Dear Diary (jOhO's Edition)
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Dear Diary,
Relationship problems surround me. No, not mine, just seems like everyone else's.
Thank goodness I know of couples that are truly happy. Or rather they seem truly happy, because no one else really knows whether they are except themselves right?
My faith that I will eventually be happy as part of a couple is waning. You know me well, dear diary, that while I am idealistic especially when it comes to love and all that bullsh[/i]it, I'm not deluded. True love CAN be found, and I've experienced it! So why not again? And anyway I'm not really worried about myself, but the amount of relationship problems that blow my way from other people worries me, alot.
It worries me such that I'm now a little unsure of the faith I have in, I dunno, love? people? singaporeans? girls? (I am still heterosexual, as of now). Tell me, you've been written in so many times by distraught couples, what is your take on it? Has things just somehow gotten worse? Or that for decades, humans have always made "mistakes" when it came to relationships and it's only now that I've realised?
Nope, I still think despite all the seeming sorrow couples seem to go through, hope is still big, bright and shining within me. Help me to keep that hope alive. Also, help me to help instill this hope in my fellow humans that I so give a sh[/i]it about. -
piang eh.. my diary 4 timer is it?
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yes, true love can b found, but it's hard to find....
pple always say the one u love most will not b the one u married
the one u married is juz someone u like alot....
hiaz watever it is, treasure wat u have now...... -
Welcome to the Sleepless Realm, dude.
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4 timer? huh?Originally posted by Master -_-:piang eh.. my diary 4 timer is it? -
support u my friend!Originally posted by Spear:Welcome to the Sleepless Realm, dude. 
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Not another Diary.....
Nmind.. same post post at different thread.. Can increas posts rate too! " -
heh.. see lar.Originally posted by thhong22:yes, true love can b found, but it's hard to find....
pple always say the one u love most will not b the one u married
the one u married is juz someone u like alot....
hiaz watever it is, treasure wat u have now......
everyone sounds so toubled over relns. i need just want to cheer everyone up! can one! but of course i'm not superman lar. -
Heehee.. thanks.Originally posted by jOhO:support u my friend! Butfrankly speaking, I didn't quite expect this place will turn out until like that, becomea library for diaries.. 
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hehe i will post in the general one to tok cock.. maybe post in this one for "heavier" stuff. ok like that?Originally posted by Spear:Heehee.. thanks. Butfrankly speaking, I didn't quite expect this place will turn out until like that, becomea library for diaries..
and then the rest of it is just doing "sleepless" activities.. like crapping! -
Ya lor. I'm using the 'Spear Edition' one for more serious posting also.Originally posted by jOhO:hehe i will post in the general one to tok cock.. maybe post in this one for "heavier" stuff. ok like that?
and then the rest of it is just doing "sleepless" activities.. like crapping!
OK lar. Dun intrude into ur private space liao. -
Dear Diary,
I have a headache. I seldom get headaches. But tonight I have one. Why? I cannot have headache ar? Just shut up and listen to me will ya? Geez...
I wouldn't say I had a great night. Wasn't bad, just not great. I'm confused. Not because I don't know what to do, but possibly because I'm not doing what I ought to do. So I'm confused as to why I'm not doing what i know and ought to do. Confused?
I guess that's just me lor. I know but I never do. Standard. -
Dear jOhO's diary......
ALOHA!!!
regards,
LiLo
p.s. hope the head's better... -
DD,
It's be one screwed-up night. I feel like sh[/i]it.
I am gonna concentrate on my work from tomorrow onwards, if I even wake up. Yeah lar, I'll wake up lar, just when only lar. Mai kao beh lar. -
Originally posted by lilogirl:
yo lilo. it's better now that u've FINALLY shown concern, or that i've finally received it.
Dear jOhO's diary......
[b]ALOHA!!!
regards,
LiLo
p.s. hope the head's better... [/b] -
this is a forum, not a bLog
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your point?Originally posted by AzRaeL:this is a forum, not a bLog -
Dear Diary,
Life has an uncanny way of beating us down with burdens, yet still reminding us subtly that there is still joy in it. It's just whether we want to focus on the burdens, or the joys.
