Dear Diary (sad edition)
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last week had sort of a heart to heart talk with my gal
cos i felt that something was wrong
and she told me that she still miss her ex..
do u believe in retribution?
i do..
i was sort of the 3rd party then
maybe its fate..
sad...
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hey, dun be too upset k? u third party then means you won over her. so why not win her back again?
dun really know what else to comfort you. but take it easy lor (i know its hard to). -
dun be sad *pat pat*Originally posted by whiteillum:last week had sort of a heart to heart talk with my gal
cos i felt that something was wrong
and she told me that she still miss her ex..
do u believe in retribution?
i do..
i was sort of the 3rd party then
maybe its fate..
sad... -
things have sorta cooled down liao
we have decided to give our relationship another try
maybe this time all will work out
no choice lah
i am born suay..
but thanks for the concern
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Sometimes 3rd parties are victims..
I believe in retribution..It is natural for her to miss her ex ba...Who she loves more? Only she knows...Tell her how you feel...
All the best to you! -
her choice is me eventuallyOriginally posted by browniebaobao:Sometimes 3rd parties are victims..
I believe in retribution..It is natural for her to miss her ex ba...Who she loves more? Only she knows...Tell her how you feel...
All the best to you!
or else she would had gone back to him
or any of the other guys who are trying to win her
but then its the shadow that haunts me
the aftermath of the war if u will
picking up the pieces and stuff like that
war's over
now its re-structuring
sure gona take awhile b4 things went back to pre-war days
time.. and love
the greatest combination of all -
good for you lor.Originally posted by whiteillum:her choice is me eventually
or else she would had gone back to him
or any of the other guys who are trying to win her
but then its the shadow that haunts me
the aftermath of the war if u will
picking up the pieces and stuff like that
war's over
now its re-structuring
sure gona take awhile b4 things went back to pre-war days
time.. and love
the greatest combination of all
but then, do you think it will be like what it was in the past?
how long have you two been together?
anyway, all the best for you. -
it is bound to changeOriginally posted by winky:good for you lor.
but then, do you think it will be like what it was in the past?
how long have you two been together?
anyway, all the best for you.
but then we are hoping tat the change will be for the better
she did tell me before that she is the only guy that she has met
to make her wana settle down
and if she wants that herself then i got no arguments
we have plans to get married the moment we finish our studies
thats another 3 years away
till then all i can do is hope -
wow.
how can you guys have something on like that and yet planning to settle down after your studies? i'm a little confused.
i thought that you were upset because she is thinking about her ex, and now you say you are planning to get marry.
totally confused. how strange.
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hahaOriginally posted by winky:wow.
how can you guys have something on like that and yet planning to settle down after your studies? i'm a little confused.
i thought that you were upset because she is thinking about her ex, and now you say you are planning to get marry.
totally confused. how strange.
the plan was made a few months back
wat i meant to say is that i am the first guy to make her wana stay when she has doubts abt her relationships
her past relationships are when she meet with a prob
she will take the easy way out by breaking up cos she say she lazy
but i am the first guy to make her wana go the long way
and work something out.. and i am the first guy with whom she wants to stay for good -
Dun wori lar,since she promise u tat,then u should keep yr promise...U r not sway or anything..Look at me?Im more suay then u...No gf...no lovers...sigh...life seems so down on me....I mean,since she is still wif u,treat her well lor...Shes yr one lor..Originally posted by whiteillum:haha
the plan was made a few months back
wat i meant to say is that i am the first guy to make her wana stay when she has doubts abt her relationships
her past relationships are when she meet with a prob
she will take the easy way out by breaking up cos she say she lazy
but i am the first guy to make her wana go the long way
and work something out.. and i am the first guy with whom she wants to stay for good -
yah..Originally posted by evererin:Dun wori lar,since she promise u tat,then u should keep yr promise...U r not sway or anything..Look at me?Im more suay then u...No gf...no lovers...sigh...life seems so down on me....I mean,since she is still wif u,treat her well lor...Shes yr one lor..
