how not to feel sad

• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 00:32

  how not to feel sad when all u have done has just gone with the wind. ple dun appreciate u. ple take u for granted. ple treat u like a toy. ple come n go as they want. me? waiting for sadness. waiting in vain. waiting for nothing.
  
  
• ^spidee^

  26 Oct 06, 00:44

  Give it time, youÂ’ll learn to fly
  Tomorrow is a new day
  And you will find your own way
  YouÂ’ll be stronger with each day that you cry
  Then youÂ’ll learn to fly
  
• Ito_^

  26 Oct 06, 00:44

  its like asking how to feel sad. imo, the best way not to feel sad is to feel sad and cry about it. repressed emotions are dangerous over long period of time.
• alvin-ncs

  26 Oct 06, 00:50

  for me i got 2 ways not to feel sad/fastrated...
  
  listen music loud loud and think of nth...
  it helps sometimes...
  
  go arcade to chiong....
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:04

  i've been crying for many times til i cant stop it. inside my heart, i feel so pain now. im going thru the downest pit of my 24yrs of life.
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 01:09

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  i've been crying for many times til i cant stop it. inside my heart, i feel so pain now. im going thru the downest pit of my 24yrs of life.

  well face watever pain it is n walk on... theres frens n forumers here to talk to so no need to take it all by urself...
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:14

  i got no one to talk to, tats why i felt so bottled. any idea wads the cost of consulting a psychiatrist?
• ^spidee^

  26 Oct 06, 01:17

  
  
  How about these helplines? http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=75218
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 01:19

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  i got no one to talk to, tats why i felt so bottled. any idea wads the cost of consulting a psychiatrist?

  u got free psychiatrist here lo (except u need to pay for their drinks)... here at HH or AA jz buzz anyone...
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:23

  thank you guys...
  hope i didnt give u guys a wrong impression.
  sometimes i just cant stop thinking, n the stress can gives me insomnia.
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:25

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  u got free psychiatrist here lo (except u need to pay for their drinks)... here at HH or AA jz buzz anyone...

  ya, i noe. thanks.
  but oso i dun reli like to make known my problems.
  not very nice too.
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:26

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  
  
  How about these helplines? http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=75218

  thanks, noted
  
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 01:30

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  thank you guys...
  hope i didnt give u guys a wrong impression.
  sometimes i just cant stop thinking, n the stress can gives me insomnia.

  relac la... its norm la cos when some face problems they tend to tink too much... tats y u need to let it all out n distract urself with other stuffs(movies, games, fren gathering, sports, etc..)
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 01:32

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  ya, i noe. thanks.
  but oso i dun reli like to make known my problems.
  not very nice too.

  well since so, get professional help...
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:34

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  relac la... its norm la cos when some face problems they tend to tink too much... tats y u need to let it all out n distract urself with other stuffs(movies, games, fren gathering, sports, etc..)

  im a person with no life. i dun go out n would normally go home after work. my frenz are all too busy with their life(married or attached), and i do not want to bother them my problem. for my family, i dun tell them my inner n personal life. and my only hobby is to online n surf sgforum or read books n music.
  
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:37

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  well since so, get professional help...

  im sorry, not tat u guys are of no help, by replying my post, u r helping me a great deal liao. thanksss...
  just tat, i reli need some help like some medication for my stress n insomnia.
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 01:42

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  im a person with no life. i dun go out n would normally go home after work. my frenz are all too busy with their life(married or attached), and i do not want to bother them my problem. for my family, i dun tell them my inner n personal life. and my only hobby is to online n surf sgforum or read books n music.
  

  maybe u should join the outings here... since u know u no life then u should open urslef to new things to keep urself distracted... u might find new happiness there... it dont hurt to know more new single frens too... dun worry u still hv forumers here online or offline to chat or crap with so dun lose ur smile...
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 01:48

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  im sorry, not tat u guys are of no help, by replying my post, u r helping me a great deal liao. thanksss...
  just tat, i reli need some help like some medication for my stress n insomnia.

  haha not to worry... dun tink spidee or anyone here is hurt...
  but u should avoid medication cos it only save u for now, it cant save u forever... handling stress is a technique which u should pickup so u can handle it for life...
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:48

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  maybe u should join the outings here... since u know u no life then u should open urslef to new things to keep urself distracted... u might find new happiness there... it dont hurt to know more new single frens too... dun worry u still hv forumers here online or offline to chat or crap with so dun lose ur smile...

  thank you, u r so sweet..
  but im quite shy, u see and stil new here, and dun noe anyone here except online to exchange some posts.
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 01:51

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  haha not to worry... dun tink spidee or anyone here is hurt...
  but u should avoid medication cos it only save u for now, it cant save u forever... handling stress is a technique which u should pickup so u can handle it for life...

  to be frank, i've been trying to cope with my stress for near to a yr. sometimes im fine, but sometimes i feel shit. and this stress of mine reli brings me to the bottom, i have never been so down b4. i guess i was leading a good life b4 tragedy struck.
• ^spidee^

  26 Oct 06, 01:52

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  haha not to worry... dun tink spidee or anyone here is hurt...
  but u should avoid medication cos it only save u for now, it cant save u forever... handling stress is a technique which u should pickup so u can handle it for life...

  haha, no way, I'm made of rhino skin..
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 01:54

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  thank you, u r so sweet..
  but im quite shy, u see and stil new here, and dun noe anyone here except online to exchange some posts.

  shy still must face life ma... theres always a first time to anything... no worry la no one will laugh at u so jz keep urself free for new things... haha im new too... nice to meet u...
• Cool-gal

  26 Oct 06, 02:06

  okok.
  thanks brutus n spidee.
  me finally feel sleepy liao..
  nites.
  may u guys have the sweetest dream ever.
  god bless..
  
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 02:06

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  to be frank, i've been trying to cope with my stress for near to a yr. sometimes im fine, but sometimes i feel shit. and this stress of mine reli brings me to the bottom, i have never been so down b4. i guess i was leading a good life b4 tragedy struck.

  since u r down, pick urself up, grab onto a block of wood or something... start things afresh... look at urself from 3rd person view n see wat can be done next.... u cant tink of ideas? then talk to forumers(since ur supposed to be frens arent available) here... life is to enjoy so dun keep things to urself even if u fail... instead face it, talk abt it, decide on the next move so u can continue to be happy...
• BrUtUs

  26 Oct 06, 02:08

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  okok.
  thanks brutus n spidee.
  me finally feel sleepy liao..
  nites.
  may u guys have the sweetest dream ever.
  god bless..
  

  cheers...