Is she a [b]BITCH[/b]?
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then wads ur objective of cuttin it up?Originally posted by nismoS132:so that it will be reabosrbed into your body and grow back again sibo -
hi guys... i'm juz a newbie juz voicing out my views...
hmm... being pillon by frens even though bf has a bike doesn't mean anything... that doen't show that the girl is a bitch...
dun call her a bitch if she's not f***ing around with other guys... (Sorry... this may sound cruel)
if u dun like her to be pillon by her frens, i guess u can juz tell her... i think... i guess or maybe... she will understand you... =)
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ermmm watching ur greatest loved gf getting so close in position with another guy, u can take it ah?Originally posted by nismoS132:if she is honest about it, then nothing wrong mah.
if she keep quiet um um, then....
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then to think if u see ur bf pillion other girls around, what will u think leh?Originally posted by aHGer^83:from my point of view...actually...if she is really honest...no sweat! but really lor..i agree wif wad nismo said... -
WELL SAID WELL SAID~!~! CLAP CLAP CLAP~Originally posted by ah_tee:understand the reason why first
if the reason is just maybe after sch or after work, the colleague or class mate "soon lu" send her back, then nothing wrong
but if the guy is from purposely eslewhere come n fetch her,
TO ME its a NO,
hitakogi, being in a relationship is not just abt understanding, u ought to respect wad ur partner like or dun like,
this type of thing to me is unacceptable,
i mean if the guy got no ideas abt a gal, wad for he make all the effort ? but then again, if its a colleague or classmate who is at the same place then no big fuss
but then again, must depends one, even if they in same place, dosent mean its safe, dosent mean that any guys from my gf workplace can send her back,
last time in sch, got many guys quite close to my gf, but some i dun mind, some i mind, understand their reasons first, do they get closer becoz of project, or the guy got intention ?
coz there r always assholes ard
some pple really duno how to "zat lat" one, "buay hiao" paisay, pple got bf liao still duno how to back off, i tell u, i cannot tahan this type of pple, its not abt trusting the gal, its whether the other guy acknowledge ur presence or not,
if he dun , STAND UP, call him up n tell him, i m not asking u to be a beng n curse his whole family, call him up, n say to him firmly, pls stay away from my gf, let the guy know ur presence
BUT if ur gf is the cheapo type, then no point, u fuck the guy, ur gal still go runnin to him, then he will have the last laugh n u be the fool....
2nd part it all depends on the gal too, is she the cheapo type ?
see bike only?
or she the type who will call u up n ask u can or not ?
friend,this type of qns depends one.....
hitakogi, dun come to conclusion too soon, our friend may have his own reasons, but of coz, there are always freakazoids ard who dun even let any guys get close to their gf
but for me, in the end of the story, i still don agree my gf sitting other people's bike. hehehe -
ermmm in the end of the story hor, they're just demanding not to sit around people's bike and paying a little respect and give some thoughts for your guy *who is a human and will get jeolous and angry* heheOriginally posted by Si|verGer:gers & guys tin differ 1 mah. as 4 mi if guys pillon mi i dun tin dat any fault at all but u muz hv a clear line lar he juz a normal frenx. dun go hug him or touch him lar.oso muz let him dat u hv bf liao so both of u are juz gd frenx no more further tin liao..but still i tin ger oso can hv guyfrenx mah but wadever it is better let bf knw 1st.. but sumtime nt dun1 2 let bf knw but wen he knw sure quarrel 1 mah.. even tell him he oso quarrel wif u
alamak~ so wad u wan the ger to do ler? like left rite oso wrong..
but as 4 guys ler even u knw ur gf go out wif juz a frenx & u knw v well ur gf is not those easy or flirt ger the guy will still b jealous 1 mah... but still muz knw limit lor try to avoid sitting at guys bike lor but sumtime i tin the bf oso hv to giv the gf a little bit of freedom lor... 
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WELL SAID ALSO~ CLAP CLAP CLAP!Originally posted by RedSuns4:
thngs is so easy , if you dun like her to be pillion by others (male) .just speak to her and let her know .and in your part dun pillion any other (female) -
Yeah~ man! The only female that can sit our BB other then my gf is my............................... MUMMY~! hehehe but she won't sit one lah heheOriginally posted by MoNsTer:to be frank.. since i have my lao gong.. i never sit other guys bikes... althought last time i used to do tat alot.. i tink its a form of commitment and respect.. dear never say i canot sit other pple bike in the 1st place but i know it... tat most guy wont be able to tahan the idea of it...
anyway... if 1 is really in love.. sacrifices like not able to sit other guy bike is just part of it..
i sacrifice, i canot sit other guy bike.. he sacrifice, he canot pillion other cai.. as fair as tat.. -
yeah saying things out of each others mind is very important, if both keep on playing mind guessing and hinting games, eventually it'll bring to mis-communications.... cheers~Originally posted by xUe_ReN:hi guys... i'm juz a newbie juz voicing out my views...
hmm... being pillon by frens even though bf has a bike doesn't mean anything... that doen't show that the girl is a bitch...
dun call her a bitch if she's not f***ing around with other guys... (Sorry... this may sound cruel)
if u dun like her to be pillon by her frens, i guess u can juz tell her... i think... i guess or maybe... she will understand you... =)
all u both needs is to communicate... -
Me, I think when you are attached to another person you have certain responsibilities to fulfil lor. You are no longer single liao leh. Cannot anyhow go around doing things like you are still single without consideration for your other half. Maybe there are ppl out there who will disagree with me but my actions are always geared toward: Will she like it if I do this? Will I like it if she does this back to me? In general I think that the "Do unto others" rule works pretty well in a relationship.
