LOVE - A journey
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L O V E - A Journey
Why hold someone back... when u know u don't love them...
Why keep them to yourself... when u know you won't wanna have them?
Why let them miss other chances...when they can have them? If you really
don't love someone....le them go...hurt them NOW... not later...for a
longer relationship builds stronger emotions...
A good relationship isn't a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is
about love and two people.
Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can
hurt more than we can believe too.
When it does not really hurt when that person did something disappointing
to you, but really hurts when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person.
Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and
happiness at the same time.That's the reward and that's the risk. Unless
we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it's like
to love and be loved.
Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a
person can ever have.And there's a difference between being in love with
someone and loving someone.
It's the difference between a love that's fickle,wild and short-lived
and one that's tender and passionate,nurturing and lasts a long time. The
first is easy.
The second, the one that really matters to all of us,takes work because
it's about keeping a relationship.
Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with
each other. Nobody can read anyone else's mind. We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to
predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's
never perfect and takes time to develop. Getting the chance to love and
be loved by someone is blessed.
Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be.
Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is
perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth
surface of acceptance for each other.
True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true
love which makes a person change for the better. The power of true love to a
person is undeniable.
A relationship needs commitments too. What is love without commitments
from each other anyway? It's like principles and values. Everyone has them
but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them.
The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we
love.
"Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to find,hard to net, but easy
to break."
Every day everywhere, people fall in love ... but just how many of these
relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships
which are formed only for the intense! feeling of falling in love? I know
hundreds of friends who say the magical words "I love you"... but more
often than not, the truth is just I am IN love with you.
There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving
someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that
he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you
because of the present you. This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale lasts.
When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality,
we see the heartache of such a relationship... where both were only IN love
with each other. But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that
he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the
past and who you might be in the future.
When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it,you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you're in love with the idea of being in love. It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking. Let your heart guide u. May you be blessed on your soul-searching journey for your soul mate.
ARE YOU REALLY IN LOVE? ASK YOURSELF!
Is this true love? Do I really love him/her? Or izzit just another
infatuation? R U willing to give? Even though you may not get back the
same amount you gave?
R U cheating yourself? Thinking that you really love him/her and not
just taking him/her as a substitute for your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend?
Friends, let today be the day....... you truly understand love.......
If after reading this and answering all the questions,you are very sure
that you love him/her,tell him/her that. Let him/her know how much you
love him/her and that you are willing to take the risks of being hurt by
him/her in the course of the development
of your relationship with him/her. This is a love that's sacrificial, R
U ready for it? If you accept someone's philosophy that is simply their
rationalisation to justify their failure, you accept their failures!"
**The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take.**
If you think something will make you happy, go for it.
**Remember that we pass this way only once.** -
wow... thx foga...
i noted all the pts le..
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no, thank you
i hope u find them interesting
have a great weekend ahead
best regards
fogaOriginally posted by extremex:wow... thx foga...
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The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, then circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say, or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes.
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by: Rev. Charles Swindoll
Pipi never has anydin decent 2 say so......quoteworthy reads make d final reply....
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Points taken... Wo Hui Ji Zhu De..
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mai ah neh gong pipi
pipi's a very talented young man.
the intellect of the group, yet down to earth, never trys to impress others with his vocab..... ( btw pipi's english's very tok gong)
v (take picture)Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, then circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say, or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes.
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by: Rev. Charles Swindoll
Pipi never has anydin decent 2 say so......quoteworthy reads make d final reply.... -
ai jiu yi ge zhi, wo zhi suo yi ci
ni zhi dao wo zhi hui yong xing dong biao shi..
haiz.... da jia dou yao hao hao de xue xi......
da jia jia you orrhOriginally posted by yunzhongzi:Points taken... Wo Hui Ji Zhu De.. -
yeah guess so... nice Jeff Chang's song...Originally posted by foga:ai jiu yi ge zhi, wo zhi suo yi ci
ni zhi dao wo zhi hui yong xing dong biao shi..
haiz.... da jia dou yao hao hao de xue xi......
da jia jia you orrh
Ai ye shi yi jian hen lei ren de shi, ke neng wo yong yuan ye bu hui zai kai shi... (this is not a song.. dun bother guessing
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suan ler bah,
shi ni de jiu shi ni de.
shi wo de ye jiu shi wo de...
bu shi ni de jiu bu shi ni de
bu shi wo de jiu bu shi wo deOriginally posted by yunzhongzi:yeah guess so... nice Jeff Chang's song...
