Dream about a girl i never meet before
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actually i had a rather strange dream and the dream is kind of messy, with many kinds of situation mixed together and so i would like, and really like to know one of the situation . At first, i dream about going to my teacher condominium for study which i did in my real life, but this time the comdominium seems new to me as it looks nicer and with more facility.I remember clearly that the staff there will nice to mean and had a very good service and i remember clearly the about the places. After that, i went to another place in the condominium and suddenly i cough badly non-stop and was hoping someone will give me a drink and suddenly a girl which in my real time i never met her before, i really cannot remember her face but i remember that she was a very beauiful girl. she offer me a glass of water and i felt very happy for no reason. The Dream suddenly get mixed up and i turn up in my school but the place looks like my primary school but in my mind, it feels like im in my secondary school. I then saw 3 gangsters walking towards me and suddenly that girl run towards me and hold my hand and asked me to run because the gangsters are going to beat me up. she hold my hand and we run around the neighbourhood to hide. i suggest that we should go to one of my relative house since in my dream, i am near one of my relative house. the dream get mixed up again. this time round we had been chased again and she say we should meet at the old place(which in my relative house) and the rest of my dream, i never saw her again.
can i know what does this strange dream are and what does it represent. i dont know why now i really want to remember that girl face but still cant remember. srry for bad English..
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it means that u are suppose to go and find the dream girl of urs....
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but i can say that the dream is really very messy, with make thing different thing mixed together, but this one is the one that leave me with a very great impression.
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it's just a dream... get over it
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it means that u really did have a strong feeling for someone (who may have have stayed in a condo) from your school days..but have forgotten how she look like now....and this has been dwelling in your subconsciousness that could not find any chance to release.....
anyway, its past already....hey now hey now don;t dream it's over.........
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You've been watching too much Flash Forward, get a life.
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i always got alot this kind of dream one... sometimes even can continued the story over a few nites.... or always go back to the same background even now and then....like last nite dream of being very fren with one gal but i dun think i know her one.. but in the dream she is like my best fren can feel we are very very close one but not the physical kind....
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My best dream was having sex before with a beautiful girl...
Wha shiock nia then the alarm clock woke me up...
zzz
Damn sainz, want to continue to sleep but cannot going to be late...
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maybe the girl fated to ber yer wife which u have not met yet ,,,,,,,,,is in problems with 3 gangsters now.and her soul could be calling for help???spore is well known for forcing gals from overseas who were tricked by gangsters.these gangsters could remain as anonymous as those job agencies in spore and job agents who supply foreigners into spore companies by the bulk.
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dreamt of centipede soup from a packet.
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Sarantuya (not her real name), 16, at the end of a long school day, was walking home with a girlfriend on a busy urban street in Ulaanbaatar, the capital of Mongolia. It was already growing dark, the mid-winter light fading. Both girls were bundled against the bitter cold. Coming to a corner, they separated, saying goodbye, Sarantuya heading off alone along a busy street. Suddenly a car pulled up to the curb, hands reached out and grabbed Sarantuya, forcing her into the car, which sped off into the night. Sarantuya vanished, without a trace. Her parents spent the last years of their lives looking for her, to no avail. Her older brother eventually married and started a family and moved to Japan. Then a miraculous moment: he was in an airport office in Japan when he spotted a beautiful young woman sitting across the room. He realized that the woman was his missing sister, Sarantuya. He learned later that she had been taken to Japan where she was forced into prostitution by the Yakuza, a Japanese crime syndicate. She later explained that many of the girls and young women she saw were kidnap victims from Mongolia. Every day was inexplicable torture. If they spoke to one another, they were beaten or raped. Sarantuya explained that she overheard her captors discussing harvesting the organs of the women who were over 30 and selling their organs on the black market.
Ashlander John Flynn, graduate of OSU, ex-Peace Corps Volunteer, now based in Ulaanbaatar, shared the story of Sarantuya. Flynn works for the Human Security Policy Studies Center (HSPSC), a non-governmental agency, focused on counter-human trafficking. His NGO is funded by the Swiss Agency for Development and Cooperation.
