Advice for heart broken and lonely...
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Hi, I am new ={
Broke off with my gf of 3 years. Reason was because I wasnt spending much time with her and because I seems like I am spending more effort on gaming as compared to her. But I already wanted to stop, but I was too late v_v she's saying she likes one new guy every few month and thats not going to work out. Guess the break was mutual...I dont want to find out who's at fault also...too much thinking is painful...
I feel that i have failed terribly v_v all along I am putting her on the highest priority of my life, and yet this can happen....
After the break, I realise I have little friends around to fill my loneliness. Now I have too much time and too little things to do...So much time I keep thinking about her.......
Please advice on how to fill my emptiness........ V_V" -
Too much gaming can be fatal in a r/s...have seen too many r/s deteriorate cos the guys spent too much time playing games until dun wan to eat and dun wan to get out from their room...as a result their gfs will feel neglected...who wudnt be?
To fill the emptiness...i guess for now just spend more time wif your frens and family? Or take up a new hobby of some sorts to fill your time, so that you won't be thinking abt your broken r/s...
Take this as a lesson ba...and time will heal your wound. Good luck
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get over it, it's pointless. no point getting back with her or what so ever. develop your interests / take out some sports. even if you get back with her and it works all cool now, things will sure get nasty in the future.
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I already reduced the amount of playing alot and wanted to spend more time with her.
Then she's sick and dont want to come out to meet me. (but went to meet other friends instead...zzz) When finally met her, its a break-up meeting..T_T
Don't think our relationship is suitable also...but...but.................
i just she bu de.... v_v""
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narh, girls are like that. once things are pretty screwed, it means it will be screwed forever.
just have a few more girlfriends, so ultimately you meet every different kind of them, you'll know at the end of the day, which 1 is them most suitable to be your wife.
don't get strained by a relationship, there are so many much more things out there in life you can do. -
if you're not going to cut down on gaming, the next one's going to be the same ... -
first and foremost, welcome to ~ Hotel Heartbreak ~
2 right person at the wrong time, no one is wrong
relationship is, in my opinion, is abt choices and compromising.
you chose gaming,
she chose to leave...
all said and done, wat could happen, had happened.
time to move on too.
learn from this lesson and be a better lover for the next girl in your life
joining the forum is a good choice, now join some outing to meet some new friends and keep yourself entertained with human beings by crapping within this corner in cyberspace
cheers and good luckOriginally posted by maomaomao:Hi, I am new ={
Broke off with my gf of 3 years. Reason was because I wasnt spending much time with her and because I seems like I am spending more effort on gaming as compared to her. But I already wanted to stop, but I was too late v_v she's saying she likes one new guy every few month and thats not going to work out. Guess the break was mutual...I dont want to find out who's at fault also...too much thinking is painful...
I feel that i have failed terribly v_v all along I am putting her on the highest priority of my life, and yet this can happen....
After the break, I realise I have little friends around to fill my loneliness. Now I have too much time and too little things to do...So much time I keep thinking about her.......
Please advice on how to fill my emptiness........ V_V" -
She is not ur first priority.. GAMING is.Originally posted by maomaomao:Hi, I am new ={
Broke off with my gf of 3 years. Reason was because I wasnt spending much time with her and because I seems like I am spending more effort on gaming as compared to her. But I already wanted to stop, but I was too late v_v she's saying she likes one new guy every few month and thats not going to work out. Guess the break was mutual...I dont want to find out who's at fault also...too much thinking is painful...
I feel that i have failed terribly v_v all along I am putting her on the highest priority of my life, and yet this can happen....
After the break, I realise I have little friends around to fill my loneliness. Now I have too much time and too little things to do...So much time I keep thinking about her.......
Please advice on how to fill my emptiness........ V_V"
what to do?
she likes someone new every few months..
and u love ur game..
u are just not suitable for each other..
Next time find a gf who loves to play games with u ba.
meanwhile, know more friends, engage in more healthy activities. -
I think he has know his mistake and let's not crirticise him anymore! *pat* *pat* *pat*
Hope U will be more wiser in yr next r/s
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That's not criticizing.Originally posted by CannyOng:I think he has know his mistake and let's not crirticise him anymore! *pat* *pat* *pat*
Hope U will be more wiser in yr next r/s
That's juz telling him not to deceive himself. -
I am willing to throw away all my games.
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talk is cheap.
throw first
remember to take video
Originally posted by Patrik:I am willing to throw away all my games. -
Actually i dun have much games.Originally posted by foga:talk is cheap.
throw first
remember to take video
Most of them are with my friends.
The remaining ones,i also dunno at where le.
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Give me ur games
Next time if want to play games, get her involved also -
Time to fix a broken heart...
*Hums Fixing a broken heart* -
learn from this n walk on... when it comes to gals need as much effort as u can give...Originally posted by maomaomao:Hi, I am new ={
Broke off with my gf of 3 years. Reason was because I wasnt spending much time with her and because I seems like I am spending more effort on gaming as compared to her. But I already wanted to stop, but I was too late v_v she's saying she likes one new guy every few month and thats not going to work out. Guess the break was mutual...I dont want to find out who's at fault also...too much thinking is painful...
I feel that i have failed terribly v_v all along I am putting her on the highest priority of my life, and yet this can happen....
After the break, I realise I have little friends around to fill my loneliness. Now I have too much time and too little things to do...So much time I keep thinking about her.......
Please advice on how to fill my emptiness........ V_V" -
like someone mentioned, learm from this sad episod and move on.
making a mistake means having the chance to learn something
making the mistake twice, that's stupidity