problem is does she really knows what's best for the (second) man? Does she know who deserves his love better??Originally posted by foga:she also was afraid
that the second man might not
be able to fully accept her in the future
as she had a physical birth defect
whose pain she hardly spoke about
which she suffered in silence
the woman did this
only because she wanted to be fair to the second man
she felt he deserved a "better" partner
till this day
she had never been able
to tell the truth to the second man
and the truth is,
the reason why she had chosen to give him up in the beginning
was because she just wanted him
to be really happy with the one
who would deserve his love better
with someone who would truly make him happy
( from e-mails )
Originally posted by yunzhongzi:problem is does she really knows what's best for the (second) man? Does she know who deserves his love better??
It is not only sad, she is an arrogant selfish self-deceiving fool, who thought she is being noble by doing something that she imagined to be best for him. The truth is that she will be unhappy if she realised that their so called innocent love is an illusion she had created for herself, she imagined this innocence, this fairy tale she conjured, and she would rather give it up so she can remain noble and pure, and that the memories can be just what she desired, so she can tell herself that, hey, I did he right thing so i am not guilty. She looked down on herself, and chose the wrong choice. Did she even think what the guy was feeling? There is always someone better, but there is only one her in the universe. Period. She is like someone who is at the peak of his life, den suddenly step down so that noone will be better than he is.Originally posted by foga:. . . A Sad Love Story . . .
few years ago
two friends fell in love with each other
they were very happy together
and felt at ease with each other's company
they shared good moments
shared personal experiences
conveyed through many sms and e-mails
but all the while
they had been aware
of the innocent feeling of love
that existed between them
before friendship began
still, they are willing
to allow the friendship
to grow into something deeper
in a natural way
then one day
the man asked the woman out
and she agreed.
it was a very beautiful evening
though a light rain was showering the place
however...
some days later
the woman began to think
about a past relationship......
and the one between she and this man she knew
she felt confused
fearing that this man she knew
might subconsciously became a replacement
for the recovery of the breakup with her ex
who still kept contact with her as casual friends
she did not want to lose the second man
yet she felt if she told him that she
needed time to recover from her breakup with ex
this man might gave her up and moved on
she knew this was a selfish thought
at the same time
the woman did not want
to hurt the second man
who used to be her best friend
she also was afraid
that the second man might not
be able to fully accept her in the future
as she had a physical birth defect
whose pain she hardly spoke about
which she suffered in silence
in the end
she did something she would not forget:
she gave the second man up
this decision she made
not only hurt this man
but it hurt herself as well
the woman did this
only because she wanted to be fair to the second man
she felt he deserved a "better" partner
till this day
she had never been able
to tell the truth to the second man
and the truth is,
the reason why she had chosen to give him up in the beginning
was because she just wanted him
to be really happy with the one
who would deserve his love better
with someone who would truly make him happy
it was a painful thing for her to do
but the happy memories they once had
would forever stay in her heart
( from e-mails )
Originally posted by Ito_^:It is not only sad, she is an arrogant selfish self-deceiving fool, who thought she is being noble by doing something that she imagined to be best for him. The truth is that she will be unhappy if she realised that their so called innocent love is an illusion she had created for herself, she imagined this innocence, this fairy tale she conjured, and she would rather give it up so she can remain noble and pure, and that the memories can be just what she desired, so she can tell herself that, hey, I did he right thing so i am not guilty. She looked down on herself, and chose the wrong choice. Did she even think what the guy was feeling? There is always someone better, but there is only one her in the universe. Period. She is like someone who is at the peak of his life, den suddenly step down so that noone will be better than he is.
Pui! You only live once, memories will fade but the future won't. Don't live if you can't fight for your future.
Originally posted by browniebaobao:Haiz..
Sometimes when a girl/guy initiates a break up, he/she feels that it might be a better way out..dun want to hurt the partner deeper or feel that he/she deserves someone better..
