After How Many Days Then Can Call?
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Lets say a couple quarreled and say out words like break up and such.
They finished the conversation on bad terms. The next day, one of them msg and ask the other party if they are still together. The answer was yes.
Judging that both are still angry and sore over the argument, for how long should the cold war last?
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since the answer is yes, can meet immediately.
dont forget your flowers.
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You can use the Cold War between the US and Soviet Union as a guage.Originally posted by mhcampboy:Lets say a couple quarreled and say out words like break up and such.
They finished the conversation on bad terms. The next day, one of them msg and ask the other party if they are still together. The answer was yes.
Judging that both are still angry and sore over the argument, for how long should the cold war last? 
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Anyway, both are hot headed. If lets say, both wanna be egoistic, how long should it last? -
As short as possible?
The longer you drag, the wider the gap. -
Few days can?Originally posted by MooKu:As short as possible?
The longer you drag, the wider the gap. -
Case to case basis.Originally posted by mhcampboy:Few days can?
But then I really do think the longer you drag, the wider the gap loh, no matter what. Maybe you can close the gap later? I dunno. -
say sry..blame urself...everything will be perfectly normal.
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Blame yourself?Originally posted by Aaron8105:say sry..blame urself...everything will be perfectly normal.
That's like the wrong of all wrong answers. -
No la. This is not about who is in the wrong. Just wondering, what is the acceptable "time" before calling....
How many days shld the ignored be ignored...? -
depends on your girl...if she's those unreasonable type....then must call within the same day....
If she's more mature..u can take 1 day...tell her to give yourselves a bit of time to cool down in case say wrong thing while not thinking straight..
But experience is that..u should settle it within the day.. "ye4 chang2 meng4 duo1" -
Looking back,u will realise that this so-called cold war was uncalled for.
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If the answer is "yes, both are still together", then why need the cold war? Cold war is when either one party or both parties still "buay song" leh.
Anyways, patching up can be romantic so don't let the cold war last too long. But actually, after a while, you both may forget why you both fought in the first place!
Like don't know which post indicated, no cookie cutter solutions. It just depends on how you or your partner feels.
Aiyah, new year round the corner. Don't cold war lah. Just go pick up that phone and say "I love you and missed you dearly."
Good luck!
and yes
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it depends on individual and how heated was the argument.
usually if i stop smsing, it can really take months for me to sms again.
so he shall be prepared.
if he hurt me, he should bear the consequences. -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:it depends on individual and how heated was the argument.
usually if i stop smsing, it can really take months for me to sms again.
so he shall be prepared.
if he hurt me, he should bear the consequences.
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It depends. Usually a week will be fine for a cool down period. After that, if she start msg u, then u should apologise. If both parties are stubborn, then i guess the male has to give in 1st and initiate an apology. Pride n ego is nothing worth 1 lah...Originally posted by mhcampboy:Lets say a couple quarreled and say out words like break up and such.
They finished the conversation on bad terms. The next day, one of them msg and ask the other party if they are still together. The answer was yes.
Judging that both are still angry and sore over the argument, for how long should the cold war last?
But the thing is, why get into a situation when a couple quarrel? Yes sometimes quarrels can spice things up and trigger emotions and show that both parties still care for each other. Coz if one is not even bothered to quarrel, it means he/she may not even give a damn about the relationship anymore. However, every quarrel means there will be "scratches" in the relationship and it will come a time when the war may last forever...Means one party may think it is no use trying to salvage the relationship anymore. My fren once told me that each quarrel causes a dent in the relationship and it is not healthy in the long run. So, think about it. It's okay to make mistakes, but sometimes too much of it is not good.
Think what is the cause of the quarrel and find the root of the problem. That would be a better solution.