Tell me, is it true?

• keisha

  12 Nov 03, 16:07

  Guys, for those of you who really love your gal friends, is it true that no matter under what kind of circumstances, you would not talk and describe in details about your sexual experiences wth her, to your pals?
  
  If you do, you probably don't care much about this gal. Porbably just a fling or pass time for you.
  
  Couse you would not want your friends to picture your love one sexually right?
• FireIce

  12 Nov 03, 16:10

  i wonder oso....isit to boost one's ego to boast about ur sexual prowess?
• keisha

  12 Nov 03, 16:15

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  i wonder oso....isit to boost one's ego to boast about ur sexual prowess?

  i tink so too......ego boasting thingy.....
  but i'm saying the guy would not talk about their sexual experiences if he really love the gal.......tats what i heard from my guy friends and ex bfs.....
  
  if they do tell their friends about the experiences they have with a gal, they probably don't give a damn about her......
  
  and we gals on the other hand, tend to describe in details to our gfs yah?
  
  trust me guys, your gf's gal pals probably know more details about you than you ever know
• sillyme

  12 Nov 03, 16:37

  to me, it's an intimate and personal thing
  
  ya, some men associate one's sex 'prowess' as one's manhood.. which is sad.. being a man is more than that mah.. and as both of you mentioned.. ego-boosting..
  
  and since it's ego-boosting.. from a men's point of view.. they wouldn't want their friends fantasizing about their loved ones..
• FireIce

  12 Nov 03, 16:40

  Originally posted by keisha:

  if they do tell their friends about the experiences they have with a gal, they probably don't give a damn about her......
  
  and we gals on the other hand, tend to describe in details to our gfs yah?
  
  

  gers will mention it in a loving way
  
  guys are like....comparing notes and trying to show off like tt......
• keisha

  12 Nov 03, 16:40

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  to me, it's an intimate and personal thing
  
  ya, some men associate one's sex 'prowess' as one's manhood.. which is sad.. being a man is more than that mah.. and as both of you mentioned.. ego-boosting..
  
  and since it's ego-boosting.. from a men's point of view.. they wouldn't want their friends fantasizing about their loved ones..

  i tink so too
• Parka

  12 Nov 03, 16:45

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  gers will mention it in a loving way
  
  guys are like....comparing notes and trying to show off like tt......

  Yah yah yah yah yah......
• sillyme

  12 Nov 03, 16:49

  Originally posted by keisha:

  i tink so too

  so when girls share their experiences.. what's it for? to tell the rest how wonderful their lover is?
• Parka

  12 Nov 03, 16:58

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  so when girls share their experiences.. what's it for? to tell the rest how wonderful their lover is?

  
  
  Good question!!!
  
  Let's wait for some girls to comment.
• xiao_p

  12 Nov 03, 17:13

  waitng...
• keisha

  12 Nov 03, 17:13

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  so when girls share their experiences.. what's it for? to tell the rest how wonderful their lover is?

  no, u noe when gals are in love, they get all excited about all little details about their man, and they tend to wanna tell their pals how wonderful he is in treating her, how good he is at sex......in a way its to boast also. but its more to tok about their man and feeling good about the feeling he gives her. noe wat i mean?
  
  its a good thing, so dun worry guys
• sillyme

  12 Nov 03, 17:16

  Originally posted by keisha:

  no, u noe when gals are in love, they get all excited about all little details about their man, and they tend to wanna tell their pals how wonderful he is in treating her, how good he is at sex......in a way its to boast also. but its more to tok about their man and feeling good about the feeling he gives her. noe wat i mean?
  
  its a good thing, so dun worry guys

  something like she feels wonderful to have such a guy like him?
• Parka

  12 Nov 03, 17:18

  
• Parka

  12 Nov 03, 17:20

  Hmmmmmmmmmm......
  
  Make me wonder how many married man's wife's friends know about how good in sex the married man is.
  
  
  
  (Yah, Poor phrasing)
• choco B

  12 Nov 03, 17:27

  IMO, generally this is true.
  
  

  Originally posted by keisha:

  Guys, for those of you who really love your gal friends, is it true that no matter under what kind of circumstances, you would not talk and describe in details about your sexual experiences wth her, to your pals?

• choco B

  12 Nov 03, 17:30

  I think the onus here is how one behaves in a relationship he/she cares about. Some people (I for one) are open when it comes to things that aren't too serious. Then everything comes out - the good, the bad, the ugly. It's just gossip.
  
  But when it's about people you care about, you keep the intimate details more private. Personally, it's because the sex, and the relationship, is special. Opening it up kinda loses its preciousness. Also, it's out of respect for the man. I wouldn't invade his privacy. I find it's rather unfair to him, if everyone knows a lot about him, but he knows lesser about other people.
  
  

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  so when girls share their experiences.. what's it for? to tell the rest how wonderful their lover is?

• keisha

  12 Nov 03, 17:43

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  something like she feels wonderful to have such a guy like him?

  yup, tats wat i mean. tats how i feel at least
• sillyme

  12 Nov 03, 17:44

  Originally posted by choco B:
  I think the onus here is how one behaves in a relationship he/she cares about. Some people (I for one) are open when it comes to things that aren't too serious. Then everything comes out - the good, the bad, the ugly. It's just gossip.
  
  But when it's about people you care about, you keep the intimate details more private. Personally, it's because the sex, and the relationship, is special. Opening it up kinda loses its preciousness. Also, it's out of respect for the man. I wouldn't invade his privacy. I find it's rather unfair to him, if everyone knows a lot about him, but he knows lesser about other people.
  

  yup, i'd have to agree with you totally
• keisha

  12 Nov 03, 17:46

  Originally posted by Parka:

  Hmmmmmmmmmm......
  
  Make me wonder how many married man's wife's friends know about how good in sex the married man is.
  
  
  
  (Yah, Poor phrasing)

  i dunno, but most of my gfs will tell all the sweet secrets one lor, me too, no exception
• Parka

  12 Nov 03, 17:47

  Originally posted by keisha:

  i dunno, but most of my gfs will tell all the sweet secrets one lor, me too, no exception

  Then everyone will know about him except him. AHahaha
• choco B

  12 Nov 03, 17:50

  But after we break up, in-bed performance gradually becomes gossip too hahahah Worse still if it's a bad break.
  
  

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  yup, i'd have to agree with you totally

• keisha

  12 Nov 03, 17:53

  Originally posted by Parka:

  Then everyone will know about him except him. AHahaha

  haha, yah......it was like tat last time. but i only bother to keep talking about the guy if i really love him. means i'll keep wanting to talk about him and details. bad huh?
  my friends must have been bored silly at that time
• sillyme

  12 Nov 03, 17:55

  Originally posted by choco B:

  But after we break up, in-bed performance gradually becomes gossip too hahahah Worse still if it's a bad break.
  

  hehe... that's eeeeeeevil
• Parka

  12 Nov 03, 17:56

  Originally posted by keisha:

  haha, yah......it was like tat last time. but i only bother to keep talking about the guy if i really love him. means i'll keep wanting to talk about him and details. bad huh?
  my friends must have been bored silly at that time

  Why can't it "More keisha! More! Then what happened?" from your friends?
• keisha

  12 Nov 03, 18:04

  Originally posted by Parka:

  Why can't it "More keisha! More! Then what happened?" from your friends?

  cos i say so much untill they all sian liao