complicated love
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ok.. here's the scenerio:
a girl got to know 2 guy frens (A and B) 5 years ago. A and B used to be quite close frens since a long time ago, till A went overseas 4 yrs ago. at that time, the girl was not very close to both A and B. during the period when A was overseas, the girl got to know B better, and they became very good frens. the girl realised that she was falling for B, but somehow thought they couldnt be together. (B couldnt forget abt his ex). the girl went steady with other guys, but a place in her heart was kept for B, duno whether the liking for B was just purely friendship, or BGR.
recently, A came back from overseas. B had no gf yet, and the girl broke up with her bf already. the girl started to get to know A better, but still remained as good frens with B. she tried bringing A and B together again, cos they had not contacted each other for a long time. A started to go after the girl, but the girl only had feelings for B. however, the girl didnt know if B had feelings for her. the girl didnt know what to do...
questions:
1) is the girl a b.i.t.c.h or flirt?
2) would the friendship between A and B deteriorate 'cos of the girl?
3) what should the girl do??
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1)the girl quite flirt...Originally posted by veLvEtgEr:ok.. here's the scenerio:
a girl got to know 2 guy frens (A and B) 5 years ago. A and B used to be quite close frens since a long time ago, till A went overseas 4 yrs ago. at that time, the girl was not very close to both A and B. during the period when A was overseas, the girl got to know B better, and they became very good frens. the girl realised that she was falling for B, but somehow thought they couldnt be together. (B couldnt forget abt his ex). the girl went steady with other guys, but a place in her heart was kept for B, duno whether the liking for B was just purely friendship, or BGR.
recently, A came back from overseas. B had no gf yet, and the girl broke up with her bf already. the girl started to get to know A better, but still remained as good frens with B. she tried bringing A and B together again, cos they had not contacted each other for a long time. A started to go after the girl, but the girl only had feelings for B. however, the girl didnt know if B had feelings for her. the girl didnt know what to do...
questions:
1) is the girl a bitch or flirt?
2) would the friendship between A and B deteriorate 'cos of the girl?
3) what should the girl do??
2) yes
3) ask or hint B loh..test water... -
the girl flirt meh?
she onli likes B leh... read carefully.... -
maybe wrong word to use loh...but fickle....went steady wif other guys but kept her heart for B...if she went steady wif ther guys...her heart should leave to her bf wat...Originally posted by veLvEtgEr:the girl flirt meh?
she onli likes B leh... read carefully....
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hmm........yah lor. i also think so.. but when she was with her bf, she didnt really contact B i think. scared her bf got wrong idea or what....Originally posted by SuRfBoY:maybe wrong word to use loh...but fickle....went steady wif other guys but kept her heart for B...if she went steady wif ther guys...her heart should leave to her bf wat... -
but still...she should not have kept a place in her heart for B...Originally posted by veLvEtgEr:hmm........yah lor. i also think so.. but when she was with her bf, she didnt really contact B i think. scared her bf got wrong idea or what.... -
aiya.. everyone has a place in their hearts for someone... like family??... me also keep aside a place for my best fren and family.... maybe she treats B as her very good fren, so left a place for him?Originally posted by SuRfBoY:but still...she should not have kept a place in her heart for B... -
like dat then boh wei gong loh...maybe she treated B as a fren loh...Originally posted by veLvEtgEr:aiya.. everyone has a place in their hearts for someone... like family??... me also keep aside a place for my best fren and family.... maybe she treats B as her very good fren, so left a place for him? -
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Why not post this in Aunt Agony..
