Really really can't forget him....
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I posted this topic in Aunt Agony before.
I confessed to this guy that i like him. But he only regards me as a friend. Which i cannot understand - all the care and attention and the sweet gesture that he did was just friends....
My friends have been telling me to direct my attention to something else like sports. Which i did. I got myself hurt in the game thinking that its better to get hurt physically than mentally....
I try my best to forget him but i still cannot.
Now when i call him, but he did not pick up the call. SMS him also no reply. We used to do IM but he did not login anymore.
I really really cannot forget him....
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u have to......it hurts but that's part & parcel of life. Cheer up
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we never forget.. we just make the decision to move on...
we will always look or think back but that is over...
it's hard but make yourself look forward and move on.. it's all we can do sometimes
be well yah? -
I will try...maybe this is the first time i was rejected....Originally posted by the Bear:we never forget.. we just make the decision to move on...
we will always look or think back but that is over...
it's hard but make yourself look forward and move on.. it's all we can do sometimes
be well yah?
That's why it is so 'painful' for me now.
Dunno is it a gd thing tat he is ignoring my calling, sms etc. this way, i can forget him faster....
Someone told me that he maybe also trying to forget me by ignoring me.
Guys, is this what you will do ???
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Love is not sided - He do not want - you force him also no use !!!Originally posted by zoragirl:I posted this topic in Aunt Agony before.
I confessed to this guy that i like him. But he only regards me as a friend. Which i cannot understand - all the care and attention and the sweet gesture that he did was just friends....
My friends have been telling me to direct my attention to something else like sports. Which i did. I got myself hurt in the game thinking that its better to get hurt physically than mentally....
I try my best to forget him but i still cannot.
Now when i call him, but he did not pick up the call. SMS him also no reply. We used to do IM but he did not login anymore.
I really really cannot forget him....
How you like someone to force himself on you ? you hate him more right. ...
Like it or not face the fact , nothing you can do , move on with life ... let it be let him go his way and you yours .... -
No man is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
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Originally posted by kensongs:No man is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
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There's no need to forget him completely. Just understand that he is part of your past. You can choose to look back on to see him from time to time but no more. Life goes on and so must you. Make plans for your future and get busy executing those plans. Once you get busy living your present life for your future, you'll naturally have less time to look back on your past to see him. This will ease the pain as time heals all wounds...... Good luck!
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I wish i can cry out and forget everything but i cannot.Originally posted by kensongs:No man is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry. -
miss him...call me lor...haha.
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TS, we are in the same situation juz that im a guy and she ignores me, and still is, after 5mths. haha.
Actuali to me i dun think guys will ignore ba, cos we guys are not as shy and pai seh to face the problem. If ur his gd fren and if he reali reali dun like u, at least to me, i wun ignore. There might be other reason. Or he might be confused? -
Learn to accept rejection. It is part of life.... sometime u get what u wish for... sometime u dun.... Just learn to accept and let go... and soon... u will be ok again to face more rejection...
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This rejection has made me decided not to confess to another guy again next time if i ever met one. I dun one to get hurt and reject another time. Its really really painful.Originally posted by EarlNeo:Learn to accept rejection. It is part of life.... sometime u get what u wish for... sometime u dun.... Just learn to accept and let go... and soon... u will be ok again to face more rejection... -
love! damn the consequences!
love is such that if you are not willing to risk all, it isn't love...Originally posted by zoragirl:This rejection has made me decided not to confess to another guy again next time if i ever met one. I dun one to get hurt and reject another time. Its really really painful.