Ai ye shi yi jian hen lei ren de shi, ke neng wo yong yuan ye bu hui zai kai shi... (this is not a song.. dun bother guessing ) hahahaha -
hahha.. hao shuo hao shuo...Originally posted by foga:suan ler bah,
shi ni de jiu shi ni de.
shi wo de ye jiu shi wo de...
bu shi ni de jiu bu shi ni de
bu shi wo de jiu bu shi wo de
You shi Shi wo de que bu zhi wei he hui shi qu
You shi Bu shi wo de que wu yuan wu gu yu dao...
Ai zhen shi fan ren... hao fan ren... -
haiz.....
Originally posted by yunzhongzi:hahha.. hao shuo hao shuo...
You shi Shi wo de que bu zhi wei he hui shi qu
You shi Bu shi wo de que wu yuan wu gu yu dao...
Ai zhen shi fan ren... hao fan ren... -
Ru guo Tao Ze shuo 'Ai Hen Jian Dan', na me wo hui geng tong yi Ai Cheng shou de 'Ai Shi Ru Ci Bu Rong Yi'Originally posted by foga:haiz..... 
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zhang xue you ta ye shuo guo:
"ruo guo shi ni de xing fu duan song zai wo suo li
wo de tong ku zhen me hui bi ni de qing
suan ler ba, bie zai ti
ni de xin
zhi yao chen jing kuai ler wo ye jiu ke yi
bu liu hen ji wang ler wo zhi ji
Love is only a memory"Originally posted by yunzhongzi:Ru guo Tao Ze shuo 'Ai Hen Jian Dan', na me wo hui geng tong yi Ai Cheng shou de 'Ai Shi Ru Ci Bu Rong Yi' -
Originally posted by w006st0ck:
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meaningful lor.......Originally posted by Me0w Me0w: -
Originally posted by Me0w Me0w:
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DOTS....Originally posted by w006st0ck:meaningful lor....... -
Originally posted by Me0w Me0w:DOTS....
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Originally posted by w006st0ck:
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nice one......
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naughty ger....Originally posted by Me0w Me0w: -
HAHAHAHA.....Originally posted by w006st0ck:naughty ger.... -
ta ye shuo guo :Originally posted by foga:zhang xue you ta ye shuo guo:
"ruo guo shi ni de xing fu duan song zai wo suo li
wo de tong ku zhen me hui bi ni de qing
suan ler ba, bie zai ti
ni de xin
zhi yao chen jing kuai ler wo ye jiu ke yi
bu liu hen ji wang ler wo zhi ji
Love is only a memory"
"Duo me xiao sa de zhu fu, wo yi wei shuo de qing chu,
Dang ni de bu she, mai zai wo shuo li ku, dui he cuo que zaiyan qian fan fu de cong tu...... Dang jie bian de che cui ni fang shou, na ge deng zai che chuang li de ren yi bu shi wo... " -
jiu xiang chao lai chao you qu
ni cong bu liu yi
wo que hai pa shi qu
ku ku liu xia zhu yin
bu guan shi fou ke yi
yong yuan liu zhu ni de xin
zhi yao yu ni you guo jiao ji
jiu bu wang nu li....Originally posted by yunzhongzi:ta ye shuo guo :
"Duo me xiao sa de zhu fu, wo yi wei shuo de qing chu,
Dang ni de bu she, mai zai wo shuo li ku, dui he cuo que zaiyan qian fan fu de cong tu...... Dang jie bian de che cui ni fang shou, na ge deng zai che chuang li de ren yi bu shi wo... "