Still, the burdens have to be fixed. It's easy to bask in the joys, but things have to be done. Hope that I can fix those burdens, and not lose sight of the joys.
Hey, wake up, I'm talking to you!!
Geez... some diary you are....
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Originally posted by jOhO:Dear Diary,
Life has an uncanny way of beating us down with burdens, yet still reminding us subtly that there is still joy in it. It's just whether we want to focus on the burdens, or the joys.
Still, the burdens have to be fixed. It's easy to bask in the joys, but things have to be done. Hope that I can fix those burdens, and not lose sight of the joys.
Hey, wake up, I'm talking to you!!
Geez... some diary you are....
Dear jo diary, I think u need a caffiene fix
/passes some coffee to diary
Help tell jo that he is too optimistic
Is a good thing
Also tell him that we all believe he can fix all his burdens in life...
before he kills me for vandalising you...
bye jo diary
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Dear Diary,
My life is going downhill. To hell with optimism.
Tell En' she is a blessing to me. And ask her what "optimistic" means since I have no idea what that word is. -
Dear jo diary,Originally posted by jOhO:Dear Diary,
My life is going downhill. To hell with optimism.
Tell En' she is a blessing to me. And ask her what "optimistic" means since I have no idea what that word is.
Help me give jo~ a big big hugz!
and assure him that it is all gonna be alright!
and share with him a lil poem I found very meaningful, and help him find the optimism thru it...?
[color=violet][b]DON'T QUIT
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but do not quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow--
You may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor's cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out--
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.
--Anonymous
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DD,
i'm really tired.
apparently, the way i was made, i never do cry out for help. even when i was devastated 18 months ago i never really did cry out for help. but i sure am thankful i received it.
u see, sometimes it's not help one needs, it's understanding. it's just so much easier to go through sh[/i]it when someone ELSE knows why u have to do it. or why u are doing it this way, and not the "normal" way. everyone has a way of doing things, and while it may be wrong, it sure does help to know why, for some god-forsaken reason, the person has chosen to do it that way. often time, the person doesn't really know why either.
so when u tell a person to do it that way, because it's a "better" way, but in the first place, the person doesn't understand why he's doing it his way, isn't he gonna feel even worse? i mean he has no basis for comparison. he doesn't even understand wat he's doing, how is he to understand that another way is better?
that person is me.
good nite diary. -
Dear jOhO's diary,
Help me to give the man a pat on his back for me. I'm a guy, so its inconvenient for me to do that. You do that for me. -
Dear jOhO's diary,
Pse tell jO tat lilo will give him a BIG hugz!!!!!!!!
I'm a girl! It VERY convenient for me to do so!!!!!! -
you see joho, i think that when someone tells you to do it 'that' way, that person usually thinks that 'that' way is better for you than the way you are doing..perhaps he doesnt really understand whats going on so 'that' way the person tells you might seemed weird to you, you have got to trust your own instinct..it doesnt matter if you don't understand what you are doing, take your time to understand it, you have got lots of time..if you dont understand it in 2 months, take 4 months and so on..then perhaps when you understand what you are doing, then you will know which way is better..i guess you might be feeling lost now? be strong will you? you are always strong, just that sometimes you forget that you are strong..take care little one..Originally posted by jOhO:DD,
i'm really tired.
apparently, the way i was made, i never do cry out for help. even when i was devastated 18 months ago i never really did cry out for help. but i sure am thankful i received it.
u see, sometimes it's not help one needs, it's understanding. it's just so much easier to go through sh[/i]it when someone ELSE knows why u have to do it. or why u are doing it this way, and not the "normal" way. everyone has a way of doing things, and while it may be wrong, it sure does help to know why, for some god-forsaken reason, the person has chosen to do it that way. often time, the person doesn't really know why either.
so when u tell a person to do it that way, because it's a "better" way, but in the first place, the person doesn't understand why he's doing it his way, isn't he gonna feel even worse? i mean he has no basis for comparison. he doesn't even understand wat he's doing, how is he to understand that another way is better?
that person is me.
good nite diary.