Bad Life
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gers only....
Will U be considered leading a bad Life if from the age 19 till 50++ 60++, U have to look after 2 elderlys who simply do nothing to help house chores, ur childrens, n the entire housechores... EVEN a few weeks after giving birth
*sigh* this type of ppl Life is really unfair to them... Work so hard for the family but end up unappreciated... -
i mean u cant reali ask ur old parents or ur little kids to help u do housework rite???Originally posted by xian89:gers only....
Will U be considered leading a bad Life if from the age 19 till 50++ 60++, U have to look after 2 elderlys who simply do nothing to help house chores, ur childrens, n the entire housechores... EVEN a few weeks after giving birth
*sigh* this type of ppl Life is really unfair to them... Work so hard for the family but end up unappreciated...
unless ur kids r big enuff to do some simple chores....
n i think husband n wife shld share houseworks
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depends the elders' and children's ages bah.. if elderly not that old can help out abit though.. kids sensible liow can help out abit lor..
husband really should help do something~ -
yah yah... but some husband give excuses like... they work outside so tiring liao.... or wat.........Originally posted by ^sylvia^:depends the elders' and children's ages bah.. if elderly not that old can help out abit though.. kids sensible liow can help out abit lor..
husband really should help do something~
like as if the housewife whole day at home kiao kah very relax like tat.... not tired one -
juz feel sorry for my mother loh~
toil so hard for the family. YET my granny always dun appreciate her.
*sigh* "pai meai"(hard life). I sometimes wonder whether issit my mother owe my grandmother in the previous life to deserve it. Now under recovery from operation but still have to cook for my good-for-nothing grandmother( sorry if i seems rude)
my mother also 1 stubborn person. tell her to rest more but end up doing the chores when nobody home. me vommit blood trying to argue wif her. anyway juz need a place to let out. so post here. sorry for all the LIFE thread -
true lor.. but my family v. weird.. dad do housechores mum work work.. ah ma snatch housechores do..(now in hos though)Originally posted by thhong22:yah yah... but some husband give excuses like... they work outside so tiring liao.... or wat.........
like as if the housewife whole day at home kiao kah very relax like tat.... not tired one -
your ah ma in her life also work very hard to provide your dad and she got those ill treats(your mum's having) from your great grandma.. so i guess its her generation thinkings.. be filial.. she commited her whole life to this family, so u should appreciate.. shes not good-for-nothing~ treat her well before the time you regret whole of your lifeOriginally posted by xian89:juz feel sorry for my mother loh~
toil so hard for the family. YET my granny always dun appreciate her.
*sigh* "pai meai"(hard life). I sometimes wonder whether issit my mother owe my grandmother in the previous life to deserve it. Now under recovery from operation but still have to cook for my good-for-nothing grandmother( sorry if i seems rude)
my mother also 1 stubborn person. tell her to rest more but end up doing the chores when nobody home. me vommit blood trying to argue wif her. anyway juz need a place to let out. so post here. sorry for all the LIFE thread
my granny's in hos and i truly feel that i should chat with her more and regretted neglecting her and find her a nag(im not that bad la)
now i truly understands that i couldn't live without her lo.. cherish your ah ma.. look after her when she's walking or what.. old ppl tends to fall easily.. -
my poor mum do everything one.... she got work then she do housework....Originally posted by ^sylvia^:true lor.. but my family v. weird.. dad do housechores mum work work.. ah ma snatch housechores do..(now in hos though)
tat good-for-nothing man only care for himself..... nv give us money.... yet use so much lights, air-con, water, then in the end all my poor mum pay......
i do abit of housework for her, then i pay my own bills n all... though i nv pay for household exp, but at least i'm not giving her extra burden.... n she oso can understand i juz came out to work, my pay so low, n i need savings for myself
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woah.. almost the same as mine.. yours dad mine's mum thoughOriginally posted by thhong22:my poor mum do everything one.... she got work then she do housework....
tat good-for-nothing man only care for himself..... nv give us money.... yet use so much lights, air-con, water, then in the end all my poor mum pay......
