"niao" colleague
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how would u handle this situation?
u got a colleague, always taking advantages of you..... but sometimes when u need her help to do some small things like eg if she is going to the mama shop, u ask her if she cld help to buy some stuff.. she pretends not to hear u.....
how to deal with such person.... ??? -
...so selfish.....
she is going there... n yet dont wanan help...
i hate this kind of people -
mabbe she chao hee lang..shld shout into her ears..
seriously..if i meet such pple..i rather dun ask for their help..ownself buy or dun use/eat -
ya i agree...
dont bother to care or talk or even look at that kinda people...piss off -
normally i would just suan her directly... "need my help? wait till the day when i have urs"..
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one more question... is she pretty?
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one question... is she pretty?
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you asked it twiceOriginally posted by www:one question... is she pretty? 
get her attention first.. when she responds.. then ask her for help
if she refuse, u can refuse in future.. for me, i would still help -
Originally posted by www:one question... is she pretty?
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just to make sure she hears me..Originally posted by sillyme:you asked it twice
get her attention first.. when she responds.. then ask her for help if she refuse, u can refuse in future.. for me, i would still help -
Pretty or not???
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ya, me too.. and its not the first time, i remembered got one time ask her to help me buy 4d also.. she asked me to go queue myself even when she is going down she refused to help me buy..Originally posted by mapp|ezz:mabbe she chao hee lang..shld shout into her ears..
seriously..if i meet such pple..i rather dun ask for their help..ownself buy or dun use/eat
so then on, i know she somehoe like this kind of person.. but i nber thought she so niao to the extend.. the mama shop just directly below my building only leh....
actually i felt rather sad.. coz its she somehow "betray" (i know its quite a strong word to use) but have to understand also not everyone has the same mentality as i do.. -
cannot bring myself to say such things leh.. somemore she sitting just beside me.. so like will feel very embarrased wan....Originally posted by www:normally i would just suan her directly... "need my help? wait till the day when i have urs".. -
In that case next time if she asks for help again pretend u cannot hear also.. that will teach her..
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pretty ar.. k lar..she quite sweet coz she has two dimples but abit big size wan lor..Originally posted by www:one question... is she pretty? -
she responded when i called her "eh xxx" and only ask her when she gave me some eye contact then when i asked her.. she turned away...Originally posted by sillyme:get her attention first.. when she responds.. then ask her for help if she refuse, u can refuse in future.. for me, i would still help isnt quite obvious that she doesnt want to help... y should i make it more obvious to myself that she is this kind of person.... somehow, i rather wld want to feel that she really didnt hear me than now that she purposely ignore..
hhaha.. i know i very mao dun.. contradicting my posts/replies... -
how to?Originally posted by sweetoof:In that case next time if she asks for help again pretend u cannot hear also.. that will teach her.. -
Do unto others wat u want others to do unto u.. so if she is like that then just pay her back in her own coin. in watever manner she does it to u..Originally posted by Qoo`~`:how to? -
sad to say.. i have a very ren ci heaert.... i find it very hard to reject other ppl.. esp friends..Originally posted by sweetoof:Do unto others wat u want others to do unto u.. so if she is like that then just pay her back in her own coin. in watever manner she does it to u.. -
anyone can teach me how to do it back to her but in a tactul manner.??
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to mi..i tink the best way to get back to her is to do the same ting to her..u dun haf to speak anytin bad or rude infront of her..actions will do..Originally posted by Qoo`~`:anyone can teach me how to do it back to her but in a tactul manner.?? -
ma nah wu yia! ren ci wunt burn ants liaoz..poor ants...ji ke lian ji xia...Originally posted by Qoo`~`:sad to say.. i have a very ren ci heaert.... i find it very hard to reject other ppl.. esp friends..
sometimes it doesnt pay to be a hao ren............... -
hahaha.. scare wat? u are lao shi ok?Originally posted by Qoo`~`:cannot bring myself to say such things leh.. somemore she sitting just beside me.. so like will feel very embarrased wan....
anyway, there aint many nice & friendly ways to reject ppl, esp when u are dealing with those who knows how to take advantage of others.
the subtle method i normally used are to be less effective in helping them. one of the reasons why they approach u in the first place is either because they think u can do it well or u had done it well.
so... just take ur time in whatever they asked u to do something. claimed that u are busy with something when they asked, even though it wasnt the truth.
i rather be named ineffective than to be known as mr. robert. -
u sure u didnt mistake mole for dimple?Originally posted by Qoo`~`:pretty ar.. k lar..she quite sweet coz she has two dimples but abit big size wan lor.. -
zhui du fu ren xing...Originally posted by mapp|ezz:to mi..i tink the best way to get back to her is to do the same ting to her..u dun haf to speak anytin bad or rude infront of her..actions will do..