"Our aim," wrote John in an e-mail, "is to educate and raise awareness, support and assist victims, and increase the capacity of law enforcement."
It seems counterintuitive to think that young women from remote Mongolia could be swept away into the dark world of human trafficking, sold and exploited like commodities, forced into a form of brutal modern-day slavery. Yet, it is all too common. "Women are trafficked out of Mongolia by train or bus to China and by air to Malaysia and Singapore as well South Korea for fraudulent marriages," writes Flynn.
The profits worldwide total some $32 billion annually, with an estimated 1.5 million people, mostly women and children, moved across international borders and sold into a malevolent form of modern slavery. After the sale of drugs and illegal arms, human trafficking is the third largest business globally.
Flynn lives in a Russian-style one-bedroom, fourth-floor apartment in the city center. From one window he looks down on the chaotic traffic on Peace Avenue, the main artery intersecting Ulaanbaatar — the coldest capital in the world with an average temperature of 30F. From another window he can see, in the distance, pine-forested mountains. The heat comes on Oct. 1, and is turned off May 15, regardless of the weather. The capital is covered with a haze of pollution from burning coal.
"Mongolia" writes Flynn, "is easily the coldest place I've ever lived; but the people's hearts are the warmest. They are extremely friendly and will trust people they don't know. Family is the centerpiece in Mongolia."
Flynn's mission is daunting, seemingly intractable. He characterizes human trafficking as "the perfect storm." There is low risk of being prosecuted and corruption is endemic — from government officials, border guards, customs agents, immigration officers and low-salaried government employees. "We believe some of the highest level government officials here are complicit in trafficking. The traffickers are often familiar persons and not strangers. In fact, a large number of traffickers are middle-aged women who have links to prostitution." These women, Flynn explains, often act out of economic desperation, working with foreign traffickers who procure airfare, visas and housing. All are part of a predatory chain of people who sustain what has become a worldwide cartel.
For the victims, escaping is all but impossible. Lacking legal documents or financial resources, fearing the authorities, feeling isolated and controlled, many contemplate suicide.
Like most cultures, Mongolians value and cherish their children. To have a child simply vanish is more than any parents can bear. And the return of a child will likely underscore the painful reality that he or she may never recover; the damage has been too severe. Sarantuya, though reunited with her brother, and told repeatedly that she was now safe, remained terrified, filled with mistrust and apprehension. No one knows where she is now.
John Flynn will be Speaker of the Month at Ashland's Branch Library on July 6, from 7 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. The public is invited. Suggested background reading: "A Crime So Monstrous." For further information call 541-774-6996.
Chris Honore is a writer living in Ashland
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Yesterday a human trafficking trial began in the Songino Khairkhan District’s court. A Mongolian national, M.Purevbat, is charged with kidnapping girls and forcing them into the sex trade. According to the charges, Purevbat may be responsible for the disappearances of 100 girls. If convicted, he could face 5- 15 years imprisonment. According to a report titled “Country Gender Assessment-2008”, which was completed by the National Network of Mongolian Women’s Organizations, together with Asia Development Bank, SDB and CEG, protection against human trafficking, for its victims and witnesses protection have not originated yet in Mongolia. The report says that the lack of protection for victims and witnesses serves as a major deterrent for reporting trafficking and forced prostitution.They also highlighted the serious need for legal reform to ensure compensation for psychological and mental health damage and for broadening legal, social and psychological support to victims, as well as the need for more public awareness and capacity-building of government institutions.
The age of sex workers in Mongolia has decreased significantly. The report also states that Mongolian law favors those who solicit sex, while disproportionately punishing those who illegally provide it as a service. Trafficking in women and children is a new phenomenon in Mongolia that arose in connection to Mongolia’s transition to a market economy, the opening of its borders, democratization and the free movement of people across borders.
