Confused.
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My gf and i have been attached for 3 months. Recently , i feel that we have been drifting apart. She does not seemed as committed as before. She also priortises her friends before me. She says shes afraid of being bored of me and stuff lidat. But i feel that if u truely love someone , u wont be bored of him/her. I feel quite miserable day in day out , dunno wad to do and dunno wad happened. Is this a sign that our relationship is ending ?
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It just means the honeymoon period is over and you require alot more commitment and responsibility from hereon if you want to keep things going. Its not going to be easy, remember this.
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maybe u need to do something to spice up the relationship. otherwise, always seeing each other's face toking the same old thing, going to the same old place can get boring oso.
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im also running out of things to do...
zui ai ni de ren shi wo, ni zhe meh she de wo nan guo....
zai wo zui xu yao ni de shi hou , mei you suo yi ju hua jiu zhou...
zui ai ni de ren shi wo, ni zhe meh she de wo nan guo?!
dui ni fu chu le zhe meh duo , ni que mei you gan dong guo.. -
perhaps the honeymoon period is over bah.
is ur relationship one of those "too fast too furious" type?
( meaning u guys meetup nearly everyday)
like some fellow forumites have shared, u guys gonna give more commitment to the relationship to keep it on...
best wishes from fogaOriginally posted by freestyle:My gf and i have been attached for 3 months. Recently , i feel that we have been drifting apart. She does not seemed as committed as before. She also priortises her friends before me. She says shes afraid of being bored of me and stuff lidat. But i feel that if u truely love someone , u wont be bored of him/her. I feel quite miserable day in day out , dunno wad to do and dunno wad happened. Is this a sign that our relationship is ending ? -
Liberate urslf from d fear of losin.....
U can't stand in her way if she wishes 2 go......
U can oni let her know how appreciated & adored she wud b if she decides 2 stay.....
Our deepest fear is dat we r constantly inadequate.....
But is dis wat u've decided 4 urslf.....
Or was she d 1 who decided after makin comparisons ? -
yep too fast too furious.Originally posted by foga:perhaps the honeymoon period is over bah.
is ur relationship one of those "too fast too furious" type?
( meaning u guys meetup nearly everyday)
like some fellow forumites have shared, u guys gonna give more commitment to the relationship to keep it on...
best wishes from foga
tt i think was a big mistake.
and another thing is i always initiate quarrels in e past
my mistake. -
She was the one. She wanted to let go b4 but i think she cant bear. now im afraid shes trying slowly to make herself let go. its so f***** frustrating.Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:Liberate urslf from d fear of losin.....
U can't stand in her way if she wishes 2 go......
U can oni let her know how appreciated & adored she wud b if she decides 2 stay.....
Our deepest fear is dat we r constantly inadequate.....
But is dis wat u've decided 4 urslf.....
Or was she d 1 who decided after makin comparisons ? -
hmmm... a simple way to look @ things...
u know the problem, u also know wad causes it.
talk to her loh... see how things goes...Originally posted by freestyle:yep too fast too furious.
tt i think was a big mistake.
and another thing is i always initiate quarrels in e past
my mistake. -
Y do u allow her 2 make d decision on her own ?Originally posted by freestyle:She was the one. She wanted to let go b4 but i think she cant bear. now im afraid shes trying slowly to make herself let go. its so f***** frustrating.
R/s goes both ways.....
If u've alr tried ur best in tryin 2 convince her 2 stay.....but 2 no avail.....
Den perhaps u shud try harder 2 allow her 2 go.....
Everyone has their own skies 2 take flight in......Tui Yi Bu, Hai Kwo Tian Kong... -
always cant conclude anything...Originally posted by foga:hmmm... a simple way to look @ things...
u know the problem, u also know wad causes it.
talk to her loh... see how things goes...
she herself thinks we are not close. but dunno how to be closer. i suggested to her that we spend more time with each other. she says she want to study mon-fri den only on sat go out. wtf is this called a r/s ? im more like a close guy frd then. Now her friends come before me. I really dunno man.. -
I really love her. will not let her go unless she tell me truthfully she dont love me. only then will i let go.Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:Y do u allow her 2 make d decision on her own ?
R/s goes both ways.....
If u've alr tried ur best in tryin 2 convince her 2 stay.....but 2 no avail.....
Den perhaps u shud try harder 2 allow her 2 go.....
Everyone has their own skies 2 take flight in......Tui Yi Bu, Hai Kwo Tian Kong... -
if i were u, i'll find an opportunity to have a talk with her...
perhaps after a movie or dinner....
perhaps a communication breakdown somewhere?....
haiz it's always easy for us outsiders to comment.....Originally posted by freestyle:always cant conclude anything...
she herself thinks we are not close. but dunno how to be closer. i suggested to her that we spend more time with each other. she says she want to study mon-fri den only on sat go out. wtf is this called a r/s ? im more like a close guy frd then. Now her friends come before me. I really dunno man.. -
back off a little and see if she will miss u or not.Originally posted by freestyle:always cant conclude anything...
she herself thinks we are not close. but dunno how to be closer. i suggested to her that we spend more time with each other. she says she want to study mon-fri den only on sat go out. wtf is this called a r/s ? im more like a close guy frd then. Now her friends come before me. I really dunno man..
sometimes, absence makes the heart grow fonder
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this is also a way u could try.Originally posted by InnoHippo:back off a little and see if she will miss u or not.
sometimes, absence makes the heart grow fonder -
had a heart to heart talk wiv her last nite. now she understands me more i think. hope things will be betterOriginally posted by foga:if i were u, i'll find an opportunity to have a talk with her...
perhaps after a movie or dinner....
perhaps a communication breakdown somewhere?....
haiz it's always easy for us outsiders to comment.....
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that's great!
sometimes, miscommunications between couple caused major issues...
i'm very glad u made the initiative to talk to her, to try to understand her more as well as for her to understand u more.
hopefully things will get better
~the course of true love never did run smooth~
best regrads
fogaOriginally posted by freestyle:had a heart to heart talk wiv her last nite. now she understands me more i think. hope things will be better -
thks alot bro foga. told her i felt very neglected. today she purposely took time off from her friends and accompany me out. i really hope things will be better.Originally posted by foga:that's great!
sometimes, miscommunications between couple caused major issues...
i'm very glad u made the initiative to talk to her, to try to understand her more as well as for her to understand u more.
hopefully things will get better
~the course of true love never did run smooth~
best regrads
foga -
u're welcome
i'm realli glad u told her how u felt
see some good things happening
i'm realli realli happy for u and ur gf
pls accept my sincerest best wishesOriginally posted by freestyle:thks alot bro foga. told her i felt very neglected. today she purposely took time off from her friends and accompany me out. i really hope things will be better.