another week.....

• the Bear

  10 Nov 03, 17:42

  i'm just sharing my thoughts.. i bear my pain alone and will not have it any other way
  
  this is for you
  
  Lean On Me - Bill Withers
  
  Sometimes in our lives
  We all have pain
  We all have sorrow
  But if we are wise
  We know that there's always tomorrow
  
  Lean on me!
  When you're not strong
  And I'll be your friend
  I'll help you carry on
  For it won't be long
  'Til I'm gonna need
  Somebody to lean on
  
  Please swallow your pride
  If I have things you need to borrow
  For no one can fill those of your needs
  That you don't let show
  
  Lean on me!
  When you're not strong
  And I'll be your friend
  I'll help you carry on
  For it won't be long
  'Til I'm gonna need
  Somebody to lean on
  
  If there is a load you have to bear
  That you can't carry
  I'm right up the road
  I'll share your load
  If you just call me
  
  So just call on me sister
  When you need a hand
  We all need somebody to lean on
  I just might have a problem that you'd understand
  We all need somebody to lean on
  
  Lean on me when you're not strong
  And I'll be your friend
  I'll help you carry on
  For it won't be long
  Till I'm gonna need
  Somebody to lean on
  
  Lean on meÂ…
  
  

  Originally posted by keisha:

  i noe. no one can help me, its all up there, mentally.....
  
  hope i get over this period of my life soon
  
  but thx gor

• thhong22

  10 Nov 03, 17:42

  Originally posted by keisha:

  hong hong, i also lost leh. how?

  i oso donno leh..... mayb we need someone to lead us
• realitybites

  10 Nov 03, 17:44

  Originally posted by keisha:

  i noe. no one can help me, its all up there, mentally.....
  
  hope i get over this period of my life soon
  
  but thx gor

  poor baby... me also suffering from similar prob... but am trying to snap outta it ..heh ...
• the Bear

  10 Nov 03, 17:44

  i will write
  
  

  Originally posted by hunk37:

  good. but I never suggested to make her stay. I suggest to you to open and maintain lines of communication, so that though you can be miles apart, but things can happen, if you keep in touch.....people going overseas get lonely you know....I'm sure you do.....and yes, I was overseas once too

• duotiga83

  10 Nov 03, 18:27

  This mth seem like a bz mth...nt much movement here
• keisha

  11 Nov 03, 09:38

  good morn
• the Bear

  11 Nov 03, 09:49

  good morning girl
  
  hope the day will be good to you
  
  i think i'll skip gym today... had so little sleep last night and am pretty tired this morning
  
  

  Originally posted by keisha:

  good morn

• keisha

  11 Nov 03, 09:54

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  good morning girl
  
  hope the day will be good to you
  
  i think i'll skip gym today... had so little sleep last night and am pretty tired this morning
  
  

  no, today is not good for me.......we were drawing the angel n mortal game thingy, u know the game? n i draw a gal tat i have totally not spoken to.......so sian, not fun liao
• the Bear

  11 Nov 03, 10:22

  no.. don't know that game
  
  what happens in it?
  
  

  Originally posted by keisha:

  no, today is not good for me.......we were drawing the angel n mortal game thingy, u know the game? n i draw a gal tat i have totally not spoken to.......so sian, not fun liao

• hunk37

  11 Nov 03, 10:54

  Originally posted by realitybites:

  Originally posted by keisha:
  hong hong, i also lost leh. how?
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  i oso donno leh..... mayb we need someone to lead us
  
  poor baby... me also suffering from similar prob... but am trying to snap outta it ..heh ...

  It's tough isn't it? It's even worse to hear advice like 'snap out of it', 'look on the bright side', etc. That's the same as saying 'I've no clue what to do for you or myself, so just sit tight and smile and hope it will go away'. I think some feel better by just talking to someone else, not by really being helped. Life is tough, some turn to suicide, become insane or chemical-dependency because society cannot offer them answers. Only the blind leading the blind. If you are a second class passenger on the sinking Titanic, would you be helped by someone saying 'cheer up, who knows there may still be a space in the lifeboat for us, you never know.?.'. I'll be more helped my someone who can tell me what is the meaning of life, how to know if I have I lived the right way, how should I live now to be ready for the next life. If I don't have an answer for death, I don't have an answer for life. This is a tough world, and to live meaningfully, we need real answers. If you had a hard time in this world, make it your goal not to rest until you find out how not to have a bad time in the next world.
  