As discussed earlier, formal migration opportunities are more limited for women, while unemployment, underemployment and low wages have consistently been a more serious problem for women, especially young women and women over 35. The proliferation of informal and illegal recruiters/middlemen for employment abroad, due to the lack of adequate regulation of the sector by the government, has made women particularly vulnerable to fraud, irregular migration and trafficking. Given the clandestine, criminal nature of human trafficking, it is hard to accurately establish the numbers of Mongolian women and children affected, but there is indication of a fast growing trend.
In 2000, two victims of trafficking were reported, whereas in the first half of 2006 alone, 127 victims were reported. Surveys conducted in Erlian indicated a growing number of Mongolian sex workers – 200 to 300 according to police estimates in 2005 – who work in the city’s red light areas. Many of them are believed to have been originally trafficked. In the first half of 2006, 20 victims sought assistance from the Mongolian Embassy in Beijing.
A majority of the 48 victims of trafficking for sexual exploitation interviewed by GEC in Beijing, Hong Kong, Macao and South Korea were young women over 18, while four were 16-17 years old. 79 percent of them had never been married, 17.2 percent were divorced. One in three women had attended a college or university. Fifty two percent of the women sought to migrate abroad to find employment to be able to help their families, 25 percent to earn money for their education, and 23 percent to become financially independent from others. Women were promised US$500-3,000 for jobs abroad as waiters, models, beauticians, dancers, and masseuses.
Ninety six percent of the women found out about the reality of their situation after having crossed the border, had their documents confiscated by their brokers, and being told they owed US$1,500-3,500 for the broker’s services. They were then forced to prostitute themselves in order to repay the debt and regain their freedom. Such false promises are the most commonly used method by recruiters. In some cases, women are told they would be engaged in prostitution, but assured they would enjoy freedom, better living and working conditions and much higher pay.
Many women fell victims to traffickers when they responded to age- and gender-specific job advertisements such as “will find well-paying jobs abroad for tall, good-looking girls under 25”, as was in the case in 21 percent of the victims interviewed by GEC. There is also evidence that TV chat offers and announcements lure victims into trafficking. Seventeen percent were approached by strangers. However, the majority of the victims (62 percent) were recruited through friends and acquaintances. Fifty four percent of the women work in saunas and massage parlors, 26 percent in disco clubs, eight percent in hotels, eight percent in karaoke bars and four percent on the streets.
In Macao, girls mostly work in saunas, from 8 pm to 6 am. Women work under extremely difficult, high-risk conditions and are forced to submit to every wish of their customers. They do not have any guarantees for personal security either from violence and abuse or from STDs and HIV/AIDS. Women are frequently beaten up, abused and humiliated by their clients, who are often drunk or high on drugs, and often clients do not pay them. Twenty three percent of the victims reported that they had encountered clients who were sadists, who had beaten them nearly to death.
Women mostly lived under close supervision by the madams, 4-10 of them crammed in one small room, close to the place of work. Until the debt was repaid, women were not allowed to go outside by themselves. Many of the women did not know the total amount of their debt or how much they had yet to repay. In Hong Kong, women were punished by deduction from their salaries, corporal punishment, working with no rest for being late or missing a day of work. If they refused to participate in a “show,” they were fined by 1,000-2,000 HKD (US$150-250 ).
Women were also made to undergo various alterations and surgical operations to better please the customers. These included drinking slimming tea and forced dieting to lose weight, forced breast enlargement operations, and making folds in the eyelids. Payments for these operations were deducted from the women’s salaries (US$ 1,000 for breast enlargement, US$ 50-100 for altering the eyelids).
Most recently, NGO activists led by GEC were able to visit some of the brothels in Erlian and talk to some of the Mongolian sex workers. They were admitted inside by the owners/madams after explaining they wished to provide women with health services. The activists found out that women were not adequately protected against STDs and HIV/AIDS and that they were told by their owners to perform vaginal douche using toothpaste in order to disinfect and prevent from diseases. Every time women were sick or appeared to be falling sick, they were injected with unknown substances (one of the NGO activists was a doctor and she was most concerned about these injections).