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wahahah must support my own forum leh
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chim chim
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haha, buden some people don't know about your forums mah, den also cannot help you in your problem..Originally posted by veLvEtgEr:wahahah must support my own forum leh -
dunno leh.........s
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you online i just woke up
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1)the girl is quite a nice girl who for trying to bring the guys back but her erm....fickleness is a problem.Nope neither flirt nor bitchOriginally posted by veLvEtgEr:ok.. here's the scenerio:
a girl got to know 2 guy frens (A and B) 5 years ago. A and B used to be quite close frens since a long time ago, till A went overseas 4 yrs ago. at that time, the girl was not very close to both A and B. during the period when A was overseas, the girl got to know B better, and they became very good frens. the girl realised that she was falling for B, but somehow thought they couldnt be together. (B couldnt forget abt his ex). the girl went steady with other guys, but a place in her heart was kept for B, duno whether the liking for B was just purely friendship, or BGR.
recently, A came back from overseas. B had no gf yet, and the girl broke up with her bf already. the girl started to get to know A better, but still remained as good frens with B. she tried bringing A and B together again, cos they had not contacted each other for a long time. A started to go after the girl, but the girl only had feelings for B. however, the girl didnt know if B had feelings for her. the girl didnt know what to do...
questions:
1) is the girl a b.i.t.c.h or flirt?
2) would the friendship between A and B deteriorate 'cos of the girl?
3) what should the girl do??
2)Friendship between A and B tat 1 hor depends on how close they are loh......Like last time my best friend go jio the girl i like....but the end we decided the girl not worth our friendship
3)what the girl shld do?? hmm.....she is caught in a tricky situation which IMHO is caused by a misunderstanding.I think she shld make it clear to both of them espcially A on where she stands and not lead him on.....for B she shld either test the waters.....or if she wants to remain friends with both of them then tell A she not interested/she is lesbian
and dun tell B anything to mantain friendship.If things were to develop with B then well good for the girl.....if things dont work out at least still friends
By things working out i mean they get together -
what is IMHO
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Pretty much the same elements in the case of Curad. Let daddy analysis this situation for you bah.Originally posted by veLvEtgEr:ok.. here's the scenerio:
a girl got to know 2 guy frens (A and B) 5 years ago. A and B used to be quite close frens since a long time ago, till A went overseas 4 yrs ago. at that time, the girl was not very close to both A and B. during the period when A was overseas, the girl got to know B better, and they became very good frens. the girl realised that she was falling for B, but somehow thought they couldnt be together. (B couldnt forget abt his ex). the girl went steady with other guys, but a place in her heart was kept for B, duno whether the liking for B was just purely friendship, or BGR.
recently, A came back from overseas. B had no gf yet, and the girl broke up with her bf already. the girl started to get to know A better, but still remained as good frens with B. she tried bringing A and B together again, cos they had not contacted each other for a long time. A started to go after the girl, but the girl only had feelings for B. however, the girl didnt know if B had feelings for her. the girl didnt know what to do...
questions:
1) is the girl a b.i.t.c.h or flirt?
2) would the friendship between A and B deteriorate 'cos of the girl?
3) what should the girl do??
Firstly, the impression B has in A when the both of them are getting closer is more of a friendship than anything else. This is shown by the fact that she isn't anywhere better than his ex, therefore he rejected her with the context of excuse saying he couldn't forget his ex. Ok... so be it.
This girl definitely has a gnawing inferiority in her, which creates a void of emptiness in heart. (Sh|t I am using the same sentence again). She couldn't have him, therefore he goes try relationship with other guys - hoping that someone could take over the place eventually. In the end, none made it. Therefore she always say, there is a place for him in his heart.
Actually this girl unconsciously is using reverse psychology to lure him to jio her. But as you can see, she has failed. What I mean by reverse psychology? It simply means that she go with other guys to try to make B do something about it if he likes her, because if he do something, she will immediately accept. Sad to say, as her quest went - I doubt B's impression of her will continue to remain good.
If you ask daddy if B like her, I would say most probably no. Because if he did, he would already do something and furthermore, what she did - moving along with guys one after another - only serve to futher destroy this impression B will have.
Question 1
Whether she is a b|tch or flirt - it all lies in the eyes of a beholder.
Question 2
Whether A and B will fall out because of her - I doubt so, unless A is very subjected to woman's scheme. I doubt B will because of her fall out with A, but if it did happened - most probably will be because of A.