I hate it when i just have to accept his decision..no matter how much i love him..no matter how unwilling i may be..i still have to let go..coz his mind is set..there's nothing i can do to make him stay.
I feel that....it's better to break when both parties dun have feelings for each other anymore...if not...if the girl/guy still love him/her after the break up..it takes a long time to heal the wound..
Originally posted by foga:zhang xue you got a song tat goes ...
"ru guo shi ni de xing fu duan song zai wo suo li,
wo de tong ku zhe me hui bi ni de qing
oh suan ler bah, bie zai ti .... ni de xin
zhi yao yu ni kuai ler wo ye jiu ke yi
bu liu heng ji, wang ler wo zhi ji....
love is only a memory...."
Can sing " Ai qing hao xiang liu sha, wo bu zheng zha~~~"Originally posted by browniebaobao:
"Wo bu yan he ni fen shou..bu yuan he ni fen shou..."
cant recall the song title and lyrics tho...
think it's one of the songs in
however, this song starts with..Originally posted by yunzhongzi:Can sing " Ai qing hao xiang liu sha, wo bu zheng zha~~~"
Originally posted by browniebaobao:however, this song starts with..
bing bu shi zhen de lu guo er yi
ye bu shi zhen de bu hui xiang qi
quan dou shi zhen de
shi pian zi ji
qi shi hai ai ni
ai zhe ni
wo yi wei wo zao xiang qing chu
bu you zi zhu
huang huang hu hu
you zou hui tou lu
zai kan yi yan you guo de xing fu~
ai qing hao xiang liu sha
wo bu zhen zha
shui ta qu ba
wo bu hai pa
ai qing hao xiang liu sha
ming zhi gai duo ta
bu yaun fang xia
oh baby rang wo zhe yang ba
David Tao
Originally posted by foga:a beautiful song
sad one...Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:Can you ever love me for me?
For the me that I am true and true
Can you love me with my imperfections?
Can you see me as I am and not as what you want me to be?
Can you ever love me for me?
For the me that makes mistakes and speaks without thinking
Can you love me even when I am unreasonable?
Can you see me as I am and not for the Angel you seek?
Can you ever love me for me?
For the me that cries when a stranger child is hurt
Can you love me when I am sad without me having a reason to be?
Can you see me as I am not as what I once was?
Can you ever love me for me?
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By: Miriam Campo
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
pat pat foga*
Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:Can you ever love me for me?
For the me that I am true and true
Can you love me with my imperfections?
Can you see me as I am and not as what you want me to be?
Can you ever love me for me?
For the me that makes mistakes and speaks without thinking
Can you love me even when I am unreasonable?
Can you see me as I am and not for the Angel you seek?
Can you ever love me for me?
For the me that cries when a stranger child is hurt
Can you love me when I am sad without me having a reason to be?
Can you see me as I am not as what I once was?
Can you ever love me for me?
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By: Miriam Campo[/color]
Originally posted by foga:
why neber come makan tao huay
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
i tot i told u me tired...
aiya u could have da bao for me mah....then deliver to me
Originally posted by foga:haiya.....
shopping got energy, meet pipi bufpuf foga dino and ah ma no energy...
next time huh.... v ( take picture)
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
wah....dun frame me ar!!! suddenly so many names...
i dun really noe the above mentioned hor...
and ar...aiyo....dun like that leh...
shopping is v tiring de...
Let Pipi intro himslf.....Originally posted by browniebaobao:
wah....dun frame me ar!!! suddenly so many names...
[color=red]i dun really noe the above mentioned hor...
and ar...aiyo....dun like that leh...
shopping is v tiring de...[/color]
Originally posted by foga:mai gan chiong
v (take picture)
ya... shopping can be very tiring, if u're the one holding the bags
hahahahahah
okie okie fan guo ni one horse
Originally posted by browniebaobao:
no bags la....one nia..but i [color=red][b]went to few places.....[/color][/b]
Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:Let Pipi intro himslf.....
Hello...Pipi here !
Pipi extends toes 4 frenly Giap-giap*