After a break up, will u....
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2 remains as friends?
jus curious as to how many of the fellow forumites out there do still keep in contact with ur ex-es and are actually frenz.
a fellow forumite once mentioned a scenario which i do understand as much as him. wat if, one day ur ex gets married, and she/he invite u to the dinner. will u go?
or will u attend the wedding?
as for me, i could never bring myself to go .... -
are still friends loh... will oso attend the wedding if i m invited loh....Originally posted by foga:2 remains as friends?
jus curious as to how many of the fellow forumites out there do still keep in contact with ur ex-es and are actually frenz.
a fellow forumite once mentioned a scenario which i do understand as much as him. wat if, one day ur ex gets married, and she/he invite u to the dinner. will u go?
or will u attend the wedding?
as for me, i could never bring myself to go ....
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well i was part of the entourage of my ex's wedding..... u say leh? VOriginally posted by foga:2 remains as friends?
jus curious as to how many of the fellow forumites out there do still keep in contact with ur ex-es and are actually frenz.
a fellow forumite once mentioned a scenario which i do understand as much as him. wat if, one day ur ex gets married, and she/he invite u to the dinner. will u go?
or will u attend the wedding?
as for me, i could never bring myself to go ....
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yes, we have to accept wat is over...
dun broad over it and move on..
i usually tell me ex.. if we ever breaks up.. pls.. we must still be best of friends..
never be enemies..
and in that way... there is still a possiblilty of patching oso -
yeah attended my ex's wedding...
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tat's very good, isn't it?
somehow i never seem to be able to remain frenz with my ex; with the exception of her intially when we 1st break off in 1996.
perhaps a reason why could be because i do felt lot of "dui bu qi"s on my part.Originally posted by Me0w Me0w:are still friends loh... will oso attend the wedding if i m invited loh.... -
was that b4 u got married or after?Originally posted by tare:well i was part of the entourage of my ex's wedding..... u say leh? VV -
sometime i myself find it's easier said than done.
no enemies....
but kindof like....like someone u know, yet seem so unfamiliar so distance u get wat i mean?...Originally posted by extremex:yes, we have to accept wat is over...
dun broad over it and move on..
i usually tell me ex.. if we ever breaks up.. pls.. we must still be best of friends..
never be enemies..
and in that way... there is still a possiblilty of patching oso -
x2Originally posted by extremex:yes, we have to accept wat is over...
dun broad over it and move on..
i usually tell me ex.. if we ever breaks up.. pls.. we must still be best of friends..
never be enemies..
and in that way... there is still a possiblilty of patching oso -
after.. and as part of his entourage, we walked down the asle together... but his wife wasn't too pleased thoOriginally posted by foga:
was that b4 u got married or after?
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Best to become as friends loh. Those who still kept friendship are mostly people who felt sorry.
But for all relationships breakups, both parties are always liable to learn their mistakes big or small in that past relationship. Problems beget problems, till its unsolvable or unbearable.
Depends, some people dun felt sorry for their relationship hor, most probably they wouldn't remain as friends. -
Originally posted by yunzhongzi:yeah attended my ex's wedding... -
i was jus abt to ask u abt ur ex's wife reactions.
hai.... how would u feel if ur hubby's ex was part of ur wedding entourage?Originally posted by tare:after.. and as part of his entourage, we walked down the asle together... but his wife wasn't too pleased tho -
actually i got ask him to invite her leh, but he no more keep in contact.... *shrug*Originally posted by foga: i was jus abt to ask u abt ur ex's wife reactions.
hai.... how would u feel if ur hubby's ex was part of ur wedding entourage?
anw my ex's wife din noe i am his ex hor.... she just dun like all his friends esp. gals lah.... but doesn't bother me.. cos i dun like her either!
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yar understand...Originally posted by foga:sometime i myself find it's easier said than done.
no enemies....
but kindof like....like someone u know, yet seem so unfamiliar so distance u get wat i mean?...
sigh its like dat..
feelings are uncontrollable..
definitely easier said than done.. but try ur best and you can..
esp when you found a new love..
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like u said, it's definately the best way to end a relationship.
but jus how many of us managed to do so?
for me, i'm jus gald for her tat she's found someone who's worth her love and had settled down. no doubt i still do think of her every now and then, but it's jus for memory's sake. there's no more agenda , no point hope, no more wish....Originally posted by Eiizumi:Best to become as friends loh. Those who still kept friendship are mostly people who felt sorry.
But for all relationships breakups, both parties are always liable to learn their mistakes big or small in that past relationship. Problems beget problems, till its unsolvable or unbearable.
Depends, some people dun felt sorry for their relationship hor, most probably they wouldn't remain as friends. -
err.... no leh. me and tis ex hor still buddy and neither of us felt sorryOriginally posted by Eiizumi:Best to become as friends loh. Those who still kept friendship are mostly people who felt sorry. -
wao ..
something's burning in the air....
i see. so ur ex's wife also the jealous type one huh?Originally posted by tare:actually i got ask him to invite her leh, but he no more keep in contact.... *shrug*
anw my ex's wife din noe i am his ex hor.... she just dun like all his friends esp. gals lah.... but doesn't bother me.. cos i dun like her either! -
i tried my best . i know i did.Originally posted by extremex:yar understand...
sigh its like dat..
feelings are uncontrollable..
definitely easier said than done.. but try ur best and you can..
esp when you found a new love.. -
Act. I am still friends with sum ex-s, and we are waiting for each other wedding's dinner
Of cos, one thing is we are very sensitive issues to his gf & my bf
so we will only sms each other just to check if every1's fine. -
my 2nd bf got married. he dun dare to invite me knowing i will not go.Originally posted by foga:2 remains as friends?
jus curious as to how many of the fellow forumites out there do still keep in contact with ur ex-es and are actually frenz.
a fellow forumite once mentioned a scenario which i do understand as much as him. wat if, one day ur ex gets married, and she/he invite u to the dinner. will u go?
or will u attend the wedding?
as for me, i could never bring myself to go ....
he invited a friend who asked me to be his partner to attend the dinner.
i refused to.
wat if i cry in the midest of the dinner ...right? -
yeah.. i agree and might disagree.. what over is over... there is a possibility of becoming friend with your ex no doubt, but a patch up, I dunno..Originally posted by extremex:yes, we have to accept wat is over...
and in that way... there is still a possiblilty of patching oso
What already broken, even if mended, leaves a crack. It will take a lot of efforts (not saying it's not possible) to have it mended as it was before... -
she's the "everyone also kan bu shun yan" type lor....Originally posted by foga: wao ..
something's burning in the air....
i see. so ur ex's wife also the jealous type one huh?
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its good that you did..Originally posted by foga:i tried my best . i know i did.
dun brood over it now yah?
theres always life after death..
let it go... -
Act. I still think everything have to depends how the breakup it's like
If it's an ugly 1 who would want to still to keep in contact
likewise, if it's in another way, I think it wouldn't be prob at all to remain as friends