So you ask her lor, will she like it if you pillion another girl behind her back? sneaky sneaky like that. If she say yes, then well, you have to decide if this is the kind of girl you want to take as a gf or wife. Unless you want to change her or change yourself, which warrants a whole new thread...
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Well Well... don't we see this scenerio ever so often? Look around you and you might find many of such examples, don't you?
I guess it all boils down to respect.. Self respect and also respect for your partner.
ask yourself the question: how would you feel if your gf is being pillioned around/your bf pillioning other girls around?
Personally.... I guess I shan't state the 24 inhumane stages I will put my partner through if that ever happens .
I have seen girls who are attached still pillion on other guys' bike, jus because the bike is bigger and faster than their own boyfriends' bikes, and guys with big bikes use their machines as a bait to attract girls to them. Come on, we know how practical and xian shi the world is, don't we?
Maybe people can say: we are just friends wad... nothing wrong with that, well, the definition of just friends? Hahaa.. hard to say huh... and how much can you trust the 'friend' of your girlfriend? I've seen examples of girls being pillion around by guys who they claimed as their 'good friends', 'friends only', when they themselves know that the guys who pillion them are actually fond of them. Well if thats the case, aren't they tryin to lead the guy on? And which guy with a sound mind would allow his girlfriend to go out ever so often with a guy who is interested in the girlfriend? Well either the guy is really confident of himself , or that he really trusts his girlfriend or the other guy 
that much. All I can say is.. hahaha fool, good luck!
But i assume in some scenerios, some guys just take their gf as some kind of goddess and ever so afraid that they might lose them if they don't grant them any freedom, haha whats the difference between a dog and the bf? The difference is.. the dog has more respect and attention from the gf! 
As much as the girlfriend is a bitch, the other guy is an asshole, the bf is also a fool to begin with to allow such things to happen, isn't it.
I have seen this funny incident, which nearly made me burst out laughing... it happened last year, when this couple went out with a big group, and the day before, the gf was pillioned by this guy who rides a big bike and interested in her. There they are sitting there, pretending they don't know each other well, and just acquaintances, when everyone else knew this girl is always pillioned out by someone else.. I guess everyone there must have had laughed at the bf for being such a backboneless wimp to allow such things to happen... Hey man, if this happened to you before, I would want to tell you: I wished I had laughed in your face! 
If a girl really has the self respect
, I don't think she would want others to have the wrong impression of her, and whats the point of misleading someone else when you yourself have a boyfriend and know that the person is interested in you has totally no chance? Because he has the bike to give you the thrill ? The attention you get? To take the person for some fool and make use of him? To take him for granted?
Well as for the 'asshole' in the picture, he is quite a fool too right? But sometimes I guess the girl played a part in giving the wrong impression too.. isn't it? so he should wake up his idea and leave that b*tch for someone else!
As for the bf... if he is in the dark, oh man, what can I say, tough luck! and hopefully someone will let him know soon... but if he allows it.. muahahahaha I would be laughing hard when one day he becomes the laughing stock without realising it. What can I say... he is stupid to begin with. His gf doesn't give him the respect, and he take it because of the fear of losing. Pathetic!
End of the day... every element plays a part.. and i tink in this case, you need a B*TCH as the main catalyst... the manipulative little witch, with a couple of fools and assholes to go with it to complete the picture
whoever it is...
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wah lau....toking about this matter.....i'm even more hot den u ah.....
last time i like a gal who had never pillion on a bike b4. my friend pass tp liao go pillion her.....i din get the chance to pillion her 1st.....du lan ah!!!
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actually hor, for bike i also wont really agree one coz its really too close lo, but if car then i relek abitOriginally posted by TZR:WELL SAID WELL SAID~!~! CLAP CLAP CLAP~
but for me, in the end of the story, i still don agree my gf sitting other people's bike. hehehe
my gf ever got pillion by a fella who rides a larger bike than me, class 2 bike sommore, i cannot say anything lor and i also scare of this guy also ....
because it is her
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stupid bitch... this one bike leh... means physical contact leh... not like they're in a car or wat... wah lau... if my gf, i will personally chop her up into pieces... and as for the guy, i'll pour kerosene and burn up his bike.. hehe..
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wa!!! wat TZR and MoNster said is the best agreement couples with their bf having bikes or cars should make! i truly support n agree wat TZR and MoNster have said. i salute both of u!
