guys, I need your opinion on girls'personalities
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Iast night I got involved in a long discussion with some old friends, mostly male, and I was shocked to hear their comments about a mutual friend who recently broke up with his partner.
To cut it short, he left her for a fairly insignificant girl, less attractive, less educated, less humorous, less matey, less everything, at least in my eyes. All the guys seemed to suggest that his new gf is more feminine, by which they meant more submissive, and that he finally feels "like a man", apparently because his new gf treats him like god. All the girls, myself included, were flabbergasted.
We are talking successful, well-travelled men in their mid-30s, who you would expect to treat women as equal, instead they were saying things that not even my father would dare to say.
What do you make of it?
When it comes to serious relationships, possibly cohabitation, would you go for an independent woman or someone who needs protection and feels inferior?
Do you expect your partner to be a mate, besides being a lover, or someone that stays at home while you go out with your friends? -
a balance must be strike between independence and needy from a woman.Originally posted by toothie:Iast night I got involved in a long discussion with some old friends, mostly male, and I was shocked to hear their comments about a mutual friend who recently broke up with his partner.
To cut it short, he left her for a fairly insignificant girl, less attractive, less educated, less humorous, less matey, less everything, at least in my eyes. All the guys seemed to suggest that his new gf is more feminine, by which they meant more submissive, and that he finally feels "like a man", apparently because his new gf treats him like god. All the girls, myself included, were flabbergasted.
We are talking successful, well-travelled men in their mid-30s, who you would expect to treat women as equal, instead they were saying things that not even my father would dare to say.
What do you make of it?
When it comes to serious relationships, possibly cohabitation, would you go for an independent woman or someone who needs protection and feels inferior?
Do you expect your partner to be a mate, besides being a lover, or someone that stays at home while you go out with your friends?
woman who r too independent will make a man feels he's not as wanted. he'll feel that with or without him around would not make a difference in that woman's life.
woman who r too needy will suffocate a man.
woman likes to be with a confident man. and the right woman will help him exhuberates the confidence. -
i tink dis is too chim for me...
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would prefer someone independent....can make her own decisions and stuff (instead of me doing it)...but still respect my opinion...if iu have any
for myslef there's no need to *show* my authority, confidence or whatever thru a gal's submissive actions?? something must be wrong with the guy's self esteem if he needs to do that
that would aslo explain why sg guys get *frightened* by suscessful/pretty gals who has this air of confidence ard the,m -
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i would definitely want a mate.
as for bringing her out with friends, it really depends what kinda activities we are talking about here.
group lunch and dinner. by all means, i dont see why not.
if it's places like pubs and discos, i would rather go alone with my friends. she dont necessary have to stay home as she can always pub with other friends of hers. -
4 me, i prefer her 2 hav her own mind. can start her own conversation wif me n hav differin opinions from mine. yesmen r a nono 4 meOriginally posted by toothie:Iast night I got involved in a long discussion with some old friends, mostly male, and I was shocked to hear their comments about a mutual friend who recently broke up with his partner.
To cut it short, he left her for a fairly insignificant girl, less attractive, less educated, less humorous, less matey, less everything, at least in my eyes. All the guys seemed to suggest that his new gf is more feminine, by which they meant more submissive, and that he finally feels "like a man", apparently because his new gf treats him like god. All the girls, myself included, were flabbergasted.
We are talking successful, well-travelled men in their mid-30s, who you would expect to treat women as equal, instead they were saying things that not even my father would dare to say.
What do you make of it?
When it comes to serious relationships, possibly cohabitation, would you go for an independent woman or someone who needs protection and feels inferior?
Do you expect your partner to be a mate, besides being a lover, or someone that stays at home while you go out with your friends? -
i like my gal to be strong and independant
but tat does not mean that i wont be fussing over her
i want her to be tat way cos if something happened to me
she is able to survive on her own
submissive is not the word i am looking for
maybe mutual agreement works better for me
cos in a relationhip there's no u or me
there's onli us
so there
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a mix would defintely be nice
but no one is perfect
its juz seeing an imperfect person perfectly
and bending according to situations -
cant be borthered with details.. wat kind i dont mind just tat i love her can liao hehe ^^