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i just brokeup with my gf..though we love each other alot..we always quarrel..because we always get jealous easily..like i dont want her to wear skimpy clothes..because she always zaogeng..and i dont like her to hang out with guys..i know i should not stop her from having any contacts with guys..thats wrong..but i cannot help it..and that always lead to our endless quarrels..she thinks im controlling her..i also think i am..but i dont know what to do..i want her all for myself..we had been together for more than one year..i know if i ask her to patchup she will return to me..but i know we will still quarrel..cause i wont change my thinking..and she wont give in to me too..
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possessive....men like u..a lot ba..jealous, lack of self-confidence, dun have faith in her..
wat to do? i duno..coz i've never handle such a guy before.. -
yo, sometimes two ppl in lov cnt be together, due to alot of factors, jus lik u hav said, yes, u r happy wif her, but always keep quarrelling, who wil lik this kind of r/s, different ppl has their own thking, i oso herad of my other guy frds, they oso dun lik their gf to wear too little..it's either u got to change ur view or she has to go..i got the same thking as her, i dun lik to ppl or bf to "control" me, if u lov her, u got to accept watever she is..u must giv her some freedom, everybody needs frds, sometimes there's really oni platonic friendship, so r u feeling no confidence in urself or her..if not, history may repeat again for ur next r/s..
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im just a teenager not a man
its not i dont have confidence..or i dont trust her..but i want her all for myself..any of you got that kind of feelings towards your stead..like want to owe her completely..oh she lies to me at times..so its no wonder i dont trust the things she say right? -
i was like you.
regrets after regrets...
i ain't in any position to give any positive commments
but i guess it depends on the level of trust u have in her..Originally posted by spacesurf:i just brokeup with my gf..though we love each other alot..we always quarrel..because we always get jealous easily..like i dont want her to wear skimpy clothes..because she always zaogeng..and i dont like her to hang out with guys..i know i should not stop her from having any contacts with guys..thats wrong..but i cannot help it..and that always lead to our endless quarrels..she thinks im controlling her..i also think i am..but i dont know what to do..i want her all for myself..we had been together for more than one year..i know if i ask her to patchup she will return to me..but i know we will still quarrel..cause i wont change my thinking..and she wont give in to me too..
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its not like im having regrets..i just want to find out from others what are their opinions of this matter..she tried to patch back a couple of times when we went out after we just brokeup..confused of what to do..
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You are still young...cheer up and she isn't the only female soul left. Look on the bright side, you still got a long way to go and there inhibit better thing for you to accomplish than this. I used to be like you (years ago). But don't live to regret your live. Your priority now is to get to the goal you set for yourself. If you set your mind on something 'BIG', don't even think of woman for they are everywhere. Look around you as you grow, if you can't get A, B and C will come looking for you. Hang in there, don't be so uptight about girls. Otherwise, you live a life of insecurities forever!
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hmmm... ever wondered why some men behave this way?...
mite sound like excuses (of which i'm gulity as charged)
but sometimes men have also been hurt badly in a relationship.
self confidence is something i never really figured out.
u just loses faith in yourself... not the other party.
things just happened overnight (perhaps if i had paid more attention to it, i should have seen it coming). i was put down in such a way tat i probably never b the same as b4. once bitten, twice shy.
i was thinkin to myself on my way back from work, if i had just walked away that day, perhaps i would not be as hurt as now. perhaps i should just walk away... julianne once said i am a "never say die" person. i guess i've changed.. i no longer put too much hope. the more hope i put, perhaps i would fall even harder. i guess i would rather i fall and never get up, than fall and try to get up once again.Originally posted by browniebaobao:possessive....men like u..a lot ba..jealous, lack of self-confidence, dun have faith in her..
wat to do? i duno..coz i've never handle such a guy before.