Question 3
What should the girl do? The girl have been making mistakes for SO LONG. All her love decision are totally screwed up. Unless miracle take place, I doubt B will accept her. Its time to give herself some *quality* time to think and reflect upon herself. She made decision for the sake of making them - its damn screwed up. She need to think about things, etc and see what she really wants. Once she know for certain, etc - without giving up halfway - she has to go for it. Or to give it up totally. Moving about to nowhere will only serve to reflect upon her character that B will pout.
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how to test waters on B?
ok... latest information from the author lol
1) A used to be a paikia, but ever since he came back from overseas, he's a changed man. holds a bachelor and is planning to go for Masters after his NS. also passed his driving test and now shares a car with his dad.
however B is not so good in a way, got into a jc but quit his studies. entered a poly, but also gave up. now he's serving NS. dunno whether shld continue with studies after NS. failed in his driving test....err duno liao
2) this bit i add in one lah.... my fren goes abit for looks lor. her future bf doesnt have to be really handsome, but at least shld be someone she can get used to looking. B is someone i think she will never get tired looking at him.
3) this one also i add in hahahah. i help her analyse the horoscope. A is a libra, B is a scorpio. B would be a more loyal lover compared to A.
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wah me dun understand lehOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Pretty much the same elements in the case of Curad. Let daddy analysis this situation for you bah.
Firstly, the impression B has in A when the both of them are getting closer is more of a friendship than anything else. This is shown by the fact that she isn't anywhere better than his ex, therefore he rejected her with the context of excuse saying he couldn't forget his ex. Ok... so be it.
This girl definitely has a gnawing inferiority in her, which creates a void of emptiness in heart. (Sh|t I am using the same sentence again). She couldn't have him, therefore he goes try relationship with other guys - hoping that someone could take over the place eventually. In the end, none made it. Therefore she always say, there is a place for him in his heart.
Actually this girl unconsciously is using reverse psychology to lure him to jio her. But as you can see, she has failed. What I mean by reverse psychology? It simply means that she go with other guys to try to make B do something about it if he likes her, because if he do something, she will immediately accept. Sad to say, as her quest went - I doubt B's impression of her will continue to remain good.
If you ask daddy if B like her, I would say most probably no. Because if he did, he would already do something and furthermore, what she did - moving along with guys one after another - only serve to futher destroy this impression B will have.
Question 1
Whether she is a b|tch or flirt - it all lies in the eyes of a beholder.
Question 2
Whether A and B will fall out because of her - I doubt so, unless A is very subjected to woman's scheme. I doubt B will because of her fall out with A, but if it did happened - most probably will be because of A.
Question 3
What should the girl do? The girl have been making mistakes for SO LONG. All her love decision are totally screwed up. Unless miracle take place, I doubt B will accept her. Its time to give herself some *quality* time to think and reflect upon herself. She made decision for the sake of making them - its damn screwed up. She need to think about things, etc and see what she really wants. Once she know for certain, etc - without giving up halfway - she has to go for it. Or to give it up totally. Moving about to nowhere will only serve to reflect upon her character that B will pout.
Cheers
B is not the girl's bf mah??? lol make me blur. -
Same thing. refer to my prior post. Ex pai kia, quit poly, go for looks - all that doesn't even matter, comparing to what's going in her heart and deep within herself.Originally posted by veLvEtgEr:........lol
how to test waters on B?
ok... latest information from the author lol
1) A used to be a paikia, but ever since he came back from overseas, he's a changed man. holds a bachelor and is planning to go for Masters after his NS. also passed his driving test and now shares a car with his dad.
however B is not so good in a way, got into a jc but quit his studies. entered a poly, but also gave up. now he's serving NS. dunno whether shld continue with studies after NS. failed in his driving test....err duno liao
2) this bit i add in one lah.... my fren goes abit for looks lor. her future bf doesnt have to be really handsome, but at least shld be someone she can get used to looking. B is someone i think she will never get tired looking at him.
3) this one also i add in hahahah. i help her analyse the horoscope. A is a libra, B is a scorpio. B would be a more loyal lover compared to A.
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that means follow her heart?