~ Is it acceptable if ur b/f ask u for money ? ~

• Maya061

  28 Sep 03, 00:01

  Wad do you think if your b/f ask you to give him pocket money monthly ?
  Let say at this moment he's not working but you got a fine job.
  Is it okay for him to ask for your money every month ?
  
  PS : keish, i hope u dun mind i put this under your forum.
• kopiosatu

  28 Sep 03, 00:03

  is he planning to look for a job? will he be returning the money?
• the Bear

  28 Sep 03, 00:05

  personally, i won't..
  
  call me sexist in that way, but i still think it is the lot of the man to look after his lady
  
  
• NeonTetra

  28 Sep 03, 00:06

  gigolo?
• kopiosatu

  28 Sep 03, 00:08

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  gigolo?

  someone looking for me?
• Maya061

  28 Sep 03, 00:09

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  is he planning to look for a job? will he be returning the money?

  hi kopi !!! dun watch english premiere league ?
  
  yes, he was.
  returning the money ? no, i dun think so.
  wad i hate was .. he's telling me to give him the money to pay his phone bill and his family is wealthy enough compare to my family.
  he's driving a volvo ang using the newest handphone, but asking me for money monthly... i just couldn't accept that.
• kopiosatu

  28 Sep 03, 00:12

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  hi kopi !!! dun watch english premiere league ?
  
  yes, he was.
  returning the money ? no, i dun think so.
  wad i hate was .. he's telling me to give him the money to pay his phone bill and his family is wealthy enough compare to my family.
  he's driving a volvo ang using the newest handphone, but asking me for money monthly... i just couldn't accept that.

  fulltime already... poor aston villa... didn't deserve to lose.
  
  well since its like that, i dun think he deserves anything it all
• the Bear

  28 Sep 03, 00:12

  sorry maya, but this came into my head immediately...
  
  has he no pride?
  
  sorry
  
  

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  hi kopi !!! dun watch english premiere league ?
  
  yes, he was.
  returning the money ? no, i dun think so.
  wad i hate was .. he's telling me to give him the money to pay his phone bill and his family is wealthy enough compare to my family.
  he's driving a volvo ang using the newest handphone, but asking me for money monthly... i just couldn't accept that.

• Maya061

  28 Sep 03, 00:13

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  personally, i won't..
  
  call me sexist in that way, but i still think it is the lot of the man to look after his lady
  
  

  hi Bear !!!
  
  i think that way too. i just think he has no responsibility. even when i still had no job, i have never asked him for money. never !!!
  i even paid for dinner, movies and he still asked me to pay his gas..
• the Bear

  28 Sep 03, 00:16

  hi maya
  
  to be brutally frank, i think you deserve better
  
  

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  hi Bear !!!
  
  i think that way too. i just think he has no responsibility. even when i still had no job, i have never asked him for money. never !!!
  i even paid for dinner, movies and he still asked me to pay his gas..

• Maya061

  28 Sep 03, 00:20

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  sorry maya, but this came into my head immediately...
  has he no pride?
  sorry
  

  i think exactly the same as you. that's why i broke wif him finally. i didn't tell my friends that he was asking for money.. too shame to share liao.. they'd say i was the most stupid gal ever live.
• Maya061

  28 Sep 03, 00:23

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  gigolo?

  i wouldn't have a gigolo as my b/f liao..
• the Bear

  28 Sep 03, 00:24

  some things, people don't need to know
  
  and if we do one day meet if i wander over to Indonesia, my lips are also sealed
  
  hope you find someone who will love you and take care of you
  
  

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  i think exactly the same as you. that's why i broke wif him finally. i didn't tell my friends that he was asking for money.. too shame to share liao.. they'd say i was the most stupid gal ever live.

• Maya061

  28 Sep 03, 00:31

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  some things, people don't need to know
  and if we do one day meet if i wander over to Indonesia, my lips are also sealed
  hope you find someone who will love you and take care of you
  

  thank you, Bear .. I will.
  
• keisha

  28 Sep 03, 11:51

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  Wad do you think if your b/f ask you to give him pocket money monthly ?
  Let say at this moment he's not working but you got a fine job.
  Is it okay for him to ask for your money every month ?
  
  PS : keish, i hope u dun mind i put this under your forum.

  of cos i wun mind dear. u can post anything u wan here.
  
  as for your question, if he really need tat money for certain emergency, i wun mind lending him. but if he does tat like every month or all the time, can ask tis guy to fark off oredi. especially if he doesn't work. tat is as good as calling him 'eat soft rice'.
  
  sorry for my straight-forwardness. if he plans to get a job, but have difficulty finding one, then its alrite. if he says he plans to find a job but doesn't have the heart to do it, n since someone is giving him money every month, then tats bad.
  
  but most importantly, how does the person giving the money feels about the whole issue? cos tis kind of thing hard to listen to others. got to judge for yourself oredi.
• Parka

  28 Sep 03, 11:53

  just don't let it become a burden can already
• sweetoof

  28 Sep 03, 13:07

  I cannot accept an able bodied man to take $$ from a woman. To me its just unacceptable. Go get a job! There's a saying: Beggers Cant Be Choosers!
• Maya061

  29 Sep 03, 09:48

  Originally posted by keisha:

  of cos i wun mind dear. u can post anything u wan here.
  
  as for your question, if he really need tat money for certain emergency, i wun mind lending him. but if he does tat like every month or all the time, can ask tis guy to fark off oredi. especially if he doesn't work. tat is as good as calling him 'eat soft rice'.
  
  sorry for my straight-forwardness. if he plans to get a job, but have difficulty finding one, then its alrite. if he says he plans to find a job but doesn't have the heart to do it, n since someone is giving him money every month, then tats bad.
  
  but most importantly, how does the person giving the money feels about the whole issue? cos tis kind of thing hard to listen to others. got to judge for yourself oredi.

  morning !! thank you for your straight answer, keish. i really dun mind, cos what you said is true.
  
  to be real honest... i hated giving him the money. it's not because he asked too much or wadever, it's the way he asked me to give him the money and for wad purpose. he told me to pay his phone bill. gosh..at that moment i told myself that i have to get off from him asap. and glad i did !!!
• Maya061

  29 Sep 03, 09:52

  Originally posted by sweetoof:

  I cannot accept an able bodied man to take $$ from a woman. To me its just unacceptable. Go get a job! There's a saying: [color=red]Beggers Cant Be Choosers! [/color]

  So true !!!!
• kopiosatu

  29 Sep 03, 09:59

  i like soft rice...
  soft rice in iron rice bowl... hmmmmmmmmm~
  
  CEO / Accountant Wife, where are u?
• keisha

  29 Sep 03, 10:04

  Originally posted by Maya061:

  morning !! thank you for your straight answer, keish. i really dun mind, cos what you said is true.
  
  to be real honest... i hated giving him the money. it's not because he asked too much or wadever, it's the way he asked me to give him the money and for wad purpose. he told me to pay his phone bill. gosh..at that moment i told myself that i have to get off from him asap. and glad i did !!!

  wah, tats too much liao. glad u got rid of him.
  
  hey gal, join in the 29th sep thread, everyone is over there