Monday - 09/06/2003
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Originally posted by jOhO:
i guess some gals just think that if she tells a guy she's attached, the guys will shun away...
just so happens that i remember a particular conversation with a friend, that many girls (younger ones perhaps) tend to keep it from others that they're attached under the pretext "u didn't ask, so no need to tell". we were discussing whether it's becos they are still on the lookout for other men, or they're worried (i've heard from the girls themselves) that once a guy knows that a girl is attached, they wouldn't even wanna be friends, that's why they don't tell.
either way, i find it almost impossible NOT to mention a partner of mine, since she will be such a big part of my life. i remember when i was attached, the whole world knew, incl my online buddies that i played starcraft with. whenever i'd log on, they'd say the usual how are u? AND then how's she... and crack some joke about wat i did with her in the bedroom, but i digress..
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but it would be better to tell ppl u're attached rather than not tell to prevent unnecessary problems later -
Originally posted by jOhO:
i guess some gals just think that if she tells a guy she's attached, the guys will shun away...
just so happens that i remember a particular conversation with a friend, that many girls (younger ones perhaps) tend to keep it from others that they're attached under the pretext "u didn't ask, so no need to tell". we were discussing whether it's becos they are still on the lookout for other men, or they're worried (i've heard from the girls themselves) that once a guy knows that a girl is attached, they wouldn't even wanna be friends, that's why they don't tell.
either way, i find it almost impossible NOT to mention a partner of mine, since she will be such a big part of my life. i remember when i was attached, the whole world knew, incl my online buddies that i played starcraft with. whenever i'd log on, they'd say the usual how are u? AND then how's she... and crack some joke about wat i did with her in the bedroom, but i digress.. [/b]
but it would be better to tell ppl u're attached rather than not tell to prevent unnecessary problems later -
my sentiments exactly. If there's no hidden agenda in making frens, why should one hide the fact that they are attached?Originally posted by jOhO:well i think that if a girl is attached but genuinely wanna make good friends, by all means tell them they're attached, becos like u said it's a good way of filtering. a nice guy wouldn't mind making frens with a girl whether she's attached or not, so if they tell them she's attached and he disappears, he's prob not worth the friendship in the first place. -
dun cry dun cry...Originally posted by blurgirl:
we will support u -
agree!Originally posted by skinnybeanie:my sentiments exactly. If there's no hidden agenda in making frens, why should one hide the fact that they are attached?
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think our Friday thread was longest for tat dayOriginally posted by ©(^@^)©:haha..... everyone is snatchin to create a long thread everyday...... whahaaa......... -
u're asking me? i thot i was asking u? mauahahhahaOriginally posted by skinnybeanie:my sentiments exactly. If there's no hidden agenda in making frens, why should one hide the fact that they are attached?
i guess some guys do that too... to keep their options open. no particular gender is free from guilt.
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i even have cases where married guys still come n buaya other ladies and i think they really sux...
fancy being married and still trying to hook onto other ladies...
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i met some guys who oso shun me when they heard i m attached......Originally posted by skinnybeanie:my sentiments exactly. If there's no hidden agenda in making frens, why should one hide the fact that they are attached?
i mean "wats their problem?" attached doesnt mean married ma... hmm... this kinda guy oni wants BGR.. not friendship.. -
Korea sounds good too. My mum had a great time there but poor me have yet to step foot there.Originally posted by blurgirl:heard from my ex-colleagues that Adelaide is a real beautiful place, Australia's capital...
Tazmania is also nice ;p
My next stop is either Korea or Melbourne
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/high 5!Originally posted by oceanic:agree! -
in the good ol' days, it used to be more of the male gender who is guilty of withholding their marital status. But nowadays, females are equally guilty.Originally posted by jOhO:u're asking me? i thot i was asking u? mauahahhaha
i guess some guys do that too... to keep their options open. no particular gender is free from guilt. -
reminded of this guy who msg me on Yahoo mess saying that he's a MBA. Which i went "huh, wat is that?" Turned out it meant "married but available"Originally posted by oceanic:i even have cases where married guys still come n buaya other ladies and i think they really sux...
fancy being married and still trying to hook onto other ladies... .
I replied "Is your wife a MBA too?" -
so you know such guys are not worth making frens wif lor....Originally posted by ©(^@^)©:i met some guys who oso shun me when they heard i m attached......
i mean "wats their problem?" attached doesnt mean married ma... hmm... this kinda guy oni wants BGR.. not friendship.. -
no wonder e divorce rates shoot up lately... as stated in e news yesterday i guess...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:reminded of this guy who msg me on Yahoo mess saying that he's a MBA. Which i went "huh, wat is that?" Turned out it meant "married but available" .
I replied "Is your wife a MBA too?"
marriage seemed meangingless sometimes to other ppl... -
HEAR HEAR!!!Originally posted by skinnybeanie:in the good ol' days, it used to be more of the male gender who is guilty of withholding their marital status. But nowadays, females are equally guilty.
*forms skinny fan club* -
too bad no prize
;pOriginally posted by skinnybeanie:think our Friday thread was longest for tat day -
sad to say, that's the way our society is heading...Originally posted by oceanic:no wonder e divorce rates shoot up lately... as stated in e news yesterday i guess...
marriage seemed meangingless sometimes to other ppl...
but i have to add tat sometimes divorce are for the better. Like in the case of my parents. We have a better life after my mum left my father. I am proud of her making tat decision. -
eh? since when i also got fan club?Originally posted by jOhO:HEAR HEAR!!!
*forms skinny fan club*
all entrants muz be below 40kg issit? -
personal achievement & satisfaction is more impt, my dear.Originally posted by blurgirl:too bad no prize
;p
And the prize is... you found a hubby!
hope sillyme reads this! -
sometime i am scared of marraige..
like a lot of financial burdens leh
Originally posted by skinnybeanie:sad to say, that's the way our society is heading...
but i have to add tat sometimes divorce are for the better. Like in the case of my parents. We have a better life after my mum left my father. I am proud of her making tat decision. -
er.. ok then can i apply as a DOUBLE member?Originally posted by skinnybeanie:eh? since when i also got fan club?
all entrants muz be below 40kg issit? -
let's hear the response from a married person who loves her hubby..Originally posted by blurgirl:sometime i am scared of marraige..
like a lot of financial burdens leh -
me too.... i often feels that getting married is a v v v EX thing.... u need all the $$$$$$$ for almost everything... how can we possibly earn tat much of $$???? hmmmmmmm.......Originally posted by blurgirl:sometime i am scared of marraige..
like a lot of financial burdens leh -
at beanieOriginally posted by jOhO:let's hear the response from a married person who loves her hubby..