Are you gona...
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I do not think there 'time' set for 'it'. For all you know, even married couples.. right down to the very old age... they are still findling abt one another. That, I think it's magical.Originally posted by browniebaobao:true hor?
but how long is adequate?
How abt when you find it comfortable enuff to talk anything under the sun between u and him? Remember, your partner is also your best friend.
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dun care whether B is good or not..
u know that A will not reciprocate but u cant control your feelings for him/her, will you go against ur feelings and accept B, and risk breaking his/her heart?
ehhhh.. dun beat me hor.. i know i asked too much...
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u have to c if u are a rational or emotional person... if u feel that the chance that A will love u is very slim.. then no point waiting for him lor.. unless u are sure that he got feeling for u..Originally posted by browniebaobao:but to give up A and leave with B is doing something against your heart right?
and what if after some time, u realize that it's still A that u love, and there's no more space in your heart for B anymore, what will you do? In this situation, is it immoral to ask for a break?
for me, i m rational + practical person, but when it come to love stuff, sometime emotion will try & rule my heart.. but i will let my rational brain take the lead..
if B is a wonderful bf, i c no reason for u to let him go.. but provided he is not someone u dislike.. must be gan de shun yan -
nono... actually that's not my answer....
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i wun accept someone who i dun feel totally comfortable with.. that's the most important factor.Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:I do not think there 'time' set for 'it'. For all you know, even married couples.. right down to the very old age... they are still findling abt one another. That, I think it's magical.
How abt when you find it comfortable enuff to talk anything under the sun between u and him? Remember, your partner is also your best friend.
i must be able to be myself when im with him.
so if I can't be comfortable with B, i wun even give him a chance. -
*kan* de shun yan la..Originally posted by mystee:u have to c if u are a rational or emotional person... if u feel that the chance that A will love u is very slim.. then no point waiting for him lor.. unless u are sure that he got feeling for u..
for me, i m rational + practical person, but when it come to love stuff, sometime emotion will try & rule my heart.. but i will let my rational brain take the lead..
if B is a wonderful bf, i c no reason for u to let him go.. but provided he is not someone u dislike.. must be gan de shun yan
someone ever told me before.. when dealing with affairs of the heart.. if ur mind and your heart contradicts, always follow your mind.
by following ur mind, u might have made the wiser choice, but that doesn't mean u will really be happier, that's wat i think. -
Originally posted by MooKu:nono... actually that's not my answer....
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u noe u like A
but life is just nt perfect and A wun reciprocrate due to a variety of reasons
so go and ZHI ZHAO a xin fu relationship with B ba -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:*[color=red]kan* de shun yan la..
someone ever told me before.. when dealing with affairs of the heart.. if ur mind and your heart contradicts, always follow your mind.
by following ur mind, u might have made the wiser choice, but that doesn't mean u will really be happier, that's wat i think.[/color] paisay.. my han yu pin ying not good lar..
i agree with that someone.. in life, nothing is perfect, so we can only choose the best that we have...
if u are afraid u wont be happy with B.. then how u noe u wil be happy with A? even thou the one who u love is A.. love is one thing.. being togther, and happy is another thing.. -
ning ke sha cuo, bu ke fang guo?Originally posted by pierre^^:u noe u like A
but life is just nt perfect and A wun reciprocrate due to a variety of reasons
so go and ZHI ZHAO a xin fu relationship with B ba -
To me, loving someone is your determination and commitment to care for the person and do things for the best of the person. So actually if you can tell yourself that you will commit yourself to B and be determined about it it will be called love.
If you all still haven't realise I duno what I'm talking about at all -
i think ar..Originally posted by killtuna:To me, loving someone is your determination and commitment to care for the person and do things for the best of the person. So actually if you can tell yourself that you will commit yourself to B and be determined about it it will be called love.
If you all still haven't realise I duno what I'm talking about at all
unless u are very compassionate..
if not, only when u really love a person, then u will care for her, do things for her from the bottom of your heart. -
wellOriginally posted by browniebaobao:ning ke sha cuo, bu ke fang guo?
i intepret it as give urself and B a chance
if things nv work out
well u still young -
this is juz a scenario la.Originally posted by pierre^^:well
i intepret it as give urself and B a chance
if things nv work out
well u still young -
Good, you do know where you are going. hahaha.Originally posted by browniebaobao:i wun accept someone who i dun feel totally comfortable with.. that's the most important factor.
i must be able to be myself when im with him.
so if I can't be comfortable with B, i wun even give him a chance.
As a matter of fact, it will be ideal if both side are comfortable wif one another... conversations flowed like ai-ru-chow-sui kind even before the seats are warmed. Of cos, that's a ideal scenerio... not that it wun happen but it does happen if something is right. That something, is chemistry?
Can't say that u should not give him chance or not cos take the dates as a time to know him better, as a friend. Suppress the notion that you die die machiam need to commit to a r/s wif him. Right? No? -
In short, it can be cultivated?Originally posted by killtuna:To me, loving someone is your determination and commitment to care for the person and do things for the best of the person. So actually if you can tell yourself that you will commit yourself to B and be determined about it it will be called love.
If you all still haven't realise I duno what I'm talking about at all -
Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:Good, you do know where you are going. hahaha.
As a matter of fact, it will be ideal if both side are comfortable wif one another... conversations flowed like ai-ru-chow-sui kind even before the seats are warmed. Of cos, that's a ideal scenerio... not that it wun happen but it does happen if something is right. That something, is chemistry?
Can't say that u should not give him chance or not cos take the dates as a time to know him better, as a friend. Suppress the notion that you die die machiam need to commit to a r/s wif him. Right? No?
great minds think alike leh.
and hor, u know which song me referring to or not? -
har, got something abt song in this thread meh?Originally posted by browniebaobao:
great minds think alike leh.
and hor, u know which song me referring to or not? -
i started this song bcos of that song mah..Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:har, got something abt song in this thread meh?
wahlew..
never read all the posts la.. -
ya, I read post selectively one... happens that ur thread tickles me lor.Originally posted by browniebaobao:i started this song bcos of that song mah..
wahlew..
never read all the posts la.. -
tickled which spot?Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:ya, I read post selectively one... happens that ur thread tickles me lor.
Originally posted by browniebaobao:bcos there's this song on my mind today.. i cant remember the title, cant remember who sang it.. i think it's a BREAD song..
it sings something like 'are you gona stay/leave with the one who loves you, or leave/stay with the one you love?"
actually i have been hoping bassie will come online.. then i can ask him whether he knows/have this song.
yandao, wu bo? -
i should go sleep le.
u guys continue to post ok?
nite nite everyone~ -
alamak, the song is not by Bread la.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Glen Frey - The One You love -
depend on situation...
Most likely stay with "A" cause no point going with "B" as you may hurt her...
Even if you can't be with someone you love, I don't think you want to hurt someone that love you.
However, if "B" manage to touch me with her action. Perhaps I will choose her but I will tell her I try my best not to let her be a substitute bah and if she ever find another guy that she like she can jolly well leave me... haha....
Than again... this have never happen to me so who knows...Maybe I'll choose "C"(bbb)
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This name is not very familiar leh..Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:alamak, the song is not by Bread la.
Glen Frey - The One You love
anyway, u got the song or not?