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i guess when one is going through a breakup.... one will start thinking about alot of IFs.... what if this, what if that..... but it has already happened.....Originally posted by icyprincess:i know wat u mean..sumtime si tink dat mebbe it is better if it had not happened..then i wudnt have to think so much...and be in so much pain..
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Originally posted by icyprincess:i know wat u mean..sumtime si tink dat mebbe it is better if it had not happened..then i wudnt have to think so much...and be in so much pain..
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But never regret being together..tho it really hurts a lot.
Perhaps if we were juz frens..then perhaps we would be very good frens now?
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Originally posted by Estee:hahahaha....... it's like that one mah.... it's just to self-console urself.... anyway... 'maybe' when someone else enters ur life..... u will feel better.
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dats y i din reveal my feelings for my most current crush..cos he is my bestest guy fren oledi...dun wan to lose him bcos of my confession...plus he likes another gal anyway...Originally posted by browniebaobao:
But never regret being together..tho it really hurts a lot.
Perhaps if we were juz frens..then perhaps we would be very good frens now?
It's so contradicting..
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Originally posted by Estee:i guess when one is going through a breakup.... one will start thinking about alot of IFs.... what if this, what if that..... but it has already happened.....
But think so much also no use liao..coz what has happened, has happened. And it's impossible to be together again. -
hahaha..... it's so ironic one bah.... but some breakup liao still can be good frens.... maybe when both parties moved on liao.... but few right....Originally posted by browniebaobao:
But never regret being together..tho it really hurts a lot.
Perhaps if we were juz frens..then perhaps we would be very good frens now?
It's so contradicting.. -
Originally posted by icyprincess:dats y i din reveal my feelings for my most current crush..cos he is my bestest guy fren oledi...dun wan to lose him bcos of my confession...plus he likes another gal anyway...
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I'm not one who will have crushes..unless he makes me feel that he has a crush on me..lol
Hmm..I dun take the initiative..and so I won't tell my crush that I like him or whatever lor..I still feel that guys should take the initiative..
I understand the feeling of seeing someone you like, likes another girl.. -
hahahah u know what?? last time when i like some guy.... and i know he doesn't like me..... and when he told me he like which gal which gal.... i still teach him how to go chase that gal leh..... hahahah..... sad case.... make myself so sad.... people say i stupid..... but i still wish him to be happy.... u all ever like that??Originally posted by icyprincess:dats y i din reveal my feelings for my most current crush..cos he is my bestest guy fren oledi...dun wan to lose him bcos of my confession...plus he likes another gal anyway...
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Originally posted by Estee:hahaha..... it's so ironic one bah.... but some breakup liao still can be good frens.... maybe when both parties moved on liao.... but few right....
K la, frens now..but not as gd as before...I mean not as gd as those times before we were together..and it's really a sad thing..
I used to think that I cannot be fren with the person I broke up with..but then i realize that I wana keep him..know how he is doing etc..Hope he is doing well etc..And really feels comfortable only with him..that's why dun wana keep in touch.. -
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orh..... like when meetup liao.... will have the 'so near yet so far' feeling??Originally posted by browniebaobao:
K la, frens now..but not as gd as before...I mean not as gd as those times before we were together..and it's really a sad thing..
I used to think that I cannot be fren with the person I broke up with..but then i realize that I wana keep him..know how he is doing etc..Hope he is doing well etc..And really feels comfortable only with him..that's why dun wana keep in touch.. -
Bcos u alrd knew that he like that girl ar...Originally posted by Estee:hahahah u know what?? last time when i like some guy.... and i know he doesn't like me..... and when he told me he like which gal which gal.... i still teach him how to go chase that gal leh..... hahahah..... sad case.... make myself so sad.... people say i stupid..... but i still wish him to be happy.... u all ever like that??
then pple always say ' to love somebody is want that person to be happy."
Stupid ar? i did something more stupid haha..haiz.. -
Originally posted by Estee:orh..... like when meetup liao.... will have the 'so near yet so far' feeling??
Somehow...true..
Actually I'm ok if he wana come close..But if he choose to stay a distance away..then bobian lor..coz i will be sad..coz we used to be that close..
But i was shocked when he still leaned over like we were still together..but that's what i mean by comfortable in some way..I dun resist and we dun feel awkward...very used to each other's company..And my classmates thought we are an item...little did they know that he's my ex ex.. -
errrrr..... i know cos we very good chat buddies.... then he come tell me.... so i suggest how to go chase the gal lah blah blah.... hahahaha.... he happy i also happy... like real.... ahahahah......Originally posted by browniebaobao:Bcos u alrd knew that he like that girl ar...
then pple always say ' to love somebody is want that person to be happy."
