by wa|th3r:I sense flames comin'th. i sense disagreement. Please read, these are extracted from a textbook, research findings by sociologists. While to me the word "settled" may be "aimless" , it doesn't imply giving up, that's your assumption. Besides, i simply means the way ppl search the "other half". When i first read this article, i had much disagreements, but when i read the entire article, i saw the whole picture.
The posts regarding mate selection is actually painting a picture of this aspect human life. But of course, even sociologists amongst themselves can have disagreements with their respective findings; so why don't you present you views for us all to see? -
What do gals look for in a guy???
or rather... (this is more fun) what are the things about guys that turn gals off... ?? haha -
not qualify to look for guy liao... but still can state wat turn me off rite?Originally posted by KittynMeow:What do gals look for in a guy???
or rather... (this is more fun) what are the things about guys that turn gals off... ?? haha 
man w/o an ounce of confidence.... childish.... with no opinion of his own... undecisive.... and the extreme of it... arrogant, self centred... self righteous... a holier than thou attitude... and of cos a guy tat's totally in love with HIMself..... *pukes*
outwardly the usual lah.. big, fat, ugly, ungroomed etc etc.... -
wah..all those u can find in me...
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err... how do u be w/o confidence and arrogant at the same time? split personality?? *takes few steps back*Originally posted by Inzaghi:wah..all those u can find in me...