Are you gona...
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leave with the one who loves you or stay for the one who you love?
let's say, there's somebody (A) in your heart. It has been years, but he/she never reciprocate. And then, someone else (B) comes along, he/she wants you to be his/her better half. You have been alone for years and really yearn for someone to love you, and make your life complete.
will u accept B or continue to love A, even if you know that chances of him/her loving you is very slim? -
i will accept B.
cos "bei ai pi ai ren xin fu" -
A
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Why leave with somebody you don't love?
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that i duno le..Originally posted by mystee:i will accept B.
cos "bei ai pi ai ren xin fu"
coz i have never really been loved before..
but i think bei ni ai de ren ai cai shi zhen zheng de xing fu. -
i will choose
C) bbb
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i will still stick to A unless A tells me we cant be together in this life.
then B -
like wat mystee posted, being loved is more xing fu?Originally posted by MooKu:Why leave with somebody you don't love?
who knows, time may be able to cultivate love too? -
but bbb dun want u leh, how?Originally posted by monoslayer:i will choose
C) bbb -
i will go bangkok and not think about it
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that is the prefect case lor... but if really have to choose one, i will choose B..Originally posted by browniebaobao:that i duno le..
coz i have never really been loved before..
but i think bei ni ai de ren ai cai shi zhen zheng de xing fu.
but provided u dun dislike tat B lor.. cos i believe love can be nurtured de -
abish!Originally posted by kopiosatu:i will go bangkok and not think about it
if one day u cannot go bangkok liao, how? -
in tis case, i will give B) a chance.Originally posted by browniebaobao:but bbb dun want u leh, how? -
That scenerio, you dun hv to accept B in any time although he has hearts for you. It could be a short flame in his heart, that... we may not know.
Give time a chance. -
Don't know... perhaps...Originally posted by browniebaobao:like wat mystee posted, being loved is more xing fu?
who knows, time may be able to cultivate love too? -
but will u bear to let go of A?Originally posted by mystee:that is the prefect case lor... but if really have to choose one, i will choose B..
but provided u dun dislike tat B lor.. cos i believe love can be nurtured de
i mean.. the feelings for A..
will u still love A secretly in your heart when you are with B?
and if A realize that he has feelings for you too when you are attached to B, will you give up B and leave with A?
tough question huh? -
Oi, heartbreak hotel leh... not your Bangkok Inc lor.Originally posted by kopiosatu:i will go bangkok and not think about it -
bbb why do you ask this?
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true hor?Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:That scenerio, you dun hv to accept B in any time although he has hearts for you. It could be a short flame in his heart, that... we may not know.
Give time a chance.
but how long is adequate? -
bcos there's this song on my mind today.. i cant remember the title, cant remember who sang it.. i think it's a BREAD song..Originally posted by MooKu:bbb why do you ask this?
it sings something like 'are you gona stay/leave with the one who loves you, or leave/stay with the one you love?"
actually i have been hoping bassie will come online.. then i can ask him whether he knows/have this song.
yandao, wu bo? -
hmm... if that is the case, u have to confirm that A aldy noe u got feeling for him. but one thing lor.. u say he din do anything leh.. so long liao.. if a guy got interest for a gal, usually he will do something de lor...Originally posted by browniebaobao:but will u bear to let go of A?
i mean.. the feelings for A..
will u still love A secretly in your heart when you are with B?
and if A realize that he has feelings for you too when you are attached to B, will you give up B and leave with A?
tough question huh?
depends hw deep is ur love for A oso...
for me.. if my feeling for B is nurtured liao.. i wil not tink of A aldy..
to give up B and leave for A is very immoral leh.. i dun tink i will do tat.. -
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wow this is certain a tough one
if i got A in my heart, but i tink its like impossible task
den B i more got chance although i noe i love A
and i dun really have feelings for B
but being lonely for such a long time will make you yearn for a companion
thus i tink unless B is really that lousy
i will take B ba coz sometimes it takes time for love to grow
who noes maybe u will even be happier with B and B is such a lovely person
even though A will always occupied a special place in ur heart -
agree.. if B is a super good bf.. then y not? i m very practical de..Originally posted by pierre^^:wow this is certain a tough one
if i got A in my heart, but i tink its like impossible task
den B i more got chance although i noe i love A
and i dun really have feelings for B
but being lonely for such a long time will make you yearn for a companion
thus i tink unless B is really that lousy
i will take B ba coz sometimes it takes time for love to grow
who noes maybe u will even be happier with B and B is such a lovely person
even though A will always occupied a special place in ur heart -
but to give up A and leave with B is doing something against your heart right?Originally posted by mystee:hmm... if that is the case, u have to confirm that A aldy noe u got feeling for him. but one thing lor.. u say he din do anything leh.. so long liao.. if a guy got interest for a gal, usually he will do something de lor...
depends hw deep is ur love for A oso...
for me.. if my feeling for B is nurtured liao.. i wil not tink of A aldy..
to give up B and leave for A is very immoral leh.. i dun tink i will do tat..
and what if after some time, u realize that it's still A that u love, and there's no more space in your heart for B anymore, what will you do? In this situation, is it immoral to ask for a break?