i do abit of housework for her, then i pay my own bills n all... though i nv pay for household exp, but at least i'm not giving her extra burden.... n she oso can understand i juz came out to work, my pay so low, n i need savings for myself
borrowed a huge sum from my dad just for her joy~
yesterday gold rings missing and accuse my dad then my dad scold her.. after that i tio accuse! haha~ lame right.. yeah she found it~ -
your ah ma in her life also work very hard to provide your dad and she got those ill treats(your mum's having) from your great grandma.. so i guess its her generation thinkings.. be filial.. she commited her whole life to this family, so u should appreciate.. shes not good-for-nothing~ treat her well before the time you regret whole of your life
maybe i not filal by saying tis. But after growing up seeing my mother being bullied, i juz can't help disliking my grandmother. Maybe u ppl call it generation gap. But I juz dun seems to forget the way she din care abt the household n go gambling. My mother have to take care of my elder sisters (still young 3-5 yrs old) when she is having me. Cook dinner/ do hse chores . Even a maid has off days to rest. fyi she is only 22 when she had minow i truly understands that i couldn't live without her lo.. cherish your ah ma.. look after her when she's walking or what.. old ppl tends to fall easily..[/b]
maybe she haven't set a good example for me. recently when my mother operation, she move to my aunt hse to stay. Everything seems so peaceful n carefree. Dun seems to miss her abit. I'm a bad person. But if some1 treat my mother badly, i wun let him/her off -
sad hoh.... 2 person get married... but they r not supporting the family 2gether..... only do things for themselves.... so selfishOriginally posted by ^sylvia^:woah.. almost the same as mine.. yours dad mine's mum though
borrowed a huge sum from my dad just for her joy~
yesterday gold rings missing and accuse my dad then my dad scold her.. after that i tio accuse! haha~ lame right.. yeah she found it~ 
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wrong perceptions to you though, still shes your grandma.. tough for whole of her life why can't she just relax and carefree for the last path??
u don't expect elders to work till the day they ...... right?
how i wish my granny were lazy and wouldn't got herself into this. if your granny's become like this and got herself in hos, lets see whether you feel guilty and sad anot.. i rather she bad than she work her whole life just to keep providing us for her whole life~ -
yah lo~ its their family .. they should support it together instead of pushing everything to oneOriginally posted by thhong22:sad hoh.... 2 person get married... but they r not supporting the family 2gether..... only do things for themselves.... so selfish -
hanor..... so sad hoh.... if both parent like tat... i think it's the kids who sufferOriginally posted by ^sylvia^:yah lo~ its their family .. they should support it together instead of pushing everything to one
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kids see liow hurt in the heart.. then some of the parents will like vent anger at the kids.. haiz.. always like that im the victim lo~Originally posted by thhong22:hanor..... so sad hoh.... if both parent like tat... i think it's the kids who suffer -
aiyoh so ke lian.....Originally posted by ^sylvia^:kids see liow hurt in the heart.. then some of the parents will like vent anger at the kids.. haiz.. always like that im the victim lo~
tat man last time always vent anger on my mum n i one....
now we both hack care him liao..... my mum oso slp with me liao....
we treat him invisible -
ask ur mama divorce this good-for-nothing!Originally posted by thhong22:aiyoh so ke lian.....
tat man last time always vent anger on my mum n i one....
now we both hack care him liao..... my mum oso slp with me liao....
we treat him invisible
he's evil and your mum and u so kelian! shouldn't tolerate him!
sorry for late replies. involve into arguments
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my mother hint me she wanna divorce after my grandmother pass away(which is dunno how many donkey yrs later). saying all thngs have start muz have end~Originally posted by ^sylvia^:ask ur mama divorce this good-for-nothing!
he's evil and your mum and u so kelian! shouldn't tolerate him!
sorry for late replies. involve into arguments
piangz -
ohh.. thats her choice.. so u must be obedient and don't be led astray by the small lil bengs outside ok.. guai ah~
so that she will be confident in her choice -
maybe is now my mother undergo operation. i really hope my granny can do a simple task like settling her own meal . she still expect my mother to serve her during meal timeOriginally posted by ^sylvia^:wrong perceptions to you though, still shes your grandma.. tough for whole of her life why can't she just relax and carefree for the last path??
u don't expect elders to work till the day they ...... right?
how i wish my granny were lazy and wouldn't got herself into this. if your granny's become like this and got herself in hos, lets see whether you feel guilty and sad anot.. i rather she bad than she work her whole life just to keep providing us for her whole life~ -
ask b4 liao.....Originally posted by ^sylvia^:ask ur mama divorce this good-for-nothing!
he's evil and your mum and u so kelian! shouldn't tolerate him!
sorry for late replies. involve into arguments
but she juz don wan.... i donno y.... not say we need him
hiazzzzzzzzz........... i'm tired of it.... juz hack care liao -
jia you bah honghong.. im sure your mum has her reasons.. so heck care is the best way out~
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yah... tat's wat i'm doingOriginally posted by ^sylvia^:jia you bah honghong.. im sure your mum has her reasons.. so heck care is the best way out~
wan care oso donno wat i can do.... hiazzz
so better don find one more thing to make myself 'fan' -
wwei honghong, gratz for your forum ranking 14 haha~Originally posted by thhong22:yah... tat's wat i'm doing -
hehehe... thanxOriginally posted by ^sylvia^:wwei honghong, gratz for your forum ranking 14 haha~
not my forum... it's ah ma's forum... i juz help to crap