Don't you just hate it...
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inform his neighboursOriginally posted by www:send out leaflets?
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how about you paid for an item first and the person supposed to pay you back but then very naturally forgets about it.. totally.
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i definitely hope soOriginally posted by miss_soojung:Is it possible your friend really doesn't have the money at this time to return what he owes and in his embarrassment he's chosen to avoid you because he just can't find the money?
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a proper friend will spend the least effort to update you why he is unable to repay the debt or make some attempt to pay by installment, regardless how insignificant is the installment is.Originally posted by miss_soojung:Is it possible your friend really doesn't have the money at this time to return what he owes and in his embarrassment he's chosen to avoid you because he just can't find the money?
he does not. not even a "hello, i'm sorry that i cant pay you right now. can i do so by xxx date?".
and he chose to give an attitude as if i am the one who owes him money. and he doesnt do this to me only, but my gf as well.
embarrassment.. hmm... i dont know. i last met him last at sgforums bbq. he seems to chat happily with the rest of the guys. if he really feel embarrassed, i doubt he will attend an outing in which i am one of the organisers... -
the art of acting blur....Originally posted by X-men:how about you paid for an item first and the person supposed to pay you back but then very naturally forgets about it.. totally. -
i bet the money for the o2 mini oso borrow from some other fren oneOriginally posted by miss_soojung:Is it possible your friend really doesn't have the money at this time to return what he owes and in his embarrassment he's chosen to avoid you because he just can't find the money? -
see.. we always say dun lend to others if u think ure not gona get back the money....but then again...
how do we reject one politely without being "fake"...?? -
give a sad face, shake head and say to the person "wo shi ni pu sa guo jiang, zi shen nan bao........."Originally posted by Qoo`~`:see.. we always say dun lend to others if u think ure not gona get back the money....but then again...
how do we reject one politely without being "fake"...??
to make it more drama, pat pat the person's shoulder, then slowly walk away -
hur.... even if its yr friend??Originally posted by FireIce:give a sad face, shake head and say to the person "wo shi ni pu sa guo jiang, zi shen nan bao........."
to make it more drama, pat pat the person's shoulder, then slowly walk away
last time i lend a sum to a "good" friend for "emergency", end up she didnt return..and also MIA into thin air..although the amt seems small now.. but u know that time it means quite to me....
there was another time, i borrowed on a few occasions to my ex too.... and already written off as bad debts long long time ago....
he suddenly smsed me and ask me if he could be my financial planner cuz he just joined some insurance co...
my reply was "til u can repay me, talk abt planning for my financial assetS" -
i rather not lend than to lend liao later tt person zao lor then spoil the frenship
plus, i relli ni pu sa guo jiang.........
every mth payday happy, after i pay this pay that, transfer here transfer there, set aside some for food and transport.....relli nothing left.....sometimes overspent somemore.....
gotta pawn my jia chan liao....... -
money no enough!!!!
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Ya lor.. i guess everyone is sama sama to a certain extend, who here dare say that they every mth got extra money to spend???Originally posted by FireIce:i rather not lend than to lend liao later tt person zao lor then spoil the frenship
plus, i relli ni pu sa guo jiang.........
every mth payday happy, after i pay this pay that, transfer here transfer there, set aside some for food and transport.....relli nothing left.....sometimes overspent somemore.....
gotta pawn my jia chan liao.......
I've been pampering myself too much for this whole mth.... keep spending on "future" money~! Sigh.. its time i empty my wallet and only bring out coins... hahaha -
yeah yeah yeah!!!Originally posted by kopiosatu:money no enough!!!!
SO many things to buy/pay.. yet so less to spend! -
now thats wat i called a thick-skinned.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:hur.... even if its yr friend??
last time i lend a sum to a "good" friend for "emergency", end up she didnt return..and also MIA into thin air..although the amt seems small now.. but u know that time it means quite to me....
there was another time, i borrowed on a few occasions to my ex too.... and already written off as bad debts long long time ago....
he suddenly smsed me and ask me if he could be my financial planner cuz he just joined some insurance co...
my reply was "til u can repay me, talk abt planning for my financial assetS" -
hur? which? my ex? or my frd?Originally posted by www:now thats wat i called a thick-skinned. -
The latter ba.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:hur? which? my ex? or my frd?
Borrowed money from you and has the cheek to ask u to be his planner. -
that's why... must get rich, pretty, sweet and guai gf/wifeOriginally posted by Qoo`~`:yeah yeah yeah!!!
SO many things to buy/pay.. yet so less to spend!
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huhr.. he wants to be my planner neiOriginally posted by BÃ¥seline:The latter ba.
Borrowed money from you and has the cheek to ask u to be his planner. -
sometimes its not lending lor... its like say.. buy something or pay for the meal etc first... thn u supposed to collect certain amount from those there but they just 'automatically' forgets.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:see.. we always say dun lend to others if u think ure not gona get back the money....but then again...
how do we reject one politely without being "fake"...??
Not that I have such experience but sometimes due to old age I DO forget.. but I dont mean to lah
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yea.. same objective!!Originally posted by kopiosatu:that's why... must get rich, pretty, sweet and guai gf/wife
JIA GE YOU QIAN REN! -
Aiyah.. then lesson learnt: dont pay first, or insist on getting back on the spot la...Originally posted by X-men:sometimes its not lending lor... its like say.. buy something or pay for the meal etc first... thn u supposed to collect certain amount from those there but they just 'automatically' forgets.
Not that I have such experience but sometimes due to old age I DO forget.. but I dont mean to lah -
qoooo, kopi:
since both of u have the same objectives and both also single...
y not marry each other? -
We cant, coz he no money, i also no money. so we cant complement each other......................Originally posted by Churra:qoooo, kopi:
since both of u have the same objectives and both also single...
y not marry each other? -
ok, looks like you did thoroughly thought about it lor.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:We cant, coz he no money, i also no money. so we cant complement each other...................... -
canot complement, can motivate...... both also can become rich!Originally posted by Qoo`~`:We cant, coz he no money, i also no money. so we cant complement each other......................
pssst: who say kopi not rich?