Stupid ar? i did something more stupid haha..haiz.. -
yeah..... u must be having a hard time...... /me pat pat bbb....Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Somehow...true..
Actually I'm ok if he wana come close..But if he choose to stay a distance away..then bobian lor..coz i will be sad..coz we used to be that close..
But i was shocked when he still leaned over like we were still together..but that's what i mean by comfortable in some way..I dun resist and we dun feel awkward...very used to each other's company..And my classmates thought we are an item...little did they know that he's my ex ex.. -
Originally posted by Estee:errrrr..... i know cos we very good chat buddies.... then he come tell me.... so i suggest how to go chase the gal lah blah blah.... hahahaha.... he happy i also happy... like real.... ahahahah......
Haha...
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Originally posted by Estee:yeah..... u must be having a hard time...... /me pat pat bbb....
Thank you Estee~
Just expect less and be happier..
I went to concerts alone...do things alone..telling myself that I dun need a companion all the time..haiz..
I always go out alone de actually..but things became so different after I met him.
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haha..now u tell me abt it..i m in exactly the same situation..i have done numerous things to help him chase after that gal...buy phonecard for him to call her la, check his love letters to her la, help him buy presents la...who can be stupider than me?Originally posted by Estee:hahahah u know what?? last time when i like some guy.... and i know he doesn't like me..... and when he told me he like which gal which gal.... i still teach him how to go chase that gal leh..... hahahah..... sad case.... make myself so sad.... people say i stupid..... but i still wish him to be happy.... u all ever like that??
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that one very long ago liao lor..... poly days... 4yrs??Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Haha...
but glad u are laughing over it now.. -
ahahahaa....... no prob gal.... i also normally do things alone or with frens.... but still feel 'alone'..... then things changed when i found him or he found me..... life just got better.... then things ended.... i'm back to the same old days..... trying to find a 'direction'.... and yeah as u said... it's over for now..... life still goes on.... and well.... u'll be fine, i'll be fine.... may all be fineOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
Thank you Estee~
Just expect less and be happier..
I went to concerts alone...do things alone..telling myself that I dun need a companion all the time..haiz..
I always go out alone de actually..but things became so different after I met him.
Anyway, it's over. 
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Originally posted by icyprincess:haha..now u tell me abt it..i m in exactly the same situation..i have done numerous things to help him chase after that gal...buy phonecard for him to call her la, check his love letters to her la, help him buy presents la...who can be stupider than me?
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Perhaps we did this either because we dare not confess, dare not pursue our own happiness or because we know that we can't take over the girl's place in his heart?
After break up, I encouraged him to go and confess his feelings to the girl he loves..his ex lor..haiz..then I even told him that if she dun want him, can always come back to me. Silly hor? Hmm..
But anyway..I really the doubt the girl will go back to him and then so envious of the girl..so many years le..No matter how nice I treat him and how much I did for him..we still can't patch..Anyway we are frens now and then after him, I moved on and started another r/s lor..
it's the last one who made me realize that I still wana keep in touch with the previous one.. -
Originally posted by Estee:that one very long ago liao lor..... poly days... 4yrs??
And hopefully you are happy with what you have now
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Originally posted by Estee:ahahahaa....... no prob gal.... i also normally do things alone or with frens.... but still feel 'alone'..... then things changed when i found him or he found me..... life just got better.... then things ended.... i'm back to the same old days..... trying to find a 'direction'.... and yeah as u said... it's over for now..... life still goes on.... and well.... u'll be fine, i'll be fine.... may all be fine
All the best, Estee~
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hahahaha...... just lost my 'direction'.....Originally posted by browniebaobao:
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mebbe it is becos i always put his happiness before my own. and he will never know and appreciate that.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Perhaps we did this either because we dare not confess, dare not pursue our own happiness or because we know that we can't take over the girl's place in his heart?
After break up, I encouraged him to go and confess his feelings to the girl he loves..his ex lor..haiz..then I even told him that if she dun want him, can always come back to me. Silly hor? Hmm..
But anyway..I really the doubt the girl will go back to him and then so envious of the girl..so many years le..No matter how nice I treat him and how much I did for him..we still can't patch..Anyway we are frens now and then after him, I moved on and started another r/s lor..
it's the last one who made me realize that I still wana keep in touch with the previous one..
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