Can love be cultivated?
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If you have been rejected by a girl, will you stay by her side and hoping she'll be touched by ur sincerity 1 day... or ask her a final qn if she minds u not giving up on her? I heard girls are different from guys. If they don't like you, no matter what u do they won't like u. Can love be cultivated? Other than moving on, which seems hard at the moment, any other constructive suggestions?
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yes but then there is a high chances that the girl will not like u, no matter how hard u tried.Originally posted by necrolyt3:If you have been rejected by a girl, will you stay by her side and hoping she'll be touched by ur sincerity 1 day... or ask her a final qn if she minds u not giving up on her? I heard girls are different from guys. If they don't like you, no matter what u do they won't like u. Can love be cultivated? Other than moving on, which seems hard at the moment, any other constructive suggestions?
Don't put all ur eggs in one basket. -
ya so dats y muz support polygamy.Originally posted by Isis:yes but then there is a high chances that the girl will not like u, no matter how hard u tried.
Don't put all ur eggs in one basket.
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yea so woman aso can have many husbands too loh.Originally posted by Ito_^:ya so dats y muz support polygamy. -
this is not utah....... i want to be a muslim in malaysia, can marry 2 wifeOriginally posted by Ito_^:ya so dats y muz support polygamy. 
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Originally posted by Ito_^:ya so dats y muz support polygamy.
Wait till the ladies come in and see this...
I can imagine an angry mob chasing after Ito... -
Originally posted by Isis:yea so woman aso can have many husbands too loh.
dats wad the definition said. -
I'll make origami out of you.Originally posted by Ito_^:ya so dats y muz support polygamy. -
Dun waste ur time on someone who doesnt know how to appreciate you.
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u need to prove u can sarport both of them equally well ok.Originally posted by allentyb:this is not utah....... i want to be a muslim in malaysia, can marry 2 wife
need lotsa money, time, patience and sperms. -
Originally posted by MooKu:I'll make origami out of you. i wan be froggy!
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y go ask her whether u can like her or not?
it's ur freedom.
if i love somebody, i will continue loving, even if he duno about it..
hopefully one day he will understand.. -
Then how do u love him from a distance? There is nothing really much u can do abt it isn't it? I regreted cos' i was like quite irritating and stalking her lidat. it's not a gd thing to like some1 alot too.. it will mess up ur mind, doing things u dunno wat ur doing. but i juz cant turn back anymore. I have already given her the impression that im a desperado stalker. I guess the best thing to do now is to leave her alone, dun contact her for a few mths. I wonder if it's the wisest thing to do.
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I can understand how u feel..
when u like somebody too much, u tend to miss him/her a lot. then start to do things out of ur mind.
love doesn't have to be physical right? so y can't love from a distance? tho i will say, it's hard to maintain that love. -
One sided love?????Originally posted by browniebaobao:I can understand how u feel..
when u like somebody too much, u tend to miss him/her a lot. then start to do things out of ur mind.
love doesn't have to be physical right? so y can't love from a distance? tho i will say, it's hard to maintain that love.
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sad but true hor..Originally posted by Patrik:One sided love????? -
Loving someone doesn't mean the one must love you.
Love can be in many ways. -
yup i agree. But how many of us can be that noble.. love from a distance?
I think most of us become 'noble' becoz we are left with no choice. I guess i will slowly drag my feet and move on.. Im checkmated. no use becoming a sore loser and turn the tables. Thx for ur help.. i think hotel heart break is better than aunt agony... haha -
hmm.. ur siggie is the same as one quote in my fren's friendster wor.Originally posted by necrolyt3:yup i agree. But how many of us can be that noble.. love from a distance?
I think most of us become 'noble' becoz we are left with no choice. I guess i will slowly drag my feet and move on.. Im checkmated. no use becoming a sore loser and turn the tables. Thx for ur help.. i think hotel heart break is better than aunt agony... haha
left with no choice or juz plain stubborn?
for me, it's plain stubborn. -
maybe im ur fren :p
maybe stubborn ba. if we know he/she is the one for us, it's unlikely we will give up easily. Once we give up, we may not have the chance to meet another person who captures our hearts so well. -
people who think/worry less. easier to cultivate.
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if u are that fren of mine, i will tell u that she's not worth it.Originally posted by necrolyt3:maybe im ur fren :p
maybe stubborn ba. if we know he/she is the one for us, it's unlikely we will give up easily. Once we give up, we may not have the chance to meet another person who captures our hearts so well. -
frankly, there is no definitive answer..
sometimes, yes.. sometimes no..
go find your own way.. in matters of the heart, there is no such thing as a sure thing.. and that is why it is worth more than the world
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yes it can. but why not cultivate e love 1st beore asking her? you have a higher chance in this.
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i dunno how to cultivate also. i have cork up everything. making her avoid me or lessen her contact with me. I think even 1 normal sms to her will annoy her..