A little respect
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Cannot stand the behavior & attitude of my aunt 2 precious prince & princess. My temper boils upon thinking what they did these few days during my grandmother's wake - practically nothing.
C'mon the person lying there is their grandmother too. Can't these 2 spoilt brats just volunteer to help out. What a pair of actor & actress when their parents' friends and colleagues came & they go get some drinks for them
There, everyone is busy attending the guests. My dad has his platoon of friends/customers to take care of. My mother has been running to and fro with the preparation. My sister has to take care of the drinks & recording down of "white gold", while I help with the miscellaneous orders... & all this while, my auntÂ’s precious prince & princess just sit at some places visible playing their gameboy or shaking their legs. I pity their maid have to run here and there, serving drinks to everyone.
But the thing that fumes me most is the fact they have the cheek to bring their ps2 o& stay in my room to watch TV in the afternoon . . . WTF! @#$%^& Even my brother-in-law, who have work on hands, sacrifice his time & help out. It's embarrassing that my relative asks her family members to help out too... I really feel like giving them a tight slap when I heard they ask their parents whether they can go up to watch their favorite TV show! CÂ’mon it is a wake, a solemn event, & these 2 kids are making it into a holiday.
Then speaking of meals, is another thing that annoys me. Of these 3 days, they ordered western food which cost the most. I know it is free of charge, but they should have the courtesy to order cheaper stuffs sometimes. They are like liches, bloodsuckers. They are lucky their parents are quite well to do. Else they wun be able to lead such luxurious life in a condo near tp. If I m the one buying the food, IÂ’ll wun go asking individual what they like to eat, but will alternate between rice /noodles. $3 or $4 those type.
All I ask is a little respect to my decreased grandmother. After all, they are her favorite grandson & grandaughter... Years ago, I remember I took a week leave for my grandma. (my motherÂ’s mother) I may sound very old-fashioned, but that shd be 1 of the virtues that 1 shd give upon a family member relative passing away. Definitely not like some spoilt brats who keep on complaining.
Could it be that nowadays, parents dun stay with their parents. They lack teaching their children basic respect to their elderly. Or was it just a problem arising after Singapore is becoming a developed country. -
my condolences...
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Spolit brats who don't understand respect. Hope they don't become the majority.
But back to you, i hope you get over this soon Xian~ -
my grandma juz passed away too..... juz came back from crematorium..... -
so sorry to hear..my condolences to you both, xian and thhong...
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Condolences to u both..
p/s: xian how old r the 2 "royal siblings"? -
thanks for ur concernOriginally posted by nOrmalbOi:Condolences to u both..
p/s: xian how old r the 2 "royal siblings"?
prince sec 1.
princess not sure p4 or 5 bah...
shd able to think liao mah
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Kids leading sheltered lifes... dun really learn to THINK till they are erally late... coz most of the time their parents do the thinking for them..Originally posted by xian89:thanks for ur concern
prince sec 1.
princess not sure p4 or 5 bah...
shd able to think liao mah -
Condolences to U too...Originally posted by thhong22: my grandma juz passed away too..... juz came back from crematorium..... -
condolences to u too..........Originally posted by xian89:Condolences to U too... -
Sometimes i think such stuck up people should be given a beating... to wake them up to the world... the REAL World.
But its okay, i know that the society will whack them for me, so i just smile and laugh to myself whenever i see one of those arrogant types, knowing that they will get their just desserts. -
this type of ppl r the most troublesome type. They tot they very clever so look down on ppl. they will be very clever as to arrow ppl to do their work... & sad to say, life is sometimes unfair. They may get a high education till Masters & work as a senior position. What can U expect from some1 tat even need ppl to take a incense (praying ) even though it is clearly in front of them.Originally posted by _Aaron_:Sometimes i think such stuck up people should be given a beating... to wake them up to the world... the REAL World.
But its okay, i know that the society will whack them for me, so i just smile and laugh to myself whenever i see one of those arrogant types, knowing that they will get their just desserts.