Attached = lesser freedom?

• rainee

  8 May 07, 19:02

  Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:

  wah lao... you are good...

  why sound so surprised?
• firediviner

  8 May 07, 22:55

  sounds like a possesive gerl to me....
  
  if they get married muz change that lo...or suffer.
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:25

  Originally posted by X-men:

  HAHAHA... I kenna bombed till not kenna friend's kids birthday liao lor....
  
  Which forumite? YOU

  wah.. u muz be really old.
  
  30 have le ba?
  
  me? wait long long... find me a man first.
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:25

  Originally posted by FBI:

  yes it's lesser freedom..
  
  but if meeting friends like pri sch ones i think is fine lo..
  
  

  from wat i know, the two girls are his ex classmates lor.. about 7 yrs no meet..
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:26

  Originally posted by choco B:

  OK then I think she has reason to be pissed. Tell her to take the matter up with him .
  

  most men are like that mah.
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:27

  Originally posted by Quinsy:

  My Bf don't allow me to go meet guys offline alone. And I don't allow him to meet girls offline/ alone either.

  oh isit?
  
  then how the movie date come about?
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:30

  Originally posted by 798:

  if u cant sacrifice ur freedom, why get committed in the 1st place?
  
  love takes one to be really to be wif the other party need at all cost, if u cant do it, dun give it a bad name.

  i beg to differ.
  
  even if im attached, i still have my family and frens.
  
  doesnt mean that since im attached to him, i can only belong to him.
  
  No!
  
  Although I will put him in a very high position, but there are other people in my world.
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:32

  Originally posted by Eiizumi:

  A couple should know how to be together and grow apart sometimes.
  
  If one loves you, he or she will tell you everything he possibly know. Even he or she doesn't tell, it is his or her right, and as a person should respect that decision.
  
  Love and respect come togther. With that, anything is possible. And most probably no secrets, as there is a strong trust.

  hey, i agree with u!
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:33

  Originally posted by Hellraiza:

  what i mean is her friends who have bikes always wanna go out with her and offer to fetch her...

  oh..
  
  i dun think she will accept also.
  
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:35

  Originally posted by firediviner:

  sounds like a possesive gerl to me....
  
  if they get married muz change that lo...or suffer.

  Any virgo here?
  
  are all virgoes like that?
  
  they share the same horoscope.
• BenBenDeZhu

  8 May 07, 23:41

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  oh..
  
  i dun think she will accept also.
  

  feed yur fren more chocolates
• browniebaobao

  8 May 07, 23:49

  Originally posted by BenBenDeZhu:

  feed yur fren more chocolates

  it wun help.
• xDD

  9 May 07, 00:06

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  oh isit?
  
  then how the movie date come about?

  
• Mid9Sun

  9 May 07, 00:14

  
  Well, I always have freedom with the opposite sex from my gfs...their problem is not with me..but the girls who I am meeting may have other ideas beside a normal friendship.
• SitDown

  9 May 07, 11:30

  Originally posted by darkhour:

  how many gf/bf u haf?lol

  Argh. i mean previous ones oso mah.....
• elindra

  9 May 07, 11:32

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  Those in a love relationship, do you feel this way?
  
  My jiemei is so heart broken now, bcos her bf went to meet 2 girls alone yesterday, and even sent them to the bus stop before he going to meet her. She's really upset, coz they made a pact not to meet someone of the opposite gender alone.
  
  I find it silly to make such a pact lor.. being attached means cannot go out with a fren of the opposite gender alone meh? haiyo.. together almost 5 years liao still have so little faith in each other.. haiz..
  
  so im curious, what are the restrictions you set for your bf/gf? And why do you think they are necessary?

  No restrictions
  I give him 100% trust until he breaks it
  So far he has yet to break it
  He can go out with his female friends alone, even 1 to 1
  He tells me all the time anyway so what's the problem
  
  Anyway I give my a super long lease
  Actually no lease at all but he puts himself on a short one
  Not complaining
  
• spycampers

  9 May 07, 11:34

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  Those in a love relationship, do you feel this way?
  
  My jiemei is so heart broken now, bcos her bf went to meet 2 girls alone yesterday, and even sent them to the bus stop before he going to meet her. She's really upset, coz they made a pact not to meet someone of the opposite gender alone.
  
  I find it silly to make such a pact lor.. being attached means cannot go out with a fren of the opposite gender alone meh? haiyo.. together almost 5 years liao still have so little faith in each other.. haiz..
  
  so im curious, what are the restrictions you set for your bf/gf? And why do you think they are necessary?

  I think the keywords is alone..
  so ur jiemei bf find the loophole by meeting with 2 girls.
• choco B

  9 May 07, 11:45

  LOL not all women accept men who are like that. Up to her if she choose to live with it or not.
  

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  most men are like that mah.

• X-men

  9 May 07, 19:52

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  wah.. u muz be really old.
  
  30 have le ba?
  
  me? wait long long... find me a man first.

  30?
  
  that's history already
• browniebaobao

  9 May 07, 23:01

  Originally posted by Mid9Sun:

  Well, I always have freedom with the opposite sex from my gfs...their problem is not with me..but the girls who I am meeting may have other ideas beside a normal friendship.

  say until like u are very desirable lidat.
• browniebaobao

  9 May 07, 23:04

  Originally posted by spycampers:

  I think the keywords is alone..
  so ur jiemei bf find the loophole by meeting with 2 girls.

  i told her, since she minds so much, be glad it was not 'one-to-one' lor..
  
  then she said "but he ALONE with two girls leh!"
  
  
• browniebaobao

  9 May 07, 23:05

  Originally posted by X-men:

  30?
  
  that's history already

  fwah..
  
  dinoe u are that old..
• browniebaobao

  9 May 07, 23:07

  Originally posted by choco B:

  LOL not all women accept men who are like that. Up to her if she choose to live with it or not.
  

  This kind of da nan ren, better find a xiao nv ren.
• sunny6110

  9 May 07, 23:11

  eh lian ai specialist bbb.... u attached le mah?
  
  y u always talk abt rship de?
  
  I guess u still young rite? if u talk too much, hear too much abt rship hor... U wun dare go into it de leh...
  
  Just do it~~~ be brave~ anyting sunny help u dong~~ but dun too big la
• Devil1976

  9 May 07, 23:14

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  Those in a love relationship, do you feel this way?
  
  My jiemei is so heart broken now, bcos her bf went to meet 2 girls alone yesterday, and even sent them to the bus stop before he going to meet her. She's really upset, coz they made a pact not to meet someone of the opposite gender alone.
  
  I find it silly to make such a pact lor.. being attached means cannot go out with a fren of the opposite gender alone meh? haiyo.. together almost 5 years liao still have so little faith in each other.. haiz..
  
  so im curious, what are the restrictions you set for your bf/gf? And why do you think they are necessary?

  Not much restriction at all.. If there's any?
  
  If you don't trust, 'restrictions' or not also no use....?