Activists also reported that women in Erlian were forced to undergo various treatments that delayed their menstrual flows. GEC also interviewed 16 victims of trafficking who returned to Mongolia. Half of the women were 20-22 year-old and one was an under-age girl who had dropped out of school. More than half had secondary educations and one had higher education. 69 percent of the women sought employment abroad to earn more money than they could in Mongolia, 37.5 percent to provide for their families, 50 percent to gain money for their education and 50 percent to gain money to start a small business in Mongolia.
Women had paid US$ 100-500 to brokers, they thought they owed their brokers about US $1,000-3,000, they were promised US$2,000-3,000 per month, but 60 percent of them returned with nothing as they never received any salary and only worked to service the debt. About 20 percent had earned US$200-300 per month, but all the money had been spent on bare necessities.
Women still working abroad and women who have returned reported serious deterioration of health due to the heavy use of slimming tea and drugs to stop menstruation. Many had also become addicted to alcohol and tobacco or drugs in the hopes of soothing or dulling their anxiety and depression.
The most common route for trafficking is reported to be Ulaanbaatar-Erlian-Beijng-Macao, but women and girls have also been trafficked to Japan, Hong Kong, South Korea, Israel, Belgium, Turkey, Malaysia, Singapore, and Eastern European countries. NGOs report that scope and nature of human trafficking is changing, becoming more organized. In all known cases, traffickers had established prior contacts with buyers in foreign countries. Based on the analysis of these cases, CHRD concluded that transnational criminal networks are operating in Mongolia.
NGOs have also reported on the increasing scope of domestic trafficking and organized criminal networks in Mongolia that kidnap girls from the streets or lure them through their peers, relatives or acquaintances, keep them locked in hotels and force them into prostitution. In February, 2008, during the Mongolian New Year, half a dozen girls were reported to have been kidnapped from the streets and forced into prostitution in Ulaanbaatar and Darkhan city. One of the cases involving a 17-year old girl, a daughter of a poor single mother of three, caught significant media and public attention. Victims and NGOs also reported that girls are often trafficked abroad after having been ‘tamed’ and sexually exploited in Mongolia.
All existing studies, especially one by the GEC that focus specifically on identifying vulnerability to trafficking, as well as reports by victims, their family members and NGOs, agree that the most at risk groups are poor, young, poorly educated women and girls who do not have adult male members of the family (mostly daughters of poor single mothers), are half or full orphans, are unemployed or employed in the service sector (bars, karaoke, saunas, discos). Girls and women who live in the streets and are engaged in prostitution are placed at much higher risk.
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Originally posted by Blackskyboy 505:
actually i had a rather strange dream and the dream is kind of messy, with many kinds of situation mixed together and so i would like, and really like to know one of the situation . At first, i dream about going to my teacher condominium for study which i did in my real life, but this time the comdominium seems new to me as it looks nicer and with more facility.I remember clearly that the staff there will nice to mean and had a very good service and i remember clearly the about the places. After that, i went to another place in the condominium and suddenly i cough badly non-stop and was hoping someone will give me a drink and suddenly a girl which in my real time i never met her before, i really cannot remember her face but i remember that she was a very beauiful girl. she offer me a glass of water and i felt very happy for no reason. The Dream suddenly get mixed up and i turn up in my school but the place looks like my primary school but in my mind, it feels like im in my secondary school. I then saw 3 gangsters walking towards me and suddenly that girl run towards me and hold my hand and asked me to run because the gangsters are going to beat me up. she hold my hand and we run around the neighbourhood to hide. i suggest that we should go to one of my relative house since in my dream, i am near one of my relative house. the dream get mixed up again. this time round we had been chased again and she say we should meet at the old place(which in my relative house) and the rest of my dream, i never saw her again.
can i know what does this strange dream are and what does it represent. i dont know why now i really want to remember that girl face but still cant remember. srry for bad English..
no reason to dealt on this girl of yours.....
