juz that little
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u see another chance... wa... really good sia... fate reallly give u alot of chance ><Originally posted by givemeluck:met her up for dinner yesterday......
she cried while complaining to me about her bf....
it really hurts to see her in this state....
sigh...i know im stupid -
i din want to dig up this thread...Originally posted by givemeluck:met her up for dinner yesterday......
she cried while complaining to me about her bf....
it really hurts to see her in this state....
sigh...i know im stupid
but then..
it's too similar to ur story..
save me from typing.. read my replies ba.
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Ok.Originally posted by browniebaobao:did anyone jump ur boat in the first place?
I am waiting for someone who doesnt even want to board my boat. -
its not even a chance in the 1st place , she don't want to break up with her bf no matter how bad her bf treats herOriginally posted by ispyyy:u see another chance... wa... really good sia... fate reallly give u alot of chance >< -
at least that girl cried for him....Originally posted by browniebaobao:i din want to dig up this thread...
but then..
it's too similar to ur story..
save me from typing.. read my replies ba. -
yr defination of chance is not a chance ....Originally posted by givemeluck:its not even a chance in the 1st place , she don't want to break up with her bf no matter how bad her bf treats her
yr defination of chance is free gift...
U hope the girl will comes to u without u doing anything???
A chance means it may happen , it may not happen... A chance doesnt mean that it confirm happen...
Let's get the facts, correct ???
1) U always accompany the girl when she is upset ,rite ??? Means tat u have accepted the battle regardless u noe the worst or best outcome...
2) The girl comes to u... Asking for yr accompany... Means tat u have a certain percentage in the girl's heart but her bf hold majority of the percentage...
3) The girl never completely reject u when she noes that u like her... Means tat yr battle has not end yet...
So, here's the senario :
1) U step into a battle which wat yr heart tells u to do.... Or wat u really believe in...
2) U failed and u feel demoralised... And u come to here with a troubled heart where some people persuade u to give up saying tat the opponent is too strong...
3) Althought, the battle is at yr disadvantage, but let me remind u the battle is not over yet... However, if u do give up, the battle will stop at tat time ... Do you noe the strenght or weakness of yr opponent??? I doubted... u r too emotional distress on yr failing...
As a bystander, I will say tat this is stupid sia... Waste of time... But, looking thru yr views, this is not stupid... It is yr fighting for happiness, it is fighting for wat u really want, it is fighting for wat u really belief in... Remember people always judge on some1 after their results are out... IS YR RESULTS OUT YET???
There are those guys who are being completely rejected by girls... I can say tat those guys have no chance at all but u r different... -
and ur so heartbroken over a girl who 2 timesOriginally posted by givemeluck:nv was. i was her spare tyre since the start
im pathetic right ?
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Originally posted by ispyyy:
sometimes i really wish to give up whenever i see her n her bf together.....the pain is juz too much to take.
yr defination of chance is not a chance ....
yr defination of chance is free gift...
U hope the girl will comes to u without u doing anything???
A chance means it may happen , it may not happen... A chance doesnt mean that it confirm happen...
Let's get the facts, correct ???
1) U always accompany the girl when she is upset ,rite ??? Means tat u have accepted the battle regardless u noe the worst or best outcome...
2) The girl comes to u... Asking for yr accompany... Means tat u have a certain percentage in the girl's heart but her bf hold majority of the percentage...
3) The girl never completely reject u when she noes that u like her... Means tat yr battle has not end yet...
So, here's the senario :
1) U step into a battle which wat yr heart tells u to do.... Or wat u really believe in...
2) U failed and u feel demoralised... And u come to here with a troubled heart where some people persuade u to give up saying tat the opponent is too strong...
3) Althought, the battle is at yr disadvantage, but let me remind u the battle is not over yet... However, if u do give up, the battle will stop at tat time ... Do you noe the strenght or weakness of yr opponent??? I doubted... u r too emotional distress on yr failing...
As a bystander, I will say tat this is stupid sia... Waste of time... But, looking thru yr views, this is not stupid... It is yr fighting for happiness, it is fighting for wat u really want, it is fighting for wat u really belief in... Remember people always judge on some1 after their results are out... [b]IS YR RESULTS OUT YET???
There are those guys who are being completely rejected by girls... I can say tat those guys have no chance at all but u r different...
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anyway.... thxs for the long reply -
i can't control my feeling although i know what im doing is very stupidOriginally posted by de_middle:and ur so heartbroken over a girl who 2 times -
Guess u are not much a fighter...Originally posted by givemeluck:sometimes i really wish to give up whenever i see her n her bf together.....the pain is juz too much to take.
anyway.... thxs for the long reply
Not to give up, the pain is too much to take...
To give up, the pain is also too much to take...
The longer u linger in tat, the duration will be longer...
For me, I always fight for what I think is the happiness... Even I do noe it is not possible, but I believe that with what I believe I can make it possible including love... In the end, I failed but yet my heart carry on beating on what I believe... -
the girl cried for herself more like it.Originally posted by givemeluck:at least that girl cried for him.... -
In r/s,never drop yr pride/intergrity for her. It must be going hand in hand.Originally posted by givemeluck:met her up for dinner yesterday......
she cried while complaining to me about her bf....
it really hurts to see her in this state....
sigh...i know im stupid
But u can lost yr pride for love.
Know what I mean?
Losing personal pride for love,example when u need money for her medical fee. U drop yr pride and beg from other the fee for her. U are doing it for love...
Losing personal pride for her is like you loves her so much that u are willing to degrade yrself to become spare tyre,clinging on to a no good outcome love. U not only lost yr own pride in this love but also get yrself pain and suffering.. Is like betrayal of yrself in love!
Learn to have yr pride back and love yrself. Have pride for yrself before u know how to love a person properly.. -
i dont know when will it be back...Originally posted by CannyOng:In r/s,never drop yr pride/intergrity for her. It must be going hand in hand.
But u can lost yr pride for love.
Know what I mean?
Losing personal pride for love,example when u need money for her medical fee. U drop yr pride and beg from other the fee for her. U are doing it for love...
Losing personal pride for her is like you loves her so much that u are willing to degrade yrself to become spare tyre,clinging on to a no good outcome love. U not only lost yr own pride in this love but also get yrself pain and suffering.. Is like betrayal of yrself in love!
Learn to have yr pride back and love yrself. Have pride for yrself before u know how to love a person properly..
i think i will try my best