I'm so tired...
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so next time we meet lesser.but the time we spend will be of quailty 1.u say i will listen.alrite?Originally posted by shan_cai:Sometimes i feel tat we need 2 tok.
I got so much 2 tok 2 u but i dunno ur willin 2 listen anot... Last itme when i haf family probs, i tok 2 u, u'll listen v patiently n console mi. But now if i got probs, i haf 2 tink b4 tellin u... U may not b interested 2 listen, or wil feel tat im addin on 2 ur burden or wat...
We reali lack communication despite bein together almost everyday. I dun like 2 tok 2 when u usin e com coz i noe u wont b concentratin in listenin 2 mi... Ur juz too engrossed in ur own world. Now u noe y sometimes i got prob i dun turn 2 u...
anyway sometimes u jus denied facts loh.like wat i say i acc u all the time.eat wif u all the time.but u still say i everytime meet fren eat,ask me eat wif u oso hard.
dun always liddat leh.i nv do u say i do.hai~~ -
I noe i cant expect much fr u n i wont expect much fr u liao.
Juz do ur part as a gd bf, u gif wat i juz take. Tatz e onli way.
I noe u cant change despite ur promise 2 become a more carin n xi xin hubby... I haf 2 learn 2 accept u as u r. I cant blame u, who ask mi 2 b so in love wif u... I juz haf 2 accept u... I cant do anythin liao... -
wats there nothing to except?i dun think im as lousy as wat u think leh.and before u say so.have u tot u urself?r u a gd gf?Originally posted by shan_cai:I noe i cant expect much fr u n i wont expect much fr u liao.
Juz do ur part as a gd bf, u gif wat i juz take. Tatz e onli way.
I noe u cant change despite ur promise 2 become a more carin n xi xin hubby... I haf 2 learn 2 accept u as u r. I cant blame u, who ask mi 2 b so in love wif u... I juz haf 2 accept u... I cant do anythin liao... -
I where got deny facts? Wat u did is not all e time leh... Ur mindset is stil liddat, stil tink tat ur rite too. If u tink wat u did is considered as acc mi, den b it.Originally posted by mitolover:so next time we meet lesser.but the time we spend will be of quailty 1.u say i will listen.alrite?
anyway sometimes u jus denied facts loh.like wat i say i acc u all the time.eat wif u all the time.but u still say i everytime meet fren eat,ask me eat wif u oso hard.
dun always liddat leh.i nv do u say i do.hai~~
I hope u can honour ur word, not juz say say onli. Action speaks louder than words. If u juz wanna say like fartin, i oso noe how 2.
But i stil tink u need 2 tink abt wat u did lah... -
the fact tat u say i acc my fren eat.then eat wif u oso diff proves tat u denied facts.wats wrong wif my mindset?i nv think im correct but i wanted to sort things out.Originally posted by shan_cai:I where got deny facts? Wat u did is not all e time leh... Ur mindset is stil liddat, stil tink tat ur rite too. If u tink wat u did is considered as acc mi, den b it.
I hope u can honour ur word, not juz say say onli. Action speaks louder than words. If u juz wanna say like fartin, i oso noe how 2.
But i stil tink u need 2 tink abt wat u did lah...
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Wat i expect of u is one thing. Whether im a gd gf anot is another thing. I admit in certain aspects im not so gd, but im tryin 2 improve liao.Originally posted by mitolover:wats there nothing to except?i dun think im as lousy as wat u think leh.and before u say so.have u tot u urself?r u a gd gf?
Btw, itz EXPECT, not EXCEPT.
There r some things i dun like abt u is tat i feel u dun haf enough initiative as a guy. I dunno izit ur personality is liddat or wat. But u tend 2 act like bo chap, thou u say u r not. But i dun like loh... U r not gd in expressin urself doesnt mean u can dun bother or care abt mi. Ok? I hope u get wat i mean. Dis is repeated issue. I dunwanna say it again... -
Ur so on whenever ur fren ask u out. But when itz mi, u tend 2 delay dis n tat... Ya u got eat wif mi but ur more on wif ur frenz... I dunno y.Originally posted by mitolover:the fact tat u say i acc my fren eat.then eat wif u oso diff proves tat u denied facts.wats wrong wif my mindset?i nv think im correct but i wanted to sort things out.