but i din promise her anything
onli that all will be fine from now on -
oh ic.Originally posted by whiteillum:haha
the plan was made a few months back
wat i meant to say is that i am the first guy to make her wana stay when she has doubts abt her relationships
her past relationships are when she meet with a prob
she will take the easy way out by breaking up cos she say she lazy
but i am the first guy to make her wana go the long way
and work something out.. and i am the first guy with whom she wants to stay for good
that is a good sign, isn't it?
at least she is willing to do that for you.
but do you blame her for thinking about her ex? if i were you, i'll feel very disappointed with my bf, if he tells me that. then i'll wonder if he really loves me.
but that's just me.
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u cannot erase emotions and memories jus like thatOriginally posted by winky:oh ic.
that is a good sign, isn't it?
at least she is willing to do that for you.
but do you blame her for thinking about her ex? if i were you, i'll feel very disappointed with my bf, if he tells me that. then i'll wonder if he really loves me.
but that's just me.
the guy is nice and all
but she jus dun love him anymore
from wat i know, he is the model boyfriend
tall, above average looks and body, rides a bike, sweet and understanding, and he loves her, even now
me, i am jus an ordinary guy, a teacher-to-be studying for his degree, not good looking, onli got my ez-link card, no money
understandable who is the better choice
and understandable why she misses him
but its jus misses
she frankly told me she dun love him anymore
but she needs time.. and me
so i trust her
cos in a relationship, trust is one of the key ingredients
dun u think? -
since you say your girl's ex is such a model bf, ever asked her why she dun love him anymore?Originally posted by whiteillum:u cannot erase emotions and memories jus like that
the guy is nice and all
but she jus dun love him anymore
from wat i know, he is the model boyfriend
tall, above average looks and body, rides a bike, sweet and understanding, and he loves her, even now
me, i am jus an ordinary guy, a teacher-to-be studying for his degree, not good looking, onli got my ez-link card, no money
understandable who is the better choice
and understandable why she misses him
but its jus misses
she frankly told me she dun love him anymore
but she needs time.. and me
so i trust her
cos in a relationship, trust is one of the key ingredients
dun u think?
its a bit funny that you say she misses him, but its just miss, no love.
how sure are you? are you willing to trust her to the extent that you know she might hurt, but you still trust her?
sometimes you must know how to think for yourself too, brother.
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love is unconditionalOriginally posted by winky:since you say your girl's ex is such a model bf, ever asked her why she dun love him anymore?
its a bit funny that you say she misses him, but its just miss, no love.
how sure are you? are you willing to trust her to the extent that you know she might hurt, but you still trust her?
sometimes you must know how to think for yourself too, brother.
havent u seen enuff beauty and the beast ard to justify that ugly guys do get pretty gfs??
anyway missing and loving is 2 different things
u heard of this saying that good bfs cannot be good husbands
and good husbands cannot be good bfs?
maybe her playing days are over and she is considering wat she wants
its weird but sometimes love is jus like that
how do u explain love? how do u describe love??
its a feeling my dear, it cannot be described
handsome, sweet, tall, these are description
love cannot be describe
it can onli be felt
and yes i am thinking for myself
i love her =)
i am ever the optimissit
i believe in the goodness of a person
obstacles can and will strengthen a relationship
isnt it all nice that we settle the issue now rather then later
since she is all open abt it (she din need to tell me at all)
i am glad for that
cos we feel that our relationship is strong enuff to handle it -
wow. i didn't know such guys still exist. to me, guys are mostly all jerks. they just want to fcuk the girl and leave. at least for my case it is.Originally posted by whiteillum:love is unconditional
havent u seen enuff beauty and the beast ard to justify that ugly guys do get pretty gfs??
anyway missing and loving is 2 different things
u heard of this saying that good bfs cannot be good husbands
and good husbands cannot be good bfs?
