As stated...
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Good frenz, close frenz are hard to find.... but its becoz both of u share the same thinkings or diff thinkings that brings the two of u to be good frenz?
for mi it will be same thinkings, what abt u?
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can look at chiobus together and smoke
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not necessary only the same thinking ppl can be good friends. ppl of different thinking can be good friends too, tho very difficult or very seldom.Originally posted by snowf|akes*:Good frenz, close frenz are hard to find.... but its becoz both of u share the same thinkings or diff thinkings that brings the two of u to be good frenz?
for mi it will be same thinkings, what abt u?
i'm open to all sorts of thinking to be my friends, as long as what they think aint evil, malicious, harmful, or any other negative nature.
2 ppl of the same thinking can be good friends rather easily, i admit. but i think it's also impt to be friends of a different thinking, and that's how i learn. -
It's fate who bring u and me together...Originally posted by snowf|akes*:Good frenz, close frenz are hard to find.... but its becoz both of u share the same thinkings or diff thinkings that brings the two of u to be good frenz?
for mi it will be same thinkings, what abt u? 
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it depend lorrrrrr.......
different tiking can be gd frd but same tiking oso not cfm can be gd frd one ...
it oso need fated lor .... -
I think one good way to make friend is to eat good food.
Cos i everytime come running to make friends and eat their
good food!! HAha, make friends to share their food! -
whoever can tahan my suan, and when got fight, will join in the fun one. same same hobbies like stealing, know gers on the streets, flirting, lying.
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good/close friendship can also be found when both/all are from different worlds and thinkings.
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some good/close fren can be totally from two diff worlds....Originally posted by snowf|akes*:Good frenz, close frenz are hard to find.... but its becoz both of u share the same thinkings or diff thinkings that brings the two of u to be good frenz?
for mi it will be same thinkings, what abt u?
i believe for frens.... its the "feelings" or wat u so called how "click" you two can be when together.......
as for some ppl.... their close/good frens are ppl whom really understand them.... but dont really talk.....
its how comfortable u feel when u are with him/her...... but the funny thing is, u find it diff to actually find any chances/"sparks" that the two of u will EVER be together....
thats wat i think.. cheersss./.............. -
Good friends will be someone who share the same interest with me, and we will share our problems with each other if we have one ..
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I guess for me it's either the 'understanding' or the 'feeling'...?Originally posted by snowf|akes*:Good frenz, close frenz are hard to find.... but its becoz both of u share the same thinkings or diff thinkings that brings the two of u to be good frenz?
for mi it will be same thinkings, what abt u? -
Hmmz...my fren n i has been good frenz almost 3 years...gone thru thick & thin tog before. It's becoz both of us click & share similar thinkings tat brought us closer together.
But as we grow up, we will have new clsmates, more probs that nv faced before. When u share it with her, she disagree with ur ways of doing while almost all others ard support ur actions.
The saddest thing was tat she voiced out her views which was against me on a special day of the year. Since than things changed & the chemistry seems to be getting less. Instead her presence made u stress. Afraid that she will object u in any way again.
Haiz tis prob i haf dragged for months until recently which is the exam periods i took out letters which she wrote for mi in the past. I've been avoiding our prob guess she is too. Think its time to voice out our probs & not drag on any further...
But i feel that aftter we say things out there will still be the ardwardness there...how? -
Think you should learn to take things more POSITIVELY....? Even comment from a CLOSE friend.... They can be things which make your FRIENDSHIP and UNDERSTANDING even CLOSER... Not further apart...?Originally posted by snowf|akes*:Hmmz...my fren n i has been good frenz almost 3 years...gone thru thick & thin tog before. It's becoz both of us click & share similar thinkings tat brought us closer together.
But as we grow up, we will have new clsmates, more probs that nv faced before. When u share it with her, she disagree with ur ways of doing while almost all others ard support ur actions.
The saddest thing was tat she voiced out her views which was against me on a special day of the year. Since than things changed & the chemistry seems to be getting less. Instead her presence made u stress. Afraid that she will object u in any way again.
Haiz tis prob i haf dragged for months until recently which is the exam periods i took out letters which she wrote for mi in the past. I've been avoiding our prob guess she is too. Think its time to voice out our probs & not drag on any further...
But i feel that aftter we say things out there will still be the ardwardness there...how? -
Being good fren dun have to have da same tinking... can "click" & MUZ communicate WELL can liao.Originally posted by snowf|akes*:Good frenz, close frenz are hard to find.... but its becoz both of u share the same thinkings or diff thinkings that brings the two of u to be good frenz?
for mi it will be same thinkings, what abt u? -
Got a close friend since Secondary 1. We are in university together. We are quite close, and would share our thoughts on a lot of things.
One day, he introduced me to this girl that he likes. It was a normal introduction and outing, nothing more. Few days later, I got to meet this girl again. This time, I asked for her phone number to remain in touch as casual acquaintances.
I got to chat with the girl occassionally. When my friend found that we had been chatting with each other, he told me he felt 'betrayed'. I told him there is nothing between me and the girl. I don't even like the girl in the first place. Yet, he chose to think of me of someone who had betrayed his trust, and stepped in as a rival competitor.
And I make a stupid mistake, telling him that "even if I like the girl, it is up to the girl to decide to accept or reject the relationship."
The hatred lasted on for weeks, months. Though I didn't really hate him, I was fed-up and troubled by the matter for a long time.
Now things seemed to be okay between me and him. However, we seldom talk to each other anymore. We don't ask each other out on weekends. We don't chat even when we meet each other at a common friend's outing.
There is this sense of awkwardness between us. The feeling I have inside may mirror the kind of feeling that you are feeling now. It sucks big time. I don't think there is ever a way to get the friendship back to the original state again. All you can do is to accept that such unhappiness had occurred and carry on life from there. -
den find me.. but i just dun smoke..................Originally posted by Master -_-:can look at chiobus together and smoke