• keisha

  11 Nov 03, 11:02

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  no.. don't know that game
  
  what happens in it?
  
  

  okie, we all draw a name of a colleague. the person whose name we drawn, will be our mortal. n we are the angel to this person. she/he is not suppose to knowwho their angel is. we are to treat her/him nice w/o letting her/him find out who we are. then we are to get a present that is of a certain amout and give it to the person on christmas.
• keisha

  11 Nov 03, 11:34

  Originally posted by hunk37:

  It's tough isn't it? It's even worse to hear advice like 'snap out of it', 'look on the bright side', etc. That's the same as saying 'I've no clue what to do for you or myself, so just sit tight and smile and hope it will go away'. I think some feel better by just talking to someone else, not by really being helped. Life is tough, some turn to suicide, become insane or chemical-dependency because society cannot offer them answers. Only the blind leading the blind. If you are a second class passenger on the sinking Titanic, would you be helped by someone saying 'cheer up, who knows there may still be a space in the lifeboat for us, you never know.?.'. I'll be more helped my someone who can tell me what is the meaning of life, how to know if I have I lived the right way, how should I live now to be ready for the next life. If I don't have an answer for death, I don't have an answer for life. This is a tough world, and to live meaningfully, we need real answers. If you had a hard time in this world, make it your goal not to rest until you find out how not to have a bad time in the next world.
  

  
• realitybites

  11 Nov 03, 11:36

  Originally posted by hunk37:

  It's tough isn't it? It's even worse to hear advice like 'snap out of it', 'look on the bright side', etc. That's the same as saying 'I've no clue what to do for you or myself, so just sit tight and smile and hope it will go away'. I think some feel better by just talking to someone else, not by really being helped. Life is tough, some turn to suicide, become insane or chemical-dependency because society cannot offer them answers. Only the blind leading the blind. If you are a second class passenger on the sinking Titanic, would you be helped by someone saying 'cheer up, who knows there may still be a space in the lifeboat for us, you never know.?.'. I'll be more helped my someone who can tell me what is the meaning of life, how to know if I have I lived the right way, how should I live now to be ready for the next life. If I don't have an answer for death, I don't have an answer for life. This is a tough world, and to live meaningfully, we need real answers. If you had a hard time in this world, make it your goal not to rest until you find out how not to have a bad time in the next world.
  

  alamak like that also kena bombarded *sigh*
• the Bear

  11 Nov 03, 11:37

  orh.. like that.. i'm nice to everyone then how?
  
  at least i try to be
  
  need a smoke
  
  

  Originally posted by keisha:

  okie, we all draw a name of a colleague. the person whose name we drawn, will be our mortal. n we are the angel to this person. she/he is not suppose to knowwho their angel is. we are to treat her/him nice w/o letting her/him find out who we are. then we are to get a present that is of a certain amout and give it to the person on christmas.

• realitybites

  11 Nov 03, 11:44

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  orh.. like that.. i'm nice to everyone then how?
  
  at least i try to be
  
  need a smoke
  
  hihi beary
  
  

• keisha

  11 Nov 03, 11:49

  haha, go for ur smoke then
  
  hi baby
• realitybites

  11 Nov 03, 11:52

  Originally posted by keisha:

  haha, go for ur smoke then
  
  hi baby

  hi darling ... how are ya feeling today ??? btw who's this hunK fella ar ? machiam very hostile like dat
  
• hunk37

  11 Nov 03, 12:02

  Originally posted by realitybites:

  hi darling ... how are ya feeling today ??? btw who's this hunK fella ar ? machiam very hostile like dat
  

  try to give some real solid help, instead of superficial surface-level 'cheer up' kind of so-called help, then kena called hostile. Next time you go hospital and the doctor say 'sorry to tell you that you got cancer. now here is the cancer treatment you have to go through..' then suddenly reality bites you....and I hope you dun reply 'wa liau, you this type of doctor machiam very hostile liddat'.
• thhong22

