to get attached or not?
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good that u have pulled yrself together.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Thanks but i broke up with her already... its just too stressful and too tired after 6 years of the same shit over and over again! I am feeling a lot better now than i was... i think!
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Thank you very much! But i do hope that my next relationship would be better than the last.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:good that u have pulled yrself together. happy for you. 
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truely, i understand how u feel.. coz i hv been thru that kind of shit before....Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:I rather be attached with the women i love... but some things are just not meant to be...
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Well, there is a saying and i learned it the hard way again as usual that "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never at all". Basically, just be glad that the person whom you loved was once in your life and now just cherish those fond memories that you have. Cheers!Originally posted by Qoo`~`:truely, i understand how u feel.. coz i hv been thru that kind of shit before.... -
yup yup, i thought so too.. that's y the dilema i facing now..Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Thank you very much! But i do hope that my next relationship would be better than the last. -
as what people say,love come natural.Firstly,both parties must have feeling for each other.Or else the relationship will not work at all.Cos it always u like someone but she/he like someelse.The only way to check is to go out with the person and get along well firstly.U will know whether the person like u or not.Slowly develop the relationship.For some case,some pple say too long will not be couple,some say know for short term of time also can be couple or not.It depend on individual.I think either parties will hint something about each other feeling.it is a natural reaction.U will noe it if u come across it.if u fated with either parties,u will be with him.Of course,i will envy pple who have stead.Cannot rush into it,think too much will have headache.rather let it flow naturally.I also single for quite long,although most of my friend are all attached.Dun forget,u still have ur friend as ur buddy to care for you when u are down.
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If you get attached just because you envy others, the relationship wouldn't last after the honeymoon days are over. So, just take your time and get to know a guy... if it happens; it happens! Let nature take its own course and hope that sparks will fly!Originally posted by Qoo`~`:yup yup, i thought so too.. that's y the dilema i facing now.. -
easier said than done, but i think once u manage to do that. u are superb liao... survived throu another ordeal which in turns makes u stronger.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Well, there is a saying and i learned it the hard way again as usual that "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never at all". Basically, just be glad that the person whom you loved was once in your life and now just cherish those fond memories that you have. Cheers! 
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True, it is easier said than done but i do believe that you can do it! Don't give up but keep trying! You will never know unless you try!Originally posted by Qoo`~`:easier said than done, but i think once u manage to do that. u are superb liao... survived throu another ordeal which in turns makes u stronger. -
have to be like that lor.. coz even if u really want, also have to depend on the other party also.. cannot ying ying lai wan....Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:If you get attached just because you envy others, the relationship wouldn't last after the honeymoon days are over. So, just take your time and get to know a guy... if it happens; it happens! Let nature take its own course and hope that sparks will fly! -
At least you know that love can't be forced... so take your time and sort out your feelings and thoughts. If you really like the guy then go for it! Don't give up without a fight!Originally posted by Qoo`~`:have to be like that lor.. coz even if u really want, also have to depend on the other party also.. cannot ying ying lai wan.... -
becareful dear wait ur neck ach again~~wo hui xin tong!!Originally posted by Qoo`~`:*nods head furiously* point taken -
no need to xing tong.. just sponsor me to a head,shoulder n neck massage can already....Originally posted by cwill:becareful dear wait ur neck ach again~~wo hui xin tong!! -
*pluck flower for Qoo*
for u to pluck petals....
*attached*
*dun get attached*
*attached*
*dun get attached*
*attached*
*dun get attached*
*attached* -
better still lah, I get you an Osim chair!!Originally posted by Qoo`~`:no need to xing tong.. just sponsor me to a head,shoulder n neck massage can already.... -
Pluck pluck~~later ninpeh pluck your hair...whahaha!!!Originally posted by Churra:*pluck flower for Qoo*
for u to pluck petals....
*attached*
*dun get attached*
*attached*
*dun get attached*
*attached*
*dun get attached*
*attached* 
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wahhh....old fashion way sia.......but still effectiveOriginally posted by Churra:*pluck flower for Qoo*
for u to pluck petals....
*attached*
*dun get attached*
*attached*
*dun get attached*
*attached*
*dun get attached*
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!!!!Originally posted by cwill:Pluck pluck~~later ninpeh pluck your hair...whahaha!!!
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sure it does!Originally posted by duotiga83:wahhh....old fashion way sia.......but still effective
Toss coin also can. Lagi faster! ahaha
Head means yes, Tail means no. -
Wait I go fetch my grass cutter!!!Originally posted by Churra:!!!!
i'm very scared!!!! 
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me too, bears too much hesitation most of the times. sometime i just wonder if i shud overlook her shortcomings and juz start a relationship wif her...Originally posted by Qoo`~`:think like wise too.. but some said coz i have too much hesitation n consider too much that's y until now still not attached.some of my colleagues also like that. almost 30 liao still single (no offence to those out there) n the advise they gove me is.. u are still young but cant take the "young" factor for granted. which is what they did. n i think also quite logical...
but as a cautious person myself, i'm glad that i didnt. else i dont know what kind of upset i need to go thru.
but it's a "chicken and egg" issue... there r times i feel lonely, wish i was attached, wish i have a companion. but there r times i feel glad that i'm single and unattached. see my frens like gotta "report" every few hours, cannot smoke, cannot drink, cannot cheong...
anyway, juz describing my own encounter, my own experience only. might not apply to ur case or situation.
i always see u as a sensible, and more matured in ur thinking than any other girls of ur age. i'm sure u r able to make the right decision this time too.
by the way, we havent met for a while liao... dinner one of these days? -
good good good.. i wan the one with sycronise music wanOriginally posted by cwill:better still lah, I get you an Osim chair!!
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ba wo de xing fu dang du zhu..Originally posted by Churra:sure it does!
Toss coin also can. Lagi faster! ahaha
Head means yes, Tail means no. but life is a gamble, isnt it? -
sure~~Originally posted by weeeeeee.....:...
by the way, we havent met for a while liao... dinner one of these days?