Hi people, i just broke up with my girlfriend few days ago.Broke up not because we stop loving each other but because of accumulated problems esp i didnt trust her alot. And mainly because i always act very rashly , always picking on her negative side .Thus hurt her so much that she finally give up. (1 year + rs ) But it is only after break up that i see how good she was. To be frank, she is 4 years older. And she even dont mind waiting for me even tho i have nothing now. And she really really love me a lot ( by all her actions , contributing to the relation without expecting anything in return ) i didnt cherish her. Now that we've broke i regretted. And i'm sure she havent stop loving me yet.
My question is , should i try to woo her back ? considering she will find better man than me ( but she say we broke because of trust, not because of better man, she is really one who is fully commited to love, not $ like most lady, Sorry ladies ) and also perhaps happier without me ? i doubt i can find another girl like her. Would you woo her back no matter what if you were me ?
Pls guys i need honest and true reply. T_T
You already admitted that you have trust issue with her.
It will not changed overnight and it will still surface in your next relationship.
If you really love her so much, you will be wooing her back now and not asking the people here.
It only show that you want her back cos she is good to you.
Thanks for the reply. Maybe i should give us some time ? Our parents like each other very much and they say if we are meant to be, fate will bring us together again. I admit trust is the biggest problem, but the reason for not wooing her back now is not because i dont really love her but because i'm afraid to hurt her again. I really let her down this time.
Wait for one month no contact, then woo her back with flowers and gifts.