Which do you prefer?
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do you perceive and/or prefer yourself to have a mind of your own or do you like to see yourself riding on others' wave?
be it during a casual discussion among a group, or voicing out your own opinion in the forum, which role have you been playing and wanting to play?
express yourself on how you feel and think exactly? or wait for others to do so first and follow suit? -
of course, i think i prefer to have a mind of my own.. and have my own opinion..but sad to say, i cant even decide for myself if i wanna shower or what to eat for lunch...Originally posted by www:do you perceive and/or prefer yourself to have a mind of your own or do you like to see yourself riding on others' wave?
be it during a casual discussion among a group, or voicing out your own opinion in the forum, which role have you been playing and wanting to play?
express yourself on how you feel and think exactly? or wait for others to do so first and follow suit?
so i guess i am more or less taking the other role..waiting for others to voice and taking sides with respect to my own opinion.. -
i think i'm the follower... but most of the time, i end up making decisions... and the rest follows... but this is only applicable to me in the SAF...
outside, i'm just a follower -
im a person of my own opinions and philosophies.....Originally posted by www:do you perceive and/or prefer yourself to have a mind of your own or do you like to see yourself riding on others' wave?
be it during a casual discussion among a group, or voicing out your own opinion in the forum, which role have you been playing and wanting to play?
express yourself on how you feel and think exactly? or wait for others to do so first and follow suit?
but im open to others' views too.....
at the end of the day then i decide whether to stick to my own or accept others' views/sugggestions/opinions....
i like intellectual arguments....... -
i hope i be able to participate in intellectual arguments.. bt i guess im just tooo slow... hahhah.. even then... my words might just be "jumble-up" forming senseless sentences.. whahhahaOriginally posted by FireIce:im a person of my own opinions and philosophies.....
but im open to others' views too.....
at the end of the day then i decide whether to stick to my own or accept others' views/sugggestions/opinions....
i like intellectual arguments....... -
if i am not wrong, most would prefer to have a mind of their own, rather than a "follower", as far as opinion is concerned.
but does that mean the more opinion-shy u are, the quieter u should be? or would being more vocal helps to improve ur expressiveness? -
as i have learnt in cyberpsychology
those less-verbal ppl can express through typing out....like in irc, icq, forums to convey their tots
oso....in cyberspace, there are less restrictions and ppl can "talk" at ease without having to face higher authority....
the shyness encountered at face-to-face sessions will be reduced... -
what if some people face prob like.. having difficulty expressing what their thoughts.. ?
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this can't relli be helped....means tt their tots overwhelmed their knowledge of the language to express them......Originally posted by Qoo`~`:what if some people face prob like.. having difficulty expressing what their thoughts.. ?
one way to resolve is drawing
rber our cavemen ancestors, before inventing language systems, use drawings to convey their messages...
another approach will be to attend speech and drama lessons...which have been proven to help children to better express themselves and train them to be more verbal..... -
if it's a discussion among a group, normally i will see who i'm with.
for example, if i'm with my poly frens (very good terms), i will open up more and voice out watever opinions i have. and they know me well enough to know whether or not to accept my opinions.
if it's with pple whom i'm not that familar of, or new groups of frens whom i just met, i will normally keep watever opinions i have to myself. shy lah..
normally have a mind of my own, even if everyone else thinks the same thing except me. -
errmmm.. bad at drawing?? i feel its more difficult..coz ppl might not understand what u drawing also.. unless u are good at it....Originally posted by FireIce:this can't relli be helped....means tt their tots overwhelmed their knowledge of the language to express them......
one way to resolve is drawing
rber our cavemen ancestors, before inventing language systems, use drawings to convey their messages...
another approach will be to attend speech and drama lessons...which have been proven to help children to better express themselves and train them to be more verbal.....
so old lioa still can attend speech n drama lesson ?? -
lai qoo.... let's go attend together.Originally posted by FireIce:another approach will be to attend speech and drama lessons...which have been proven to help children to better express themselves and train them to be more verbal.....
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i like to lead and have a mind of my own. but i do get into a dilemma at times but that doesn't mean i am not decisive...it just goes to show that i am not perfect.
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can.....got S&D for adults.........Originally posted by Qoo`~`:so old lioa still can attend speech n drama lesson ??
but they dun focus tt much on the language part but more on the expressiveness part..... -
come Let's Go.....Originally posted by Churra:lai qoo.... let's go attend together. -
apart from these preferences, do you believe you are better speaker or writer?
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VERY CLOSE...Originally posted by FireIce:im a person of my own opinions and philosophies.....
but im open to others' views too.....
at the end of the day then i decide whether to stick to my own or accept others' views/sugggestions/opinions....
i like intellectual arguments....... -
me is a better speaker in english but a better writer in chineseOriginally posted by www:apart from these preferences, do you believe you are better speaker or writer? -
i always have my own sets of thinking and ways of doing things. i will always voice out, as its obvious in the forum. n i hate it when ppl copy me, even in terms of dressing.
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Writer. I don't really like speaking from time to time especially when I'm on serious thoughts. I tend to run on LONG strings of thoughts. When talking, I tends to be broken off from my thoughts and thinkings.Originally posted by www:apart from these preferences, do you believe you are better speaker or writer?
I guess I would only prefer speaking when I'm not in that serious mood (crapping) or when I really know my facts by the finger tips?
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I'm never good speaking in neither of them... Think I better at talking COCK...Originally posted by FireIce:me is a better speaker in english but a better writer in chinese