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Hubby, watever u done or watever tat happen in e past is already past. We cant go bk n change them... We can onli relate them. I onli hope our present n future wil improve. I can do it, so can u..
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tat is correct.Originally posted by shan_cai:Hubby, watever u done or watever tat happen in e past is already past. We cant go bk n change them... We can onli relate them. I onli hope our present n future wil improve. I can do it, so can u..
out 4 lunch soon......... -
Gimmi a msg when ur goin out k...Originally posted by mitolover:tat is correct.
out 4 lunch soon......... -
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Yu Guo Tian Qing Le
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Hubby,
Thks 4 usin ur precious time 2 tok things out wif mi... I reali feel much better now... Hope our r/s wil take a step further... We'll work hard 2 achieve a more stable n stronger r/s, wont we?
May our love last eternally... I reali love u alot... Mutual trust n understandin is indeed impt... So as communication... -
We both haf 2 learn 2 gif n take.
How u treat mi is how im gonna treat u, n vice versa. -
Thks hubby 4 enablin mi 2 increase my posts too~
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Btw hubby, i help u ask ur R1 & R6 liao...
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liddat also can ar?Originally posted by shan_cai:Thks hubby 4 enablin mi 2 increase my posts too~ 
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threasd very long
a bit lazy to think..
shan cai..sometimes it goot not to post such threads in the forum..especially when yr bf surf the forum as well..reason very simple..he may somehow feel very stress..like everybody noe abt the prob between u 2...
if communication between the 2 of u must resort to posting replies in the forum..den i think u must start to work things out
u r a very nice ger..and i m sure yr bf treat u very nice..dun think too mucgh into things..make u feel worse and wont do goot to the r/ship -
shan cai when go dating wit me?? ? lai lai bao yi ge
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Originally posted by Ah Ma:shan cai when go dating wit me?? ? lai lai bao yi ge
wah... u mm zai si isit? her hubby ard u seduce her!! -
True!shldnt post around n tell every1 ur prob.Veri uneasy 4 me 2 see.i always dunwan to post but i see the post i oso cannot tahan leh.Like im a basturb keep bullying my gf.Hai~~Originally posted by BufPuf:threasd very long
a bit lazy to think..
shan cai..sometimes it goot not to post such threads in the forum..especially when yr bf surf the forum as well..reason very simple..he may somehow feel very stress..like everybody noe abt the prob between u 2...
if communication between the 2 of u must resort to posting replies in the forum..den i think u must start to work things out
u r a very nice ger..and i m sure yr bf treat u very nice..dun think too mucgh into things..make u feel worse and wont do goot to the r/ship -
Originally posted by IamAngeline:liddat also can ar?
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Hubby... I post it here coz frenz here can help miwif my probs... I reali need 2 voice out my tots... If u dun like next time i wont do tat again k...Originally posted by mitolover:True!shldnt post around n tell every1 ur prob.Veri uneasy 4 me 2 see.i always dunwan to post but i see the post i oso cannot tahan leh.Like im a basturb keep bullying my gf.Hai~~
I juz need 2 say out all my tots fr my heart mah... Now say everythin out liao i oso feel better.
U nv bully mi k? As long as in future u treat mi nice i oso b gd 2 u de... Dun make mi cry 4 u again k... -
Ah ma seduce mi nvm de... Im her grand-daughter leh... Haha~Originally posted by wuming78: wah... u mm zai si isit? her hubby ard u seduce her!! -
girl girl goody morning.. had ur breakfast?Originally posted by shan_cai: -
look @ things in another way
if shan cai is not serious abt this relationship
she would not bother to post such thread..maybe she is @ her wits ends..like no choice den she haf to do it..
anyway glad to noe that things are better now...