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francis, you got a good, understanding, mature girlfriend.... monster dun fly leh...Originally posted by MoNsTer:to be frank.. since i have my lao gong.. i never sit other guys bikes... althought last time i used to do tat alot.. i tink its a form of commitment and respect.. dear never say i canot sit other pple bike in the 1st place but i know it... tat most guy wont be able to tahan the idea of it...
anyway... if 1 is really in love.. sacrifices like not able to sit other guy bike is just part of it..
i sacrifice, i canot sit other guy bike.. he sacrifice, he canot pillion other cai.. as fair as tat..
Only if all gals think like you....
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Originally posted by SHADOWSKILL:
I don't think they discuss to this agreement lor... personally I think is Monster mature enough to have this respect to francis....
[b]wa!!! wat TZR and MoNster said is the best agreement couples with their bf having bikes or cars should make! i truly support n agree wat TZR and MoNster have said. i salute both of u! [/b]
Itz not we guys dun wanna like our gfs have freedom.... but too much freedom will cause him to lose her....
Itz not that we dun trust them, but we dun trust the guy friend(somemore a guy we dun know)....
Seriously, dunno what we guys should do? Give them freedom and trust? And in the end, we lose her? Why can't gals just give in a bit? Dun sit other guys bike will die meh? If she really love you, she would take public transport if you really can't pillion her.... if she no money to take a mid night cab, why she go out? She already have a rider to send her home? RESPECT GUYS A BIT lah..... pls gals, dun hurt us anymore.....
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nice aaron17 very nice! wat u say is so so true. yea ur right maybe MoNster is mature enough to come to this agreement. i personally agree very much with u aaron17. so girls in this kind of situation ITS NOT tat we do not trust u! its the guy we don't trust! so plz do stop saying tat we don't trust u enough or watever........ lol i never belive tat actually some 1 had the same thinking as me in this forum=aaron17. i admit tat my thinking is a little childish n petty but hey i m wat i m, i like others r not perfect. girls so plz prove us guys wrong in situation like this, plz do not let ur boyfriends down.... [/b]
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Yeah man !!! Great mind think alike....
But sad to say, not a lot of gals are like Monster....
Monster go teach gals leh.... set up a GOOD GF SCH.... -
true! not many girls will think like tat. girls plz let me remind u tat we r not trying to exploit this situation as a chance to say tat gals r in the wrong always or anything.
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agreeable...guys n girls thinkin really differ at times...some gers..like me...ppl say i too friendly end up...alot of girls say i too bitchy n spread ard..den guys start to get close n stuffs...den i slowly become not too friendly...ppl start to say me again...being dao...so if she's the friendly type..try to understand lor...n
TRUST most important. if bf dun like...she still do the same thing...den really have to tell her to fuck off ler...if she let her bf noe abt her guys frens...better still lor...find some day..herself, bf and all those friends all come out n meet...better understanding of each other mah...Originally posted by Si|verGer:gers & guys tin differ 1 mah. as 4 mi if guys pillon mi i dun tin dat any fault at all but u muz hv a clear line lar he juz a normal frenx. dun go hug him or touch him lar.oso muz let him dat u hv bf liao so both of u are juz gd frenx no more further tin liao..but still i tin ger oso can hv guyfrenx mah but wadever it is better let bf knw 1st.. but sumtime nt dun1 2 let bf knw but wen he knw sure quarrel 1 mah.. even tell him he oso quarrel wif u alamak~ so wad u wan the ger to do ler? like left rite oso wrong..
but as 4 guys ler even u knw ur gf go out wif juz a frenx & u knw v well ur gf is not those easy or flirt ger the guy will still b jealous 1 mah... but still muz knw limit lor try to avoid sitting at guys bike lor but sumtime i tin the bf oso hv to giv the gf a little bit of freedom lor... -
does the rear seat have a dildo or something???
comeon, u can be angry, u can be pissed. But to break off becoz of that, abit too harsh.
But of coz, if the ger is sitting nearer and nearer to the front seat with a REAL DICK in place... then its time to be alert.... -
erm.. he can claim leh.. wot worth it.. if wan, throw acid or petrol on his bike, put stone in the old tank, cut the brake wire abit onli.. so tat on rd then he wil lost control.. lolx...Originally posted by mrbunglez:stupid bitch... this one bike leh... means physical contact leh... not like they're in a car or wat... wah lau... if my gf, i will personally chop her up into pieces... and as for the guy, i'll pour kerosene and burn up his bike.. hehe..
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Originally posted by SHADOWSKILL:
hehe... *paisei*.. thanks thanks...
[b]wa!!! wat TZR and MoNster said is the best agreement couples with their bf having bikes or cars should make! i truly support n agree wat TZR and MoNster have said. i salute both of u! [/b] -
erm.. abt mi being mature.. hehe.. tat may not be true.. i onli know tat i love dear dear very much and i dun1 him to be sad.. tat all.. lolx...