The Top 10 Subjects To Avoid in Early Stages of a R/S
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Was searching something from my back-up CDs when I came across this one in one of the folders. Will post others in time to come.
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This Top 10 was created during a Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus Workshop (developed by Dr. John Gray, facilitated by Barbara Hannah.)
1. Past relationships / previous sex life.
2. Commitment.
3. Marriage or children.
4. Inner emotional difficulties or personal problems.
5. Weaknesses.
6. Financial woes or legal problems.
7. Mom or Dad.
8. Physical ailments.
9. Politics or religion.
10. Things I don't like about you. -
Whoooppps.... think I could hv post this in Dating Advice forum instead. Oh well.
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Upz~!
Thank your for sharing.
But somehow I feel that it's good to make things clear earlier, so that both knows where is the limit and decide whether they can really accept each other. -
precisely!Originally posted by browniebaobao:Upz~!
Thank your for sharing.
But somehow I feel that it's good to make things clear earlier, so that both knows where is the limit and decide whether they can really accept each other.
that's why when I read AA posts ... I can't help but
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hmm, some of it does make sense. But still, honesty is the best policy.
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hello!Originally posted by rmyfrm:precisely!
that's why when I read AA posts ... I can't help but at alot of the threads
this is the first time i see your nick.
welcome to Hotel Heartbreak~
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some things are better not to be too honest about.Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:hmm, some of it does make sense. But still, honesty is the best policy. -
its good to have some secrets by urself.
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Originally posted by Cool-gal:its good to have some secrets by urself. why?
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you working for the CIA or KGB is it?Originally posted by browniebaobao:some things are better not to be too honest about. -
Hmmmm....
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But if friends purposely say those things for you and all the while you kept your mouth shut ?
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Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:
fark ! ... again ! ...
9. Politics or religion.
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Why avoid? wait until married then discuss? Better to know earlier if not the pain will be more after both have committed.
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how early is early?
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simiwagoh?Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:you working for the CIA or KGB is it? -
simiwagoh?
Spy Agency -
Maybe browniebaobao is MI6.Originally posted by browniebaobao:simiwagoh? -
Maybe browniebaobao is MI6.
Mrs Bond -
As for me...l tink it is good to be truthful to ur partnerOriginally posted by browniebaobao:some things are better not to be too honest about.
l am already very truthful with my good guy frenz liao...l dun see the reason to hide my past and etc, my thoughts to her...
l was tinking if l can be so truthful in front of my good guy frenz...l dun see the reason to hide any secrets from the woman that l am going to live with till old..
Besides l dun really hav any dark secrets or secrets that is very bad or unpleasant
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This seems like sound advice. But I've always have problems finding topics to talk about with girls. What sort of things do girls like their guys to chat with them about?Originally posted by browniebaobao:Upz~!
Thank your for sharing.
But somehow I feel that it's good to make things clear earlier, so that both knows where is the limit and decide whether they can really accept each other. -
having read ur posts...Originally posted by xShevchenkox:As for me...l tink it is good to be truthful to ur partner
l am already very truthful with my good guy frenz liao...l dun see the reason to hide my past and etc, my thoughts to her...
l was tinking if l can be so truthful in front of my good guy frenz...l dun see the reason to hide any secrets from the woman that l am going to live with till old..
Besides l dun really hav any dark secrets or secrets that is very bad or unpleasant
i ask u ar, if ur gf tells u that she is no longer a virgin, how would u react?
i believe u can't take it de. -
harlow dakkon~Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:This seems like sound advice. But I've always have problems finding topics to talk about with girls. What sort of things do girls like their guys to chat with them about?
happy cny~ how are u?
it's a plus if the guy is humourous.. (note: i said humourous and not lame) but if he's not, nvm.. juz dun talk about politics or anything offensive to a girl. hmmm try not to make the girl feel that she's being interrogated or u are doing a family background check.
things i like to know from someone i like are his dreams, his interests, his hobbies etc..
but if u are really comfortable with somebody, u can talk about anything under the sun. that's wat i feel la.. -
Hi, bbb. Happy CNY to you too. Thanks for the reply. Unfortunately I'm not a very humorous person, so no bonus from that. I do want to talk about my dreams, interests and hobbies, but a lot of times I just feel that the other person just wouldn't understand.Originally posted by browniebaobao:harlow dakkon~
happy cny~ how are u?
it's a plus if the guy is humourous.. (note: i said humourous and not lame) but if he's not, nvm.. juz dun talk about politics or anything offensive to a girl. hmmm try not to make the girl feel that she's being interrogated or u are doing a family background check.
things i like to know from someone i like are his dreams, his interests, his hobbies etc..
but if u are really comfortable with somebody, u can talk about anything under the sun. that's wat i feel la..
I guess you are right that chemistry does count for a lot, but it seems pretty hard to find a girl who has such chemistry with me. -
hmm?Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:Hi, bbb. Happy CNY to you too. Thanks for the reply. Unfortunately I'm not a very humorous person, so no bonus from that. I do want to talk about my dreams, interests and hobbies, but a lot of times I just feel that the other person just wouldn't understand.
I guess you are right that chemistry does count for a lot, but it seems pretty hard to find a girl who has such chemistry with me.
i tot u have a gf?
i think it's the opposite for me..
i want to know but they dun really wana say..