Are u easily influenced?
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by ur group of frens?
let say one of them in the group hate tiz particular person..n keeps on badmouthing him/her..will u follow suit and join in to tok abt the person..influencing almost every1 in the grp to hate him/her..or u choose nt to make a stand?
probably many will say u tat they choose nt to make a stand...bt i tink grp influence has a certain impact of how a person judge another person...even i am influenced at times..bt if i am given a chance to noe the person better..tiz mite not be the case...
sumtimes we juz failed to noe a person real enuff n then we start ramming how bad he/she is..dun u tink so? -
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like last time in poly..when we think that those few people were bad...den they become okie..and those who were innocent become errr...u noe... -
oh geez... how come Im always the person who is the "one of them in the group hate tiz particular person" ...Originally posted by mapp|ezz:by ur group of frens?
let say one of them in the group hate tiz particular person..n keeps on badmouthing him/her..will u follow suit and join in to tok abt the person..influencing almost every1 in the grp to hate him/her..or u choose nt to make a stand?
probably many will say u tat they choose nt to make a stand...bt i tink grp influence has a certain impact of how a person judge another person...even i am influenced at times..bt if i am given a chance to noe the person better..tiz mite not be the case...
sumtimes we juz failed to noe a person real enuff n then we start ramming how bad he/she is..dun u tink so?
Hmmm.... b|tching is a vicious cycle... U b|tch and get b|tched about ... so it doesnt matter anymore who's b|tching abt who..
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it's group norms i guess
if u wan to stay together as a group..sometimes u just have to follow it....
some people may say that....they won't follow...they got their own stand..but in such a society..normally u got your own stand = outcaste -
i guess wad comes ard goes ard or ezit the other way round? you lai you qu..u b|tch abt mi..i b|tch abt it..very common lar...Originally posted by *evanesence*:oh geez... how come Im always the person who is the "one of them in the group hate tiz particular person" ...
Hmmm.... b|tching is a vicious cycle... U b|tch and get b|tched about ... so it doesnt matter anymore who's b|tching abt who.. 
hehe sumtimes i am the person whu starts the b|tching too..n i am the first one to realise tat the person is actuali a nice person.. -
It happens all the time. I see it everywhere in my workplace. The hardest thing for a person to do after being 'indoctrined' with these negative opinions is to maintain a neutral stand.
Somehow or rather, I would try to give the person the benefit of the doubt. However, if he step on my toes and screw me up, I would simply join in the name-bashing. -
it's inevitable.... even if U dun b|tch about any1, surely sum1 would b|tch about u.... and usual the people i b|tch about are defintely NOT NICE!Originally posted by mapp|ezz:i guess wad comes ard goes ard or ezit the other way round? you lai you qu..u b|tch abt mi..i b|tch abt it..very common lar...
hehe sumtimes i am the person whu starts the b|tching too..n i am the first one to realise tat the person is actuali a nice person.. -
guilty until proven innocent...hahaha
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ya i totally agree...when u dun go wif the majority u r out...then u will be the one being kah jiao wei...sumtimes u will tink wads wrong wif voicing out ur ideas..n stickin to them..bt nv realise tat u will be out of the grp soon...Originally posted by BufPuf:it's group norms i guess
if u wan to stay together as a group..sometimes u just have to follow it....
some people may say that....they won't follow...they got their own stand..but in such a society..normally u got your own stand = outcaste
worst is when u dun even noe they are tokin bad abt u n u stil happily stickin wif them
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I dun follow anyone easily. I do wat I think is rite. Like my poly friend lor. they dun like the other group of pple n talk bad abt them.
but me friend with everyone then they say me DOUBLE HEAD SNAKE. But do u think i CARE?
Me Dun give a DAM!!! 
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hehheeOriginally posted by PaulSmith:I dun follow anyone easily. I do wat I think is rite. Like my poly friend lor. they dun like the other group of pple n talk bad abt them.
but me friend with everyone then they say me DOUBLE HEAD SNAKE. But do u think i CARE?
Me Dun give a DAM!!!
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I'm hardly influenced by humans*....Originally posted by mapp|ezz:by ur group of frens?
let say one of them in the group hate tiz particular person..n keeps on badmouthing him/her..will u follow suit and join in to tok abt the person..influencing almost every1 in the grp to hate him/her..or u choose nt to make a stand?
probably many will say u tat they choose nt to make a stand...bt i tink grp influence has a certain impact of how a person judge another person...even i am influenced at times..bt if i am given a chance to noe the person better..tiz mite not be the case...
sumtimes we juz failed to noe a person real enuff n then we start ramming how bad he/she is..dun u tink so?
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i guess i'm neutral......Originally posted by mapp|ezz:by ur group of frens?
let say one of them in the group hate tiz particular person..n keeps on badmouthing him/her..will u follow suit and join in to tok abt the person..influencing almost every1 in the grp to hate him/her..or u choose nt to make a stand?
probably many will say u tat they choose nt to make a stand...bt i tink grp influence has a certain impact of how a person judge another person...even i am influenced at times..bt if i am given a chance to noe the person better..tiz mite not be the case...
sumtimes we juz failed to noe a person real enuff n then we start ramming how bad he/she is..dun u tink so?
cos both my frans r enemy..... but they r still my frans, n i hate it when one of them say "u r person A fran, his fran will not b my fran"
knn.... he ask me out then tell me i'll not b his fran, then call me out for wat..... but now we all still frans lah..... n he nv mention tat sentence again after i scold him of "u n him r enemy tat's ur biz.... don get me involve, i wont side anyone"
sickening n irritating hoh??? 