1) your dreams reflect you have too much things going on in your life.....studies, You have fear. You certainly feel the pressure in your social life.
As for the girl......don't waste time trying to remember her face. You are not supposed to see her face. Even if you could see her face in dreams you would not be able to recall.
So Go on with your life......keep dreaming but stop looking for this girl.
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so far steping into my 34 years of life, i have 3 wet dreams so far. and 2 time i urine on my bed because i use to go take a pee stright after sex . so in my dearm after i have my sex i go urine and only to wake up finding myself
the 1st time i have my wet dream is at age 16 or 17 (forget detail)
the 2nd dream seem so real , i have sex with 1 of my normal gal friend (in real life is just normal friend) she not that pretty but have great boob and figure, and oh wow that was a really great fuck~!! after fuck i dream that i go to toilet and pee, only to find myself wetting my bed the next second later...........
the 3rd dream is with my best friends girlfriend, strange thing is i have no intrested in her , she totally not my type of girl, but i dream that she and me are having a great make out in the hotel.
same as usual, we touch , we pet and we make love, and then again after we finish my thing,, i go toilet again and WALA~!!!!! i only wake up finding myself pee on the bed again.
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It is fair to say that we are seriously NOT INTERESTED in knowing how many times you Wenk and Pee in your pants. Keep that within yourself. thank you.
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Originally posted by Blackskyboy 505:
actually i had a rather strange dream and the dream is kind of messy, with many kinds of situation mixed together and so i would like, and really like to know one of the situation . At first, i dream about going to my teacher condominium for study which i did in my real life, but this time the comdominium seems new to me as it looks nicer and with more facility.I remember clearly that the staff there will nice to mean and had a very good service and i remember clearly the about the places. After that, i went to another place in the condominium and suddenly i cough badly non-stop and was hoping someone will give me a drink and suddenly a girl which in my real time i never met her before, i really cannot remember her face but i remember that she was a very beauiful girl. she offer me a glass of water and i felt very happy for no reason. The Dream suddenly get mixed up and i turn up in my school but the place looks like my primary school but in my mind, it feels like im in my secondary school. I then saw 3 gangsters walking towards me and suddenly that girl run towards me and hold my hand and asked me to run because the gangsters are going to beat me up. she hold my hand and we run around the neighbourhood to hide. i suggest that we should go to one of my relative house since in my dream, i am near one of my relative house. the dream get mixed up again. this time round we had been chased again and she say we should meet at the old place(which in my relative house) and the rest of my dream, i never saw her again.
can i know what does this strange dream are and what does it represent. i dont know why now i really want to remember that girl face but still cant remember. srry for bad English..
Meet at the "old" place ok?No see, No leave ok?
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Originally posted by Arapahoe:
no reason to dealt on this girl of yours.....
1) your dreams reflect you have too much things going on in your life.....studies, You have fear. You certainly feel the pressure in your social life.
As for the girl......don't waste time trying to remember her face. You are not supposed to see her face. Even if you could see her face in dreams you would not be able to recall.
So Go on with your life......keep dreaming but stop looking for this girl.
actually i saw her face but can't recall it. maybe you are right, i should stop looking for it.
Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):i always got alot this kind of dream one... sometimes even can continued the story over a few nites.... or always go back to the same background even now and then....like last nite dream of being very fren with one gal but i dun think i know her one.. but in the dream she is like my best fren can feel we are very very close one but not the physical kind....
i once got a dream inside a dream. which means i dream abt something but when i woke up, im still in a dream.so it means i dream of a dream
Originally posted by ditzy:You've been watching too much Flash Forward, get a life.
pls la, i dont get influence by a show that easily and by the way i hardly watch flashforward, miss alot of episode.
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ah puberty