Originally posted by |m00nLighT*ShaDows|:
My bf n I were together for abt 2yrs... then i broke up with him late last yr b'cos i cudn't tolerate to his unreasonable temper n demands anymore... i nv msg him since then... he was very very upset...
On X'mas day, he brought me a big soft toy n a card... i was moved by wat he wrote in there.... but i cant give myself in juz like tat... i dun wish undergo wat i had went thru' agn... i juz thk him 4 d gift.
One of my gf noe one of his colleagues... one day, when we went out, she told mi tat he wud b sent to US for work purpose. tat was when i started 2 msg him agn... as a fren...
dunno y, initially when i watched d news abt war bet US n Iraq, i cried... 'cos he's a military man... tatz wat makes me so worried 
... some how or rather, i felt tat he go US b'cos of mi... (dunno i shed how much for him liao... )
I went out with him agn... slowly we patched back.... 'cos i felt tat he had changed... he treated mi better than b4...
we were happy like b4 until 1 day.... i read his msgs out of curiousity when he went away 4 a while... i usually dun probe into his msgs.... but dunno y i had d urge 2 read it.... GOSH! i cudn't believe wat i saw...
he said he will cherish mi.... he wud propose 2 mi when he's back frm US... n there.... i saw tis msg frm a gal... i wud nv nv nv 4get wats written there.... "dear, can i hug u tml?" then i saw a msg frm another gal, "Love u, dear"..... i cudn't believe my eyes!!!
He came back n saw mi looking at his hp.... i exited d inbox... i kept quiet... but i noe he felt something wrong... i asked him calmly if he had hidden anything frm mi... d moment he said "Sorry...", my tears rolled profusely 
.... as usual he started 2 explain n apologise... i regretted accepting him once agn...
he told mi he wasn't true 2 those 2 gals... those gals came into his life when i broke up with him...
come on... y r guys like tat? we often c such cases on tv. gosh, it really happened 2 mi... i was thoroughly upset, disappointed in him... he asked 4 forgiveness...
i had given up a nice guy when i patched back with him.... is it worthy?
[b]If u were mi, wat will u do??? I m afraid of walking into d wrong step agn... [/b]
you are walking in a circle ...step outta it...
from your discription, he pose no good guy...
As for the topic...
i disagree with u ....
why ??
answer is all around you...just that u didn't reach out for the solution...