What if one day you bump into your ex...
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What would u do in the following circumstances if u suay suay bump into your ex..
Scenario 1
U see him/her with a new gf/bf.
Scenario 2
What if you see him/her alone, looking depressed or crying?
Will you hide, ride, or stop right in front of your ex and start scolding or even resort to violence? Or will u stop to say hi, smile and try to comfort him/her? -
I will send her home...
Such a nice guy very hard to find...
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u still thinking abt ur ex izzit??
nian nian bu wang... -
i will siam. because the gf wont want to see me. lol
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Not possible for me BUT:
1. Meet and call them. Have a nice chat.
2. Meet her and ask her what is going on. Depending on situation, may stay longer or send her home. -
1.) Say hi and just walk off
2.) Offer my shoulder -
2 scenarios leh..Originally posted by soulwinner:I will send her home...
Such a nice guy very hard to find...
2 scenario same answer meh? cannot be mah. -
Scenario 1:Originally posted by browniebaobao:What would u do in the following circumstances if u suay suay bump into your ex..
Scenario 1
U see him/her with a new gf/bf.
Scenario 2
What if you see him/her alone, looking depressed or crying?
Will you hide, ride, or stop right in front of your ex and start scolding or even resort to violence? Or will u stop to say hi, smile and try to comfort him/her?
if i m with my new bf... or i find that i m prettier than his new gf.. or i m very confident of myself that day, i will let him c me..
else, i will siamz..
Scenario 2:
depends if i still like him or not.. if yes, i will go fwd..
if not.. i tink i will still go fwd & ask him y..
unless he is a pest.. then i will siamz.. -
if canot avoid juz say hi then walk off..
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no la..Originally posted by sunny6110:u still thinking abt ur ex izzit??
nian nian bu wang...
Juz open for discussion. -
u are so beri nice..Originally posted by Bontakun:Not possible for me BUT:
1. Meet and call them. Have a nice chat.
2. Meet her and ask her what is going on. Depending on situation, may stay longer or send her home.
i think if my exs see me, they sure siam.
Bcoz they mei lian jian wo..
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Hahaha, its already long gone since you branded them EXs and they brand you EX. so its already EXpired. THey can siam you for now, but they cannot siam you forever. They will some day have to face you leh. Else how they lift their heads?Originally posted by browniebaobao:u are so beri nice..
i think if my exs see me, they sure siam.
Bcoz they mei lian jian wo.. -
My answers..
Scenario 1
If after so long, the memories we had together can still bring a smile on my face, we can still talk to each other comfortably, i will go up and talk to him, and his new gf, ask him how's he doing, say hello to the gf, then tell her im his ex gf!! Sabo him. 
Scenario 2
Depends on how he treated me in the past..
If we din hold grudges against each other, after so long still glad that we were in love before, then I will go up to him, ask him what's wrong, offer him my shoulder, give him a hug.
If I hate him to the core, I will either stare at him beri beri hard and walk away, or
go up to him, give him one tight slap, and kick him in between his legs, make him cry in public.
evil hor? I dun think I will do the above.. tho I have these thoughts.. hehehe.. -
Thick skinned enough no problem de.Originally posted by Bontakun:Hahaha, its already long gone since you branded them EXs and they brand you EX. so its already EXpired. THey can siam you for now, but they cannot siam you forever. They will some day have to face you leh. Else how they lift their heads? -
Guys are usually more thick skinned than you think.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Thick skinned enough no problem de.
It may be stereotyping but somehow I cannot debate against this fact.
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u say wan ar, not i say wan.Originally posted by Bontakun:Guys are usually more thick skinned than you think.
It may be stereotyping but somehow I cannot debate against this fact. -
i m not surprised to hear this.. but i m shocked to hear from a man..Originally posted by Bontakun:Guys are usually more thick skinned than you think.
It may be stereotyping but somehow I cannot debate against this fact. -
Don't be shocked. There are more surprises than you know in this world.Originally posted by mystee:i m not surprised to hear this.. but i m shocked to hear from a man..
I had my fair share of surprises. I am looking forward to more surprises so I can learn. -
si mah?? i think depends on the person ba....Originally posted by Bontakun:Guys are usually more thick skinned than you think.
It may be stereotyping but somehow I cannot debate against this fact.
think will siam lor... at most just greet if they saw me...
if see cry, if still like, then go forward...
if not, then act blur and walk away... -
Dats y I put disclaimer 'I am setreotyping' wat...Originally posted by browniebaobao:u say wan ar, not i say wan.
You dun see me stereotype gals alot rite?
I have more to say about guys than gals. However... things will slowly reveal itself in due time.
Peace.
Beers! -
smile n wave at her. praise her in front of her bf.
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No matter how timid or gu niang the guy may be, there will come a time when da guy will use the 'thick skinned' attribute to do something in order to get past a hurdle, or else he will get stuck.Originally posted by Father Lim:si mah?? i think depends on the person ba....
think will siam lor... at most just greet if they saw me...
if see cry, if still like, then go forward...
if not, then act blur and walk away...
When there is no fear, you can do almost anything. -
Scenatio #1
If I bump into my ex gf wif her new bf, I'll just smile, say hello and walk on by and maintain 120% cool as if I've just met an old acquaintance.
Scenario #2
If I see my ex gf crying, I'll go up and talk to her to find out wad the matter is, treating her as a normal friend I would show concern for......... -
ya lor, that's y i find u beri nice.Originally posted by Bontakun:Dats y I put disclaimer 'I am setreotyping' wat...
You dun see me stereotype gals alot rite?
I have more to say about guys than gals. However... things will slowly reveal itself in due time.
Peace.
Beers! 
even Patrik thinks you are cute. -
my exgfs all r on civil terms with me(i think).
