Confused.

• SturmDerSchatten

  8 Jun 07, 17:19

  Typical story. Had feelings for a girl, a friend of mine. She found out and rejected me. But to think that so much can change over eight months...
  
  We were such close friends before, but now it seems like she doesn't want to stay that way, even when she said she would keep in contact.
  
  And now... she hasn't been replying to my messages. I'm afraid to talk to her, I'm afraid to even be online on MSN at the same time as her. I know this is all probably part of my deluded mind, but I can't help feeling that she hates me.
  
  I don't know what to do now. Should I ask her why she's like this? Or just let everything fall apart?
  
  I've lost a friend exactly the same way, and I really don't want it to happen again. It's hard to forget my feelings for her...
  
  I feel like this song's going to come true... I'm probably just being stupid. Gah.
  
  "He Stopped Loving Her Today" - http://www.spinner.com/2007/05/04/the-25-most-exquisitely-sad-songs-in-the-whole-world-no-6/
• Patrik

  9 Jun 07, 19:55

  Thats why some people say boy and girl can never be friends.
  
• Darkness_hacker99

  9 Jun 07, 20:03

  Take care bro.
• necrolyt3

  26 Jun 07, 11:29

  Same situation!
  
  Im a lvl higher than urs. she suddenly disappeared, not replying to any msgs. Hoping to benefit from this thread.
  
  Girls' minds are too complex.
• de_middle

  26 Jun 07, 11:50

  maybe that's why guys are afraid to make known their feelings
  
  but whatever the case, its better to have tried then not try.....since she's reacted this way, just let her be...consider that u just lost another friend ya, dun be too sad...cheer up
• Darkness_hacker99

  26 Jun 07, 11:53

  same!
• SturmDerSchatten

  26 Jun 07, 21:03

  Originally posted by necrolyt3:

  Same situation!
  
  Im a lvl higher than urs. she suddenly disappeared, not replying to any msgs. Hoping to benefit from this thread.
  
  Girls' minds are too complex.

  Sucks, doesn't it? I know this is a stupid question, but why do girls sometimes just love to play the "Ignore him to kill him" game? Sigh.
• SturmDerSchatten

  26 Jun 07, 21:12

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  maybe that's why guys are afraid to make known their feelings
  
  but whatever the case, its better to have tried then not try.....since she's reacted this way, just let her be...consider that u just lost another friend ya, dun be too sad...cheer up

  Yeah. They say it's hard for a girl to say anything to a guy when she likes him, but for a guy it's probably ten times harder. There's still the part where most girls will think you're only into them for the sex. Makes it so much harder when a guy is truly sincere.
  
  Maybe it's me, but I'm the type who doesn't like to lose a friend. I know I'm being stupid... but it's just so hard to let go.