maybe her playing days are over and she is considering wat she wants
its weird but sometimes love is jus like that
how do u explain love? how do u describe love??
its a feeling my dear, it cannot be described
handsome, sweet, tall, these are description
love cannot be describe
it can onli be felt
and yes i am thinking for myself
i love her =)
i am ever the optimissit
i believe in the goodness of a person
obstacles can and will strengthen a relationship
isnt it all nice that we settle the issue now rather then later
since she is all open abt it (she din need to tell me at all)
i am glad for that
cos we feel that our relationship is strong enuff to handle it
why good bf cannot be good husband? i mean, dun you need to get through the bf stage before you can get married?
i'm kinda envious of you. at least you get a chance to love someone that really mean a lot to you. and also you seem more happy than the first post you made in the beginning.
whereas my post just get glumy, and more glumy.
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Originally posted by winky:
i have been reading ur posts
wow. i didn't know such guys still exist. to me, guys are mostly all jerks. they just want to fcuk the girl and leave. at least for my case it is.
why good bf cannot be good husband? i mean, dun you need to get through the bf stage before you can get married?
i'm kinda envious of you. at least you get a chance to love someone that really mean a lot to you. and also you seem more happy than the first post you made in the beginning.
whereas my post just get glumy, and more glumy.
to me ur prob is already solved
he is not worth ur attention. full stop.
there is no point thinking about it anymore
and make a mistake onli once
we learn, and we move on
give urself some time and everything will be fine
i said b4 that emotions cannot be erased jus like that
if u cannot give urself a reason to forget
give urself a reason why u shld not remember
cos he is not worth it
and guys like me exist
we are always over-looked cos others are more flashy then us
but pple like me love from the heart
and thats wat reallie count
we are not exciting, we do not bungee jump
we do not have exciting jobs
i am a teacher, not a disc jockey or a race car driver
but i am sincere
and my gal knows that
and u should too
there are guys left out there worth ur effort
wait for them
dun give up -
Originally posted by Master -_-:
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maybe i should start looking at more ordinary people for a start. teacher huh?Originally posted by whiteillum:i have been reading ur posts
to me ur prob is already solved
he is not worth ur attention. full stop.
there is no point thinking about it anymore
and make a mistake onli once
we learn, and we move on
give urself some time and everything will be fine
i said b4 that emotions cannot be erased jus like that
if u cannot give urself a reason to forget
give urself a reason why u shld not remember
cos he is not worth it
and guys like me exist
we are always over-looked cos others are more flashy then us
but pple like me love from the heart
and thats wat reallie count
we are not exciting, we do not bungee jump
we do not have exciting jobs
i am a teacher, not a disc jockey or a race car driver
but i am sincere
and my gal knows that
and u should too
there are guys left out there worth ur effort
wait for them
dun give up
ok, will keep that in mind, when i'm ready for a relationship. right now, i just want to put my head into a hole and rot a bit. -
bottom-lineOriginally posted by winky:maybe i should start looking at more ordinary people for a start. teacher huh?
ok, will keep that in mind, when i'm ready for a relationship. right now, i just want to put my head into a hole and rot a bit.
u can feel when a person loves u with his heart
trust me
my gal tell me one
and she wont lie to me -
wah. you believe in your girl so much? i'm not trying to sow discord here, but, you allow yourself to be at the mercy of another person because you love her?Originally posted by whiteillum:bottom-line
u can feel when a person loves u with his heart
trust me
my gal tell me one
and she wont lie to me
its so painful when you are hurt, especial by someone you love so deeply. -
how can i love and have doubtsOriginally posted by winky:wah. you believe in your girl so much? i'm not trying to sow discord here, but, you allow yourself to be at the mercy of another person because you love her?
its so painful when you are hurt, especial by someone you love so deeply.
maybe i am naive
but i am in good hands
God is looking out for me =)