MY DEEPEST PAIN.. part 1
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My best pal told me if in future i no longer love my ex, i will laugh myself for all the foolish things i have done when im sad...
I wait for the days to come...
Recently my first gf contact omost eveyday...
heard she leaving her bf soon...
y two of us become single again...
but for now i have no feelings towards her, she is like a good sis to me...
to think that i was once so deeply in loved with this ger...
Maybe many years later when i looked back, Yan will be like my 1st gf.. i will manage to get her out of my mind ...
Love to me is a mist, a legend... hard to have good endings....
From now onwards, though i still feel pains.. i will divert my attentions in my OWN things... my own life -
I saw her new bf... my heart really sank liao...
a mixed feelings of pains and abit numb..
i told myself if i still carry on in this state, how am i going to continue to live happily???
BUt, i miss the days when she was with me.
I miss our yrs together.. im being replace now. what can i do or to say?
Sho i feel happy for her, angry? All i noe is that my heart sank liao. -
Originally posted by TaeWoon:
[b]I saw her new bf... my heart really sank liao...
a mixed feelings of pains and abit numb..
i told myself if i still carry on in this state, how am i going to continue to live happily???
BUt, i miss the days when she was with me.
I miss our yrs together.. im being replace now. what can i do or to say?
Sho i feel happy for her, angry? All i noe is that my heart sank liao.[/b]
Dear Tae Woon,
I understand how you feel. Your beloved is attached but the bf is not u. Sad..
Well, if she is happy now, just wish her all the best ya..And it's also time for you to move on..
How do u get urself out of this state? U have to be determined and noe what you want...tell urself to let go..carry on with life..hopefully u can open ur heart to someone new..whom might be just not far away from u now. ^^
Best wishes,
bbb -
pain.. unable to subside after a yr...
i wish her joy and happiness..
but im not saint.. how can one not to be sad when the beloved one has gone to other's arm... -
pain.. unable to subside after a yr...
i wish her joy and happiness..
but im not saint.. how can one not to be sad when the beloved one has gone to other's arm... -
Oh my... so sad.. feel like crying liaos...
Not trying to add in more pian but really some guys
really take things for granted.
then when a gal finally reach her limit, she will be very hard hearted
and let go... she is very tolerant ardy... 6yrs!
i been thru this kinda treatment also, 2yrs n i taboleh tahan ...
anyway, i know it hurts alot now...
but mayb u can try to go elsewhere n furthur ur skills?
mayb by not being ard the place u live in, tats filled w memories of her,
n hving to bump into her n her bf...
slowly time n a diff environment will help to cure ur broken heart,,,
it may not be forgottten but it will juz be kept as a swt memory ...
all the best! -
Excuse me , do we know each other?Originally posted by ak0:lyn~ is my wonderwoman... hi lynlyn wo ai ni!!!!
my name wonderwoman also
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u've gotta move on.
live and fight another day.
i'm really sad to hear that tae...
i was in a similar situation as well.
i was at a point, angsty and helpless.
like u said, should i be happy for her tat she found someone tat loves her just as much as she loves him?
or rather should i be sad abt it, abt the fact tat i was replaced.
at the end of the day, i realised something.
the decision has been made.
just accept the fact and move on.
there's nothing i could do, nothing i could say.
memories... tat's wat our past becomes.
cheer up tae
regards
fogaOriginally posted by TaeWoon:
[b]I saw her new bf... my heart really sank liao...
a mixed feelings of pains and abit numb..
i told myself if i still carry on in this state, how am i going to continue to live happily???
BUt, i miss the days when she was with me.
I miss our yrs together.. im being replace now. what can i do or to say?
Sho i feel happy for her, angry? All i noe is that my heart sank liao.[/b] -
thanks for the encouragement from u all...
im tryin very hard
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tae, keep it up.
the call is yours. it's ur show, no one can decide for u the plot and how the story ends. we all at ~Hotel Heartbreak~ can't solve ur probs, but wat we can do is offer u a place to pour out ur sorrows. we are contactable via PM or if u feel comfortable in MSN u can PM me. in the meanwhile keep tat faith and believe in yourself tat u can pull thru this unpleasant period of your life. take care tae
regards
foga -
tae, dunno why whenever i comes into here, ur post never fails to sets me thinking... u know, sinc she has alreadi made up her mind, forgive her. but dun forget the hurt she gave u. keep it close to your heart, constantly remind urself that u understands how it feels to be at the recieving end of it. and make not it come true for ur future other half.
basically i'm a "do not onto others what u dun wan others to do onto you" kind of person. anyway my heart was once broken beyond recognition. after sinking into the deep hole of self pity, i made a choice to be happy. and i stepped out of it. i hope u can do so too.
sincerest regards
foga -
thumbs up brudder~Originally posted by foga:tae, dunno why whenever i comes into here, ur post never fails to sets me thinking... u know, sinc she has alreadi made up her mind, forgive her. but dun forget the hurt she gave u. keep it close to your heart, constantly remind urself that u understands how it feels to be at the recieving end of it. and make not it come true for ur future other half.
basically i'm a "do not onto others what u dun wan others to do onto you" kind of person. anyway my heart was once broken beyond recognition. after sinking into the deep hole of self pity, i made a choice to be happy. and i stepped out of it. i hope u can do so too.
sincerest regards
foga -
wow... i think u can write a book about ur story liaoz.. really touching, those things that u've done and said to each other.. while reading i kinda made a pact to myself that i'll nv hurt the one whom i love.. i hope ur story will sorta act as a wake up call to those in love to cherish the one beside you and dun hurt them or in the end you'll only live to regret