  11 Nov 03, 12:27

  good noon
• keisha

  11 Nov 03, 12:39

  Originally posted by thhong22:

  good noon

  hong hong
  
  i wan drink milk
  
  baby, he's not hostile. he's juz trying to give some advise.
• thhong22

  11 Nov 03, 12:40

  Originally posted by keisha:

  hong hong
  
  i wan drink milk
  
  baby, he's not hostile. he's juz trying to give some advise.

  huh? wat milk.....
• keisha

  11 Nov 03, 12:51

  Originally posted by thhong22:

  huh? wat milk.....

  milk lor, fresh or chocolate also can......u must feed me, i having the time of the month, so shio bu must pamper me then i wun feel so miserable
• thhong22

  11 Nov 03, 12:54

  Originally posted by keisha:

  milk lor, fresh or chocolate also can......u must feed me, i having the time of the month, so shio bu must pamper me then i wun feel so miserable

  hahaha... need to put in milk bottle or not???
  like tat easier to feed....
  if not how to feed i oso donno
• the Bear

  11 Nov 03, 12:57

  hi everyone esp. 'bites
  
  work's been tough lately.. a lot more new responsibilities and work to do as there is a change of new management at my workplace... it's to be expected...
  
  i've decided to let the anger at the futility of it all become a slow burn.. i'll do whatever it is, with my views and 2 bits thrown in..
  
  in other things, as in the affairs of the heart, the love of my life will be going to the US, maybe for good.... in a weird and good way, maybe it's God tweaking my heart, i had a silly grin as She told me that She's going for it just a while ago all i had in my heart was not the sorrow of yesterday, but a feeling of "Go! Girl! you'll do well and be successful because you are that good and determined!"
  
  and Her determination and strength has inspired me... mayhap you'll see less of me in here in the future as i will go for my dreams, my aspirations and hopes with the same determined single-mindedness She has shown...
  
  i think i can... and if i fail, then, it would not be of want of trying
  
  today, She has again given me so much... tears are starting well in my eyes, good tears... i will what i wanted to be... or die trying in the attempt
  
  i used to think i could not be good enough for Her... now i know... somehow it is true... but heck! if She feels it, i am going to let Her be able to feel proud of me if She so chooses
  
  goodness knows i have always been proud of Her!
  
  today is the start of another chapter of my life... again, even when She is not part of my life anymore, She has changed me for the better
  
  what a woman!
  
  it has been my honour and my good fortune to have known Her!
  
  God bless Her
• thhong22

  11 Nov 03, 12:59

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  hi everyone esp. 'bites
  
  work's been tough lately.. a lot more new responsibilities and work to do as there is a change of new management at my workplace... it's to be expected...
  
  i've decided to let the anger at the futility of it all become a slow burn.. i'll do whatever it is, with my views and 2 bits thrown in..
  
  in other things, as in the affairs of the heart, the love of my life will be going to the US, maybe for good.... in a weird and good way, maybe it's God tweaking my heart, i had a silly grin as She told me that She's going for it just a while ago all i had in my heart was not the sorrow of yesterday, but a feeling of "Go! Girl! you'll do well and be successful because you are that good and determined!"
  
  and Her determination and strength has inspired me... mayhap you'll see less of me in here in the future as i will go for my dreams, my aspirations and hopes with the same determined single-mindedness She has shown...
  
  i think i can... and if i fail, then, it would not be of want of trying
  
  today, She has again given me so much... tears are starting well in my eyes, good tears... i will what i wanted to be... or die trying in the attempt
  
  i used to think i could not be good enough for Her... now i know... somehow it is true... but heck! if She feels it, i am going to let Her be able to feel proud of me if She so chooses
  
  goodness knows i have always been proud of Her!
  
  today is the start of another chapter of my life... again, even when She is not part of my life anymore, She has changed me for the better
  
  what a woman!
  
  it has been my honour and my good fortune to have known Her!
  